Posted on 09/08/2021 10:25:59 AM PDT by DoodleBob
The 20th anniversary of 9/11 is a solemn event for me. A friend invited me to his birthday celebration on that day. It would be nice to see him and raise a glass, but I think about that day and the devastating loss and I’m in tears. ...I’m shocked that anyone would celebrate anything on this day and I fear my attitude would be construed as self-righteous.
Anonymous / Boston
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Speaking of happy news — there isn’t much these days, is there? I’m trying to grasp the death toll of COVID-19, currently more than 200 times that of 9/11. Flight attendants still put their lives on the line, and images of bodies falling from planes in Kabul are fresh in my mind. No terrorist plane hit the Surfside condominium — that building’s residents were crushed to death due to alleged neglect, incompetence, and denial. This is why I, writing this before the anniversary, expect to be in tears on 9/11, reflecting less on the events of that day than about everything that has transpired since.
If I observe it as a day of mourning, that is. There are so many such days now, global and national and personal. Everyone is experiencing some form of trauma, everyone is grieving something, and grief is freaky like a tornado. It shows up unexpectedly and puts things in very weird places. Sometimes grief allows joy into a place joy doesn’t normally go, a butterfly in the morgue.
So let’s not judge what other people need to do and when they need to do it, only seek your own level. If you need to mourn, find the mourners or call them to you. If you need to rejoice, do the same. And let’s all take this reminder into the holiday season.
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I understand is is a solemn day, but...life happens too.
I don’t think there is anything at all disrespectful about celebrating on a day like that, unless you have a direct connection to it, and...even then. If your child was born on that day, are you going to never celebrate their birthday?
This person needs help. And I am not saying this to whack what appears to be a liberal snowflake. I mean it. This person needs to talk to another person and step away from the news, the media, the television, and the Internet.
They are overwhelmed. They have to learn how to deal with it.
Sure, the Covid death toll may be 200x the 9/11 death toll, but...what the Hell? Annual car deaths are 10x as many.
Cardiovascular deaths were 230x as many.
At some point...you just have to live.
This national victimhood mentality where the flag goes to half mast when anyone dies is just stupid. We got over Pearl Harbor. We should get over 9/11. it doesn’t mean in any way we forget it (and we NEVER should) but we can’t rend our clothes and cover ourselves in ashes each year on the anniversary of it. We have to get over it.
This person might be better served by helping to elect people who might make a 9/11 LESS likely to happen, rather than MORE likely, which is what I suspect the person voted for and what we have now.
Nope, they'll think you are an idiot and they will be glad you didn't come.
How about Good Friday?
To be clear, Sept 11 shouldn't NOT be a celebration day for birthdays, anniversaries, etc.
But the smug attitude of the advice columnist, basically saying 9/11 is a relative nothing burger vs the condo collapse, Kabul, COVID19, etc., is utter garbage.
A birthday party or a baby shower are celebrations of life and a perfect remedy to a day of death.
I would blame the terrorists for planning their attack on the day of my birthday........How dare they!
So do we stop celebrating on Dec.7th as well, or is that so yesterday?
Sep 11 is my birthday also. I’m not planning a party, but will indulge in an extra glass of Scotch that evening. ;-)
My lifelong buddys birthday falls on 911. Its easy to mourn that day and still enjoy life for gods sake. We will party, drink and raise a glass to the folks who died that day like we always do.
Never thought of Dec 7th as a day to celebrate. Commemorate, of course, but I wouldn't "celebrate" it.
So why can’t those folks celebrate if they want? What’s the difference between 12/7 and 9/11?
How do you mean “celebrate”?
It’s those folks that want to celebrate an event of their on 9/11 - my take is: then why not have no celebrations at all on 13/9? My dad’s b’day is on 9/11 - should we postpone it to another date? (we never had).
Reads like something written by a “menstruating person.”
My Son and Daughter inlaw’s baby shower is Saturday and then we’re off to see the Black Crowes.
Yes I’ll never forget 9/11 but LIFE goes on.
I see nothing wrong with having a party on 9/11 or any other day. I do see something very wrong with building a mosque near ground zero (opposed by Trump, favored by biden) and with making muzzies the latest and greatest victim group, entitled to the privileges that a victim group could want.
Personally I never mourn for the dead. I celebrate their lives and I think those people should have a 9/11 party and celebrate the lives all those people lived, and celebrate the “Lets roll” attitude from that day; an attitude that seems to be missing in America these days.
Cannot disagee with you, FRiend.
September 11th is a sacred day that we will all remember for the rest of our lives.
The condo collapse was very bad. But it did not measure up to the loss of lives on September 11.
We all remember where we where when we heard the news. And we will never forget
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