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I was fatally attracted to men with good looks, super-confidence and status - but they didn't make me happy: Dating coach tells single women it is time to ditch the addiction to alpha males and bag a beta if they want long-term love
UK Daily Mail ^ | March 19, 2023 | Mairi Macleod

Posted on 03/20/2023 6:17:43 AM PDT by C19fan

As a biologist, I know quite a bit about animal behaviour - I studied monkey mating strategies for my PhD - but I confess that I have made some poor choices when it comes to finding a mate of my own.

(Excerpt) Read more at dailymail.co.uk ...


TOPICS: Society
KEYWORDS: dating; freepersapplaud; manosphere; men; mgtow; pua; redpill; saynotoincels; women
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To: Louis Foxwell

In My 10 rating, 1 point is for charm/intelligence.


121 posted on 03/20/2023 7:53:19 AM PDT by Cronos
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To: C19fan
I remember this chart below

The modern shagging scene (it's not a dating scene) is all about the top 30% of men getting everything. It ends up with a lot of women unsatisfied.

122 posted on 03/20/2023 7:57:33 AM PDT by Cronos
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To: alexander_busek
I'll be sure to drop a quarter into your tin can when I next past by you, sitting there at the curb!

I'll be the one with the big grin on his face.

123 posted on 03/20/2023 7:59:16 AM PDT by Sirius Lee (They intend to murder us. Prep if you want to live and live like you are prepping for eternal life)
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To: Navy Patriot

Recycled John Kerry joke.


124 posted on 03/20/2023 8:06:27 AM PDT by Poser (Cogito ergo Spam - I think, therefore I ham)
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To: Louis Foxwell

and NEVER date a liberal woman.

They are only good for a year at most.

Have your ‘fun’ with plans to move on shortly.

Conservative women are wife and life-long partner material.

There is a reason why 90 of available women on dating sites are liberal.

This is coming from a Subject Matter Expert in this field.

And yeh, I’m FINALLY done with them. Wasted the last 20 years of my life on them.


125 posted on 03/20/2023 8:10:02 AM PDT by Hammerhead
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To: Magnum44

TRUE! My problem is I live in Illinois. Haven’t found an ALPHA MALE! None around.

My dad was an ALPHA Male, I adored my dad.

My dad was an Alpha and raised all alphas


126 posted on 03/20/2023 8:10:50 AM PDT by COSIllinois
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To: C19fan

Like my dad said, “Son you will eventually get to the age that the women you want, don’t want you. And the women that want you, you don’t want.”

100% true.


127 posted on 03/20/2023 8:11:58 AM PDT by Hammerhead
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To: Poser
Yes, now I remember!

Still, you deliver it well!

128 posted on 03/20/2023 8:12:54 AM PDT by Navy Patriot (Celebrate Decivilization)
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To: Phoenix8

Men count the sex they paid for and women don’t count the sex they were paid for because that was work, not sex.


129 posted on 03/20/2023 8:16:00 AM PDT by Valpal1 (Not even the police are safe from the police!!!)
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funny how that happens when women get older and start to lose their looks....my sister married a drip she wouldnt have dated if her life depended on it 15 years earlier....


130 posted on 03/20/2023 8:17:21 AM PDT by basalt (qb's)
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To: C19fan

They know the labels now.

“Danger Will Robinson. Danger”

đź—ż


131 posted on 03/20/2023 8:22:17 AM PDT by Varsity Flight ( "War by🙏🙏 the prophesies set before you." I Timothy 1:18. Nazarite prayer warriors. 10.5.6.5)
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To: central_va

Bullshit. There were no antibiotics to cure syphilis and gonorrhea. It was very stigmatized.


132 posted on 03/20/2023 8:23:59 AM PDT by Valpal1 (Not even the police are safe from the police!!!)
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To: cgbg
I married a very attractive woman—and then women started paying attention to me—wondering how I did it.

Women think "If he married a very attractive woman, then he must have things going for him other than what I currently see".

It's magic: you get lots of attention the moment you show you DON'T NEED their attention.

133 posted on 03/20/2023 8:33:17 AM PDT by PapaBear3625 (We live in a time where intelligent people are being silenced so stupid people won’t be offended)
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To: C19fan

Jon Lovitz on SNL

Lower your standards

https://www.nbc.com/saturday-night-live/video/lower-your-standards/n9932


134 posted on 03/20/2023 8:37:09 AM PDT by sloanrb
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To: unixfox

Leo DeCaprio only dates women in their 20s.


135 posted on 03/20/2023 8:46:17 AM PDT by woodbutcher1963 ( )
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To: basalt
funny how that happens when women get older and start to lose their looks....my sister married a drip she wouldnt have dated if her life depended on it 15 years earlier....

The danger (for the guy) is the probability that the woman will get dissatisfied and divorce-rape him.

"Yer So Bad" Lyrics
[Verse 1]
My sister got lucky, married a yuppie
Took him for all he was worth
Now she's a swinger dating a singer
I can't decide which is worse

[Chorus]
But not me baby, I've got you to save me
Oh, yer so bad, best thing I ever had
In a world gone mad, yer so bad

136 posted on 03/20/2023 8:47:17 AM PDT by PapaBear3625 (We live in a time where intelligent people are being silenced so stupid people won’t be offended)
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To: PapaBear3625

Yup—the manosphere teaches that women are generally social creatures who can be fooled by social “cues”. They are particularly vulnerable to the opinion of their “friends” or peers—so it is not good enough for a woman to be attracted to you, her friends must be as well.

That is why I tell young men to becomes “leaders” in whatever they are good at—they can become “mini-alphas” in limited social groups—even if they are not “real alphas”.

The body language other people give the “leader” is the social cue that women pick up on—even though most men would never even notice it.


137 posted on 03/20/2023 8:47:20 AM PDT by cgbg (Claiming that laws and regs that limit “hate speech” stop freedom of speech is “hate speech”.)
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To: SamAdams76

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=6EqFVWzOfN8


138 posted on 03/20/2023 8:50:55 AM PDT by Roccus (Veritas, non verba magistri)
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To: woodbutcher1963
Leo DeCaprio only dates women in their 20s.

And when you're Leo DiCaprio, you can find lots of young women who would trade a year or two of their lives to be able to say "I'm dating Leo DeCaprio".

Lots of cute young actresses would be willing to date him for the doors he could open for her and the people he could introduce her to.

139 posted on 03/20/2023 8:55:17 AM PDT by PapaBear3625 (We live in a time where intelligent people are being silenced so stupid people won’t be offended)
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To: E. Pluribus Unum

I was.late to the party.


140 posted on 03/20/2023 8:56:33 AM PDT by Roccus (Veritas, non verba magistri)
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