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I was fatally attracted to men with good looks, super-confidence and status - but they didn't make me happy: Dating coach tells single women it is time to ditch the addiction to alpha males and bag a beta if they want long-term love
UK Daily Mail ^ | March 19, 2023 | Mairi Macleod

Posted on 03/20/2023 6:17:43 AM PDT by C19fan

As a biologist, I know quite a bit about animal behaviour - I studied monkey mating strategies for my PhD - but I confess that I have made some poor choices when it comes to finding a mate of my own.

(Excerpt) Read more at dailymail.co.uk ...


TOPICS: Society
KEYWORDS: dating; freepersapplaud; manosphere; men; mgtow; pua; redpill; saynotoincels; women
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To: C19fan

Good looking does not mean vain. Plenty of good looking men are great catches. This is just another feminist attack on men and women, trying to tell women to stop looking for a good man because they don’t exist.


41 posted on 03/20/2023 6:40:32 AM PDT by CodeToad (No Arm up! They have!)
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To: ConservativeInPA

Legal, abundant and affordable prostitution, once a staple of the expanding west, used to be societies safety valve. What happened?


42 posted on 03/20/2023 6:40:54 AM PDT by central_va (I won't be reconstructed and I do not give a damn...)
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To: central_va
That 10 you crave is not wife material. She will probably be a prostitute and charge you $500/hr

Sounds as though she's at least honest about it!

"If it flies, floats, or f***s, you're better off renting."

Regards,

43 posted on 03/20/2023 6:40:57 AM PDT by alexander_busek (Extraordinary claims require extraordinary evidence.)
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To: C19fan

“ Infuriatingly, as a single mum, I found myself repeating”

So she got the sperm of an Alpha and now wants some cuck to raise her child.


44 posted on 03/20/2023 6:41:10 AM PDT by Jewbacca (The residents of Iroquois territory may not determine whether Jews may live in Jerusalem.)
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To: Vermont Lt

A really good looking bartender once told me you only need one thing-money.

If you don’t have it you do the next best thing-you tell them what they want to hear. How do you think BJ and the Kenyan got elected?

We’re doing something wrong wouldn’t you say.


45 posted on 03/20/2023 6:43:46 AM PDT by DIRTYSECRET
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To: C19fan

All I see is “me”, “my needs and wants”, etc.

No one without a servants heart is going to find any benefit or fulfillment in a long-term relationship.

It ain’t all about you.


46 posted on 03/20/2023 6:44:02 AM PDT by larrytown (A Cadet will not lie, cheat, steal, or tolerate those who do. Then they graduate...)
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To: unixfox
Women like this ignore all these “regular” guys in their 20’s. Only to find out in their 30’s & 40’s nobody wants them. How’s that ole feminism/independent thing working now bitches?

It's working out with them heating up their Tovala oven dinner and drinking box wine every night while watching MSNBC surrounded by three to four cats.

And calling any rational male who doesn't want a serious relationship with them an incel.
47 posted on 03/20/2023 6:44:36 AM PDT by SlipperySlope99
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To: AuntB

“At my age it doesn’t matter with the advent of Viagra.”

Les Paul (92) said that was like putting a new flagpole on a condemned building.


48 posted on 03/20/2023 6:44:50 AM PDT by bk1000 (Banned from Breitbart)
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To: central_va
Legal, abundant and affordable prostitution, once a staple of the expanding west, used to be societiey's safety valve. What happened?

Are you trying to imply that prostitution has vanished? Are you a resident of Salt Lake City, or what?

Regards,

49 posted on 03/20/2023 6:45:16 AM PDT by alexander_busek (Extraordinary claims require extraordinary evidence.)
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To: Jonty30; Phoenix8

You guys never had slutty girls in your school that serviced all the guys, remember hookers, easy girls that got passed around?

There is no reason for males and females to have had the same number of hook-ups.


50 posted on 03/20/2023 6:46:06 AM PDT by ansel12 (NATO warrior under Reagan, and RA under Nixon, bemoaning the pro-Russians from Vietnam to Ukraine.)
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To: alexander_busek

I was, of course, speaking as an alpha high value man.


51 posted on 03/20/2023 6:47:09 AM PDT by Louis Foxwell (We are not fit to live free but must be enslaved to control the chaos of our unfettered appetites.)
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To: alexander_busek

Prostitution was never sigmatized like it is now. Pre 1920’s visiting a prostitiute was on the low down but not look at as some kind of weird aberrant behavior.


52 posted on 03/20/2023 6:47:27 AM PDT by central_va (I won't be reconstructed and I do not give a damn...)
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To: Tench_Coxe

It is funny-some people get all worked up about it, but we laugh about it because it has a root of truth to it. (I have had people tell me that the guy in the white shirt and tie resembles me, but I don’t think I am quite as pudgy, and he has more hair than me!)

“We have the Hot axis, which as all men know, runs from 0-10, and the Crazy axis, which runs from 4-10 because there is no such thing as a woman less than 4 crazy...”

All humor has a root of truth to it to be really funny!

I did find the “Cute vs Crazy Matrix” meant as a guide to women to be pretty funny too...:)


53 posted on 03/20/2023 6:48:14 AM PDT by rlmorel ("If you think tough men are dangerous, just wait until you see what weak men are capable of." JBP)
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To: Tench_Coxe

Top of the crazy matrix is 41 year old Crishel Stause who is now with G Flip who is a woman but identifies as non binary they them. Crishel broke up with her last bf because he did not want kids.


54 posted on 03/20/2023 6:48:20 AM PDT by Boardwalk
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To: C19fan

I don't have to make you happy. You make you happy.

55 posted on 03/20/2023 6:48:51 AM PDT by conservativeimage (The world is not dark. The future is not bleak. Tomorrow will be a good day.)
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To: alexander_busek

You present a very good point, AND you point out an opportunity to gather statistics from the VIEWERS of dating websites.


56 posted on 03/20/2023 6:50:00 AM PDT by Navy Patriot (Celebrate Decivilization)
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To: Boardwalk

G flip just wrote a new song for Crishel I can be your man. Lol bat shat crazy!


57 posted on 03/20/2023 6:50:04 AM PDT by Boardwalk
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To: Louis Foxwell
I fully agree. This advice applies equally to men.

Do men want a super beautiful woman who can have pretty much any man she wants? If so, he'd better be super alpha himself to hold on to her. For it's perfectly natural for a woman to seek the most optimum mate. She'll dump you like a hot potato if she finds somebody better. He will also need to be aware that other men will constantly be making moves on her when he's not around (and sometimes even when he is around!)

There is much to be said for settling with a plainer, steady woman who will always be there for you and will never let you down. Just make sure you don't let her down.

As for attractiveness, any woman can look attractive if she works at it. It's the character of the woman that is more important.

Sometimes

58 posted on 03/20/2023 6:51:26 AM PDT by SamAdams76 (4,942,927 Truth | 87,539,833 Twitter)
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To: C19fan
Botton line:

Most women are too fat and most men are too short.

The former have the ability to change their situation and dating status the latter can do absolutely nothing about it.

59 posted on 03/20/2023 6:51:35 AM PDT by central_va (I won't be reconstructed and I do not give a damn...)
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To: C19fan

Yep- a friend just got of a marriage because he couldn’t be steamrolled- the wife announced that the marriage was over as a result.

They went to marriage counseling before the divorce, but she wouldn’t admit to anything and blamed the problems solely on him. The counselor tried to tell her that marriage is a 2 way street, and that both she and he had some issues to work on, but nope- she wasn’t having any of that- everything was his fault, and that was that in her mind.

we were all happy for him when she announced she was leaving and divorcing him (not that that was the ultimate outcome- everyone was pulling for them both when they went to counseling, but since she was hell bent on leaving, we were happy that he didn’t have to take the brunt of her displeasure with herself and life in general- she got remarried, lasted 2 years or so- now divorced again. Apparently she didn’t find the right beta to browbeat into submission, and yes, she was a browbeater- witnessed it many times- verbally abusive and a snap temper- shed always been like that, and we didn’t like when our friend began dating her, but he was determined, so we didn’t say anything. He knew what she was like before marriage, but as he stated later, he didn’t know it was as bad as it actually turned out to be- love is blind i guess)


60 posted on 03/20/2023 6:51:47 AM PDT by Bob434
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