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My children were born in New York but now live in Texas. I sometimes wish we had never moved.
insider.com ^ | September 25, 2022 | Isobella Jade

Posted on 09/27/2022 8:32:32 AM PDT by lowbridge

My children were born in New York City. As toddlers, they played in the American Museum of Natural History, joined baby-music classes on the Upper East Side, gnawed on street pretzels, and threw leaves in the air in Central Park.

I had originally expected to be a Manhattan mom, but over the years I've come to accept they are now southern kids living in Houston, Texas. 

They wear shorts year-round, wear sunshine on their skin, crave Whataburger, have never made a snowman, and get pumped for Go Texan Day, dressed in boots, vests, and hats — it's like Halloween twice a year in my eyes. 

It wasn't my idea to move from a comfortable life in Manhattan to Houston, my ex's home city. I thought it was supposed to be temporary, but I was wrong.

Texas showed me BBQ festivals, square dancing, bluebonnets, and the flaws of my marriage. Now with a Texas divorce decree and the kids settled in school with friends and activities, it seems like I'm stuck here for good, or at least until my kids grow up.

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There are also experiences that remind me I'm in Texas, like a dead snake's skin being tangled in my daughter's scooter wheels, a "beware of alligators" sign at a playground, armadillo sightings, a lack of road shoulders, and guns-and-ammo signs next to a pet store.

I worry about my kids' safety wherever they go while living in a state with historically loose gun laws. I worry about what women's health will be like for my daughter's generation. I debate on how young of an age I will tell her about contraceptives because of the war on women's access to care and treatment in this state.

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TOPICS: Chit/Chat; Miscellaneous
KEYWORDS: dontnymytexas; husbandescaped; karenmovestotexas; loosegunlawslol; newyork; texas
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To: lowbridge

>>> I sometimes wish we had never moved.<<<

I too wish you had never moved. You BELONG in New York.


121 posted on 09/27/2022 11:08:32 AM PDT by Old Grumpy
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To: lowbridge
“I worry about my kids' safety wherever they go while living in a state with historically loose gun laws. I worry about what women's health will be like for my daughter's generation. I debate on how young of an age I will tell her about contraceptives because of the war on women's access to care and treatment in this state.”

Nothing is stopping you from going back to “safe” New York, Karen. Whiny Yankees are a nuisance.

I do feel sorry for your kids, though.

122 posted on 09/27/2022 11:14:37 AM PDT by Allegra
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To: higgmeister

Never have thought of that as bad, probably because I grew up here.


123 posted on 09/27/2022 11:44:56 AM PDT by avenir (Information overload = Pattern recognition)
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To: dfwgator

She is correct about one thing. Her kids are in real danger.

From their mother.

Hopefully growing up among sane Texans will save them.


124 posted on 09/27/2022 11:49:47 AM PDT by old curmudgeon
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To: lowbridge

Stupib bitch is close to the border...
She should try Mexico... Permanently...


125 posted on 09/27/2022 12:03:37 PM PDT by SuperLuminal
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To: avenir
I can understand but it was a culture shock to me.   Here in Marietta we have mostly chain-link fences.   But I'm on a hill so I can look down into the yard below me anyway.

The other thing about DFW is that it is so flat.   In the 1980's from the old Hilton Hotel in Plano I once counted 13 water towers outside my window.   That's some flat land.   But there was much that I liked there.

126 posted on 09/27/2022 12:07:39 PM PDT by higgmeister ( In the Shadow of The Big Chicken! )
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To: dfwgator

“New York City!”

🤨


127 posted on 09/27/2022 12:15:00 PM PDT by Disambiguator
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To: TexasFreeper2009

Her future grandchildren will be a lot safer in Texas. They might even get out of the womb alive.


128 posted on 09/27/2022 12:25:08 PM PDT by P-Marlowe (I got the <ΙΧΘΥΣ>< variant. Catch it. John 3:16)
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To: lowbridge

She forgot to mention the dead bloated dogs lining the sides of every street in the city, and left there for days. I’ve never seen anything like it, anywhere!

She has culture shock. I get it. But if you give the people there half a chance, you’ll find out they are really good people. They make it worth the time there.


129 posted on 09/27/2022 12:33:32 PM PDT by PrairieLady2
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To: millenial4freedom

Doctors have been flocking to Texas since tort reform. There is no shortage of physicians in Texas.


130 posted on 09/27/2022 12:35:50 PM PDT by Night Hides Not (Remember the Alamo! Remember Goliad! Remember Gonzales! Come and Take It!)
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To: lowbridge

🙄


131 posted on 09/27/2022 12:48:56 PM PDT by BiteYourSelf ( Earth first, we'll strip mine the other planets later.)
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To: ml/nj

We haven’t been there (used to be there, regularly, until family, thankfully moved, before China virus lockdowns 🙏🏻🙏🏻), in three years.

It was definitely a cesspool, then…and, I can only go by accounts that I read here (almost daily, violent crimes) and that I see on the news/news outlets.

Glad you have a driver to get you directly where you need to be. We did, too.

It has changed so much, since when we first began visiting family, there.. :-(


132 posted on 09/27/2022 1:26:29 PM PDT by Jane Long (What we were told was a “conspiracy theory” in 2020 is now fact. 🙏🏻 Ps 33:12)
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To: Jane Long
I can only go by accounts that I read here (almost daily, violent crimes) and that I see on the news/news outlets.

Maybe in the Bronx or some parts of Brooklyn. I know how Manhattan was three years ago and it has definitely changed.

NYC is a very big place so there is always something bad the media can report on. But you're very unlikely to see any of it traveling from the Lincoln Tunnel or the GW Bridge to the Upper East Side.

ML/NJ

133 posted on 09/27/2022 1:58:29 PM PDT by ml/nj ("If the Representatives of the People betray their Constituents ..." Federalist #28; READ IT!)
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To: dfwgator

For every liberal Democrat.

This is how once conservative California turned crazed commie. Transplants from the east coast states.

Watch out, Texans!


134 posted on 09/27/2022 2:22:44 PM PDT by RedMonqey
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To: ml/nj

This was in Manhattan - East side.


135 posted on 09/27/2022 2:35:05 PM PDT by Jane Long (What we were told was a “conspiracy theory” in 2020 is now fact. 🙏🏻 Ps 33:12)
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To: rlmorel

I say it’s best to corral all the cuckoo leftists in one blue city


136 posted on 09/27/2022 3:26:55 PM PDT by boxlunch (Red State governors, kick the fednazis OUT of red states! BTW, We are a REPUBLIC not a democracy!)
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To: boxlunch

I’m sure most comments have been posted. I just want to note that Texas is a very large state. She would move further north and find snow. Amarillo is a great city. There are many choices in Texas you can’t complain.


137 posted on 09/27/2022 4:21:14 PM PDT by WVNan (GO)
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To: dfwgator

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DmhgtBA16aA


138 posted on 09/27/2022 4:24:35 PM PDT by EvilCapitalist (81 million votes my ass.)
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To: lowbridge
I worry about my kids' safety wherever they go while living in a state with historically loose gun laws.

Yes; Manhattan is so safe by comparison!

139 posted on 09/27/2022 4:41:32 PM PDT by Albion Wilde (Stand fast therefore in the liberty by which Christ has made us free... Galatians 5:1 )
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To: Blueflag
Exactly! I moved from Chicago to Fort Lauderdale a few years ago. I am typing this as I hear the wind pounding against my closed hurricane shutters.

I am thinking of buying bill board space.

“I am from Chicago.
Do not vote Democrat unless you
want Chiraq here in SoFlo.”

140 posted on 09/27/2022 4:47:48 PM PDT by Chgogal (Welcome to Fuhrer Biden's Weaponized Fascist Banana Republic! It's the road to hell.)
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