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Advise and Counsel Needed: Loud Neighbors
Self published | May 29, 2021 | FWDude

Posted on 05/29/2021 8:04:14 PM PDT by fwdude

I’m only airing this on this public forum because I’ve never encountered it to this degree before. Here’s the story: new neighbors moved in about three months ago in my semi rural, large lot residential neighborhood in the outskirts of my large city. I’ve lived here exactly 14 years now, and in that time I’ve experienced a level of quiet peace that most people would envy. The sounds of nature is about as loud as it gets, discounting the occasional Harley or ricer racing down the nearby thoroughfare.

The neighbors are a large family of, shall we say, south-of-the-border derivation, and have had several loud outdoor after-dark parties, complete with the amplified Hispanic loud-bass music in the maddeningly plodding rhythm that we’ve all heard. They also keep a couple of medium to large dogs outside who bark sporadically throughout the night (they are tethered, which is another issue.) They also brought with them at least one rooster, which begins crowing loudly at 4:30 AM each morning. The parties include a lot of loud drunken yelling in Mexican and very loud laughing and conversation. The bedroom wing of my house is adjacent to our shared property line, about 45 feet away. I hear it all.

Before I go on, I want to make it clear that I am one of the biggest live-and-let -live people on earth. I reached out to them when they moved in to introduce myself and let them know who I was. They were standoffish from the start, however.

The last party, about a month ago, went past midnight, and I finally called the police to lodge a complaint. I figured if they somehow were oblivious to the city ordinances against unreasonable noise, and oblivious to the fact that the noise was disturbing a neighbor, they would need to know about it and make a decision. But, here we go again.

I love farm life and animals and can live with the rooster crowing and occasional dog barks, but this is developing into a persistant pattern. Am I being a “Karen” by reporting them? One part of me wants to be tolerant to a fault. The other part of me says that they have absolutely ZERO consideration for the peaceful enjoyment of their neighbors, so screw them.

Anyone with a similar problem?


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1 posted on 05/29/2021 8:04:14 PM PDT by fwdude
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To: fwdude

First off, my heart goes out to you, FRiend.

I know how precious that peaceful quiet is, and I know what it meant to me when it was disturbed.

I began to obsess over it. I’ll have to think on it, but just know, you aren’t alone in this.


2 posted on 05/29/2021 8:08:32 PM PDT by rlmorel (Leftists are The Droplet of Sewage in a gallon of ultra-pure clean water.)
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To: fwdude

Maybe blasting stumps at 6 AM when they’re trying to sleep it off might get their attention.


3 posted on 05/29/2021 8:08:51 PM PDT by TangoLimaSierra (⭐⭐To the left, truth is right-wing extremism.⭐⭐)
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To: fwdude

Get a giant skeleton from the Halloween store, put it on the edge of your lot facing them, and keep it lit up.


4 posted on 05/29/2021 8:11:11 PM PDT by Mr. Blond
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To: rlmorel

I moved to and bought this property exactly because of its proximity to the peacefulness of nature, with its large lots and peaceful neighbors. I even drove through the area before I bought it at night to make sure that it wasn’t a party venue. This has been proven true for my first 14 years. Now all that is coming to an end. I’m not gonna let it come to an end if I have anything to say about it.


5 posted on 05/29/2021 8:11:50 PM PDT by fwdude (“I do think at a certain point you've paid enough taxes.” — Not Obama)
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To: fwdude
It sounds like you've been more than tolerant and I'm sure you've thought about approaching them, but if they apparently don't care about your peace and quiet, a friendly reminder may just inflame matters.

Call the cops, you need your peace and quiet too.

6 posted on 05/29/2021 8:12:58 PM PDT by PROCON (Our rights do not come from government, therefore they cannot take them away.)
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To: fwdude

Call a realtor.

“Yelling in Mexican” made me lol tho!!


7 posted on 05/29/2021 8:13:23 PM PDT by americas.best.days... ( Donald John Trump has pulled the sword from the stone.)
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To: TangoLimaSierra
Maybe blasting stumps at 6 AM when they’re trying to sleep it off might get their attention.

Well, I do have a very loud chipper shredder which a ran up just an hour ago to shred some brush. I think they just turned the music up louder.

8 posted on 05/29/2021 8:13:34 PM PDT by fwdude (“I do think at a certain point you've paid enough taxes.” — Not Obama)
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To: americas.best.days...

I don’t equate Spanish with Mexican. It’s like comparing English with ghetto slang.


9 posted on 05/29/2021 8:15:06 PM PDT by fwdude (“I do think at a certain point you've paid enough taxes.” — Not Obama)
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To: fwdude
"Am I being a "Karen"...

You are becoming your Dad.

Embrace the diversity and culture exchange you now privileged to.

Maybe you will get invited to the monthly cock & dog fighting party.

10 posted on 05/29/2021 8:16:07 PM PDT by Deaf Smith (When a Texan takes his chances, chancesthat's for sure.)
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To: fwdude

It’s funny, I live in suburban Arkansas now and suffer much the same.

Only, in reverse.

I live in an area with a lot of Hispanic people, but whenever an Arkansan moves into my neighborhood, it’s parties all night.

And fights in the yard.
And drunken yelling
And trucks/ utvs/ bikes/ trailered boat motors / fireworks throughout the night.
And insolent barefoot feral children at all hours of the night (frequently to 1am for this 4 year old boy who needs to be returned to the wolves who are missing him)

There is no stopping it. I approach people who do it, get in fights (we’ve gone to fisticuffs on occasion) and he just pees on my car, aims his speakers at my house and his toddler kids harass me to no end.

Call the cops repeatedly. That’s the only thing you can do. I finally called the cops so much my troublesome neighbors moved “to the county to get away from toy liberal commie ***holes” (referring of course to me)

But if they own it, forget it.

And try living next to deaf people. Oh whoa you’ll miss cinco de mayo nightly.. lemme tell ya.


11 posted on 05/29/2021 8:16:22 PM PDT by Celerity
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To: fwdude

Mexican is a nationality…not a language.


12 posted on 05/29/2021 8:17:46 PM PDT by Vermont Lt
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To: PROCON

It after 10pm here. The noise ordinance specifies below 60 dB level after 10 pm. That’s not very loud, and it applies AT my property line. I’m within the law to report.


13 posted on 05/29/2021 8:17:47 PM PDT by fwdude (“I do think at a certain point you've paid enough taxes.” — Not Obama)
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To: Deaf Smith

Eh, no thanks. LOL!


14 posted on 05/29/2021 8:18:35 PM PDT by fwdude (“I do think at a certain point you've paid enough taxes.” — Not Obama)
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To: fwdude

You are not alone. I don’t have the answer. Good luck and keep us posted.


15 posted on 05/29/2021 8:21:18 PM PDT by BipolarBob (This is my chainsaw. There are many like it but this one is mine.)
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To: fwdude

Becoming epidemic with that loud, deep, blasting bass sounds in neighborhoods, hotels, streets etc... yearn for a secret weapon that both intercepts loud sound wavelengths and returns to sender units that destroy or render them inoperable. In my wildest dreams and imaginations wish list. Otherwise I’m rebuking the offending loudness in Jesus name and commanding by faith in faith that it ceases.


16 posted on 05/29/2021 8:22:14 PM PDT by tflabo (Truth or tyranny )
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To: fwdude

I knew exactly what you meant!

That’s what made it funny!

Seriously though, I’m sorry for your predicament. Good luck 🤞


17 posted on 05/29/2021 8:23:45 PM PDT by americas.best.days... ( Donald John Trump has pulled the sword from the stone.)
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To: fwdude
I have had a bit of experience dealing with difficult neighbors over the years. I would offer three general bits of advice for you, then I'll Freep-mail you something else in the next couple of days.

1. If you decide to take any action to antagonize them, make sure it's not something that can be traced back to you. In fact, you might even see if you can get invited to one of their 2 AM cockfights just to make them think you've got no problem with their south-of-the-border lifestyle.

2. Don't try to deal with them or correct their behavior. You have to make them want to leave the neighborhood.

3. You have to make sure that the reason they want to leave the neighborhood seems like an act of nature rather than an act of retribution.

18 posted on 05/29/2021 8:23:48 PM PDT by Alberta's Child ("And once in a night I dreamed you were there; I canceled my flight from going nowhere.")
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To: fwdude

Figure out what the Cuban gov’t was doing to the US Embassy.

Acquire hardware.

Apply same in their general direction.


19 posted on 05/29/2021 8:24:37 PM PDT by Paladin2
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To: fwdude

just Learn to ignore it. They probably won’t stay long.


20 posted on 05/29/2021 8:24:52 PM PDT by McGavin999 (biden is not my president )
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