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Be Kind to your Fellow Freepers
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Posted on 10/03/2024 7:10:15 AM PDT by DiogenesLamp

I think many of us come here for some fellowship with like minded conservative allies and it makes us happy to see that we are not alone.

But, over the years I have noticed something that seems amiss to me, which is the lack of responses to people who have expressed their opinion.

Many is the time that I see a comment to which no one has replied; a situation in which no one responds to a Freeper who has expressed an opinion.

I think most, if not all of us, would likely enjoy an acknowledgement that people have read our comment and agree with it, or even that people have read it and disagree with it! (So that we can have an argument, which is something we contrarians tend to enjoy! :) )

I urge people to respond to comments from other Freepers, especially if that comment is directed at you. I encourage Freepers to acknowledge the people who have posted a message to you, because we all want to believe our opinions matter and are worthy of consideration.

At the very least give them a "+1" (which means "UpVote") to indicate you've read their comment and agree with it. A more thoughtful reply is even better!

Let people know you care what they think and are not indifferent to their existence.

Not only should this boost the amount of traffic on Free Republic, it should encourage a happier more pleasant experience for all participants. It may even lead to more people wanting to join Free Republic!


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To: drSteve78
I’ve been told that there are two types of people in the world, people that understand sarcasm, and idiots.

I heard three types of people, those who can count and those who can't.

101 posted on 10/03/2024 8:37:35 AM PDT by Gil4 (And the trees are all kept equal by hatchet, ax and saw)
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To: Fresh Wind
If you start with upvoting and downvoting, FR risks becoming another Reddit.

I don't know anything about "Reddit". I presume from your comment, that this would be a bad thing?

What is the downside of upvotting and downvotting? I've seen it on other websites. I've got something like 43,000 "upvotes" on one of them.

I think they are kinda like monopoly money. They aren't really good for anything, but you can have fun getting them.

Downvotes? I've got plenty of those too, but they are way outnumbered by my upvotes.

I think "upvotes" are an acknowledgment of sorts that other people saw some bit of merit in something you have said.

I think that makes most people a tiny bit happier.

102 posted on 10/03/2024 8:38:13 AM PDT by DiogenesLamp ("of parents owing allegiance to no other sovereignty.")
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To: DiogenesLamp; Lazamataz

“Be Kind to your fellow Freeper.”

I will be kind if Laz will be kind.

Did you know Laz and me are twins?

5.56mm


103 posted on 10/03/2024 8:39:49 AM PDT by M Kehoe (Quid Pro Joe and the Ho have got to go. )
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To: aspasia
Back in the day it was BTTT.

I've never completely understood what "Bump To The Top" means.

Does it come from websites where upvotes moves your comment higher in the thread?

I can see some benefit to doing that too. It allows the best comments to rise to the top.

104 posted on 10/03/2024 8:40:25 AM PDT by DiogenesLamp ("of parents owing allegiance to no other sovereignty.")
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To: alancarp
Even better... maybe throw 5 bucks a month into the cause we all rely on for our news and insights? Would you even miss it?

I encourage everyone to donate to Free Republic.

105 posted on 10/03/2024 8:41:15 AM PDT by DiogenesLamp ("of parents owing allegiance to no other sovereignty.")
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To: AAABEST

It doesn’t mean anything much to me when I receive no responses; I just assume that people have nothing particular to say about what I posted. And when I don’t respond, it doesn’t mean I’m ignoring anyone; I just have nothing particular to say.

But the outright and often vulgar insults I see here, when people simply disagree with another’s opinion, are upsetting. I think suggesting that we refrain from those would be a lot more useful than encouraging the posting of a perfunctory ‘+1’.


106 posted on 10/03/2024 8:41:56 AM PDT by Jamestown1630 ("A Republic, if you can keep it.")
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To: Magnum44
BTW, if I dont reply to your posts, its because I...arrggg...

:)

That's pretty good.

107 posted on 10/03/2024 8:42:02 AM PDT by DiogenesLamp ("of parents owing allegiance to no other sovereignty.")
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To: stevio
I take no offense when someone doesn’t respond, I understand it was too deep and they need to process. ;^)

Me too!

108 posted on 10/03/2024 8:51:25 AM PDT by DiogenesLamp ("of parents owing allegiance to no other sovereignty.")
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To: Flaming Conservative
Good idea. I’m guilty of not always acknowledging replies. In the end, it’s just common courtesy, because it is, after all, a conversation.

Yes. Exactly. If people don't respond, one has to wonder if they even saw your message or if they chose not to read it.

At least with some sign that you have been heard, you can feel like the conversation is complete.

109 posted on 10/03/2024 8:53:47 AM PDT by DiogenesLamp ("of parents owing allegiance to no other sovereignty.")
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To: Prince of Space
I agree. Sometimes I feel like I’m posting into the wind because I get no responses. I wish we had a “like” button for that reason alone.

Exactly. On other websites, after I have read a comment and I have nothing I can think of to add to it, I simply upvote them so that they know I read what they said and I agree with it, but have nothing further to add.

110 posted on 10/03/2024 8:55:46 AM PDT by DiogenesLamp ("of parents owing allegiance to no other sovereignty.")
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To: DiogenesLamp

Apologies — was a general call; did not intend to single you out by any means.


111 posted on 10/03/2024 8:59:04 AM PDT by alancarp (George Orwell was an optimist.)
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To: DiogenesLamp

I’ve seen it, and I can only advise others to learn to love a good fight! This is the internet, and people should not take so seriously what they read from disembodied text on the internet.

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“This is the Internet. Everyone gets flamed. For everything.”
— SanityInAnarchy, /.

If you don’t know what a flame job is,

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Flaming_(Internet)


112 posted on 10/03/2024 8:59:22 AM PDT by dagunk
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To: DiogenesLamp

Of course we do. Huh?


113 posted on 10/03/2024 9:00:11 AM PDT by rktman (Destroy America from withinE? Check! WTH? Enlisted USN 1967 to end up with this💩? 🚫💉! 🇮🇱👍!)
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To: al baby
Instead of using sincerely , fondly ,love and such at the end of a letter I’m going to start using. “swollen and engorged’

Okay, that genuinely made me laugh.


114 posted on 10/03/2024 9:00:56 AM PDT by Lazamataz (If you are upset the bullet missed, contact me immediately. I'll make sure your bullet doesn't.)
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To: Navy Patriot
Well then, get to it.

Opportunity must present itself. Years ago I got banned from a website because people took issue with me saying that if I ever got the chance, I would punch George Stephanopolous in the nose.

People asked me why I just didn't do it? I said it was because he lives in New York, and I am over a thousand miles from there, plus I would never try something like that in a City so crazy insane as New York, where they would throw the book at you for just disagreeing with their political views.

Where I live, it would have been a $300.00 fine, but in New York, I'd probably get prison or some other stupid sh*t.

Nah, I have to have an opportunity that doesn't require me to pay an excessive cost for expressing myself in this manner.

And George still needs a punch in the nose. So does a whole bunch of other News-liars out there.

115 posted on 10/03/2024 9:01:22 AM PDT by DiogenesLamp ("of parents owing allegiance to no other sovereignty.")
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To: Lazamataz

Yewwwwwwww. Hopefully not turgid as well. 😂👍


116 posted on 10/03/2024 9:01:42 AM PDT by rktman (Destroy America from withinE? Check! WTH? Enlisted USN 1967 to end up with this💩? 🚫💉! 🇮🇱👍!)
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To: Migraine
I mean, after all, a duck could be somebody’s mother.

Ahem, don't forget your friends in the swamp where the weather is very very damp!

117 posted on 10/03/2024 9:02:10 AM PDT by rockabyebaby (THE BEST IS YET TO COME - (PRESIDENT DONALD J. TRUMP))
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To: DiogenesLamp
That was a fowl reply, sir. It seems, sir, most obvious that you can play toe to toe.... :)
118 posted on 10/03/2024 9:02:21 AM PDT by Worldtraveler once upon a time (Degrow government)
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To: Mr. K
It would also be nice if responses were ‘nested’ under the original post

Yeah, but I think to do that would require a *LOT* of rewriting of code.

I know there is a ‘find responses’ link, so the data is there

There are so many things I have posted on Free Republic that I wish I could find again, but I learned a long time ago that it is near impossible to do a meaningful data search on Free Republic to find the relevant information I want.

It is always drowned out by non-related messages that somehow share a search term.

119 posted on 10/03/2024 9:04:20 AM PDT by DiogenesLamp ("of parents owing allegiance to no other sovereignty.")
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To: fuzzylogic
Isn’t that why other sites have a ‘like’ button?

It adds a little bit of functionality and encouragement.

FR UI is so outdated...this would be a welcome addition imo.

I think so too, but then, *I* don't have to re-write the code to create that functionality! :)

120 posted on 10/03/2024 9:06:25 AM PDT by DiogenesLamp ("of parents owing allegiance to no other sovereignty.")
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