The dating scene is rough these days. I hang out with nerds and a lot of these guys can't get a date.
Posted on 12/18/2022 4:33:06 PM PST by DallasBiff
Dealing with women is never easy.
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I agree with you that “women compete for status”.
I also agree with you that many see “tall” as “status”.
Those are what I call the rules.
Rules are made to be broken.
They can be broken—and for men who are not tall—they must be broken.
That is done by redefining group status by sheer force of personality.
The women’s peer group got brainwashed—the young man must deprogram them.
This is totally doable.
It is called leadership.
I thought so, too.
The key was it taught men what they needed to do to improve their SMV
Yes. I don't remember why I drifted away the site. Maybe too much repetition. The site seemed completely dependent on its single, anonymous author.
Btw—if you want an extreme example of “deprogramming” women look at Charles Manson.
They guy was short and creepy—was a failed musician—and had more beautiful women than he knew what to do with...
That is called “force of personality”.
Any man can develop that—any man.
Women find a good sense of humor incredibly attractive. Laughter releases endorphins and that makes women feel good. It makes women feel safe. I’ve found that a bit of mildly self deprecating humor goes a long way.
Then there are manners. Open the door for her. Help her with her coat. Seat her first when dining.
Just be a damned gentleman.
If these men would treat women like ladies they’d get more tuckus than a bar stool on ladies night no matter what they look like.
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I was middle aged and married by the time I read the site—but it was so cool because it showed me what I had done right and also why some situations in my younger days had ended in failure/disaster.
This was stuff every young man needed to know—and no school and almost no fathers were teaching it.
Yes. Sense of humor and good manners. YUGE!
One “secret” that women may not even know themselves is the importance of their peers in evaluating men.
That is why young men interested in a young woman must identify her peer group and figure out how to impress them.
I learned this the hard way when I was young—was engaged to a young woman and everything was going great—but her friends were not impressed with me—and she broke it off (imho) for that reason.
Nobody teaches this stuff!
The dating scene is rough these days. I hang out with nerds and a lot of these guys can't get a date.
“the marital union, with one’s wife, in such a way as to remain open to the procreation of children, and that, is, it.”
So I should divorce my post-menopausal wife and find a younger, fertile chick?
Soooo happy online dating came along - the old bar scene really sucked.
I speak for myself as a woman and say its real important to learn how to be happy/ satisfied with yourself and BE YOURSELF,, AUTHENTIC ,GENUINE with others.
Online dating? Not for me. i prefer to get to know someone by “ accident”...
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I agree with this approach👍
What i have seen in my hometown paper
personal ads are the same old guys.
They are either super sportsmen or writing the next great american novel.
I study these carefully , too.
Honestly, I would never drop a line to these guys in my age bracket because ive come to the concludion that meeting up would be akin to a job interview with resume in hand.
smdh ...
I dunno. I’m still trying to figure out what a Woman is. Apparently, even a Supreme Court Justice can’t tell me that...
For some reason that I’ve never fully figured out, men are very pleased when women laugh at their jokes and find them funny.
“Tragic”? He was a rank narcissist more than an “incel”. The sort that anybody would find repulsive.
One tidbit that came out about him was that his Facebook page was full of pictures of himself, his cars, his activities...and not a single friend.
Tragic in the sense that Elliott’s father and sister cared a lot about him, but they never realized how sick he was until lives were lost. He was good at hiding the tangle of his thought process.
Banged up women love psychotic criminals.
Unfortunately, it takes a certain amount of guts to start going, and a lot of perseverance to keep going.
there are plenty of good mates out there but most of them are not Barbies.....
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