[Pollard]

Going through that right now.

[cgbg]

There are some good little pieces of advice in that article—

I would word some of them differently.

“Motion is emotion.”

So, hiking is much better than going out to dinner. Running to get out of the rain is better than a slow walk in nice weather.

“Novelty is important.”

It is better to get a weird, funny and/or unexpected gift than a boring one.

“Humor is important.”

Everybody needs to stop taking themselves, life and others so seriously. Lighten up...crack lots of jokes...find humor in anything and everything.

All of this is particularly important as the days get shorter and colder.

[TnTnTn]

Then it’s time to move on…lawyer up and get it done…no sense throwing more financial and emotional capital at a bad hand…btdt…

[spankalib]

One of the comments mentioned Retrouvaille. I think it is a church-based couples counseling. Maybe search for a resource nearby?

One FReeper, well, a few...stated that this phrase ILYBINILWY...is a lousy excuse/prelude to affair...whatever it is, I feel for you (or anyone else who is getting this mealy-mouthed monkeyshine).

I got a lot of info at survivinginfidelity.com...prayers up.