[CondoleezzaProtege]

Not married yet, and in no rush. Prayers though, for all married couples.

[Pollard]

Going through that right now.

[Mr. Blond]

Realizes it’s all brain chemicals, but I didn’t see neuro-hacking with nootropics as a solutin.

[Toespi]

Our daughter was given this from her narcissist husband about a year ago, he just moved out and I suspect his girlfriend is measuring the windows for new draperies. Ask any person who has heard these words from their spouse, and they will tell you what came next. They are schmoozers and use it to get what they want, “if I tell him/her I still love them they won’t clean my clock in court.”

[MikeyB806]

Jesus said “Love on another....”

At the altar, most ceremonies require the parties to PROMISE to love on another.

So stop with all of this “falling out of love” or “I don’t love you anymore” nonsense. Love is an affirmative act, not a feeling or state of mind.

[Magnum44]

[higgmeister]

Married forty-seven years and thankfully this is all behind me.   I know my wife has "hated my guts" a few times through the years because she attempts to ascribe me with those thoughts when we are in conciliatory moods.   I have made it known to all of my relatives and friends since I turned fourteen years old, that I didn't believe in divorce, so that has helped our relationship.

Her major complaint with me nowadays is that I am lazy, and she is right, but I'm getting old too.   I subscribe to the Robert A. Heinlein view that laziness has driven human advancement through history, as the lazy man invents a better way to do things.

We'll get to fifty if we live long enough.

[Magnatron]

Dad was married six times.

Mother was married four times.

My younger brother was married four times.

My youngest brother was married three times.

I’ve been married once — for 30 years now.

What the hell am I doing wrong?

[TalBlack]

“I love you but I’m not IN love with you anymore“

ABC Movie of the week scriptwriter bullshit.

[GaryCrow]

It’s code for “I’m having an affair”.

At least it was for my wife. I went straight to the best divorce lawyer in town, got his private detective on it and figured out who the she was seeing. I then kicked her out of the house and divorced her.

Best thing I’ve ever done.

[FreshPrince]

timely topic. Wife and I are living separately. Getting along ok, nothing romantic going on though...minister says living separate cannot be a permanent state if affairs and of course divorce is not permitted. I have no desire to get back together under the same roof with the same “terms/conditions”....nor have any desire to divorce/remarry...ah well....

[sauropod]

Gone thru it more than once.

Don’t trust your feelings. The heart lies.

[roving]

Divorced over 30 yrs ago. I’m not planning on getting married again. I like my freedom

[Hot Tabasco]

What do you say to a girl friend you’ve been dating for a couple months when she asks you “do you love me” and you don’t?

[Veto!]

“In love” is highly overrated, imho. It comes, it goes.

I love you seems better, perhaps fewer thrills but longer lasting.