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Why Men Cheat
All Pro Dad ^ | BJ Foster

Posted on 08/18/2020 1:48:52 PM PDT by CondoleezzaProtege

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To: Wiser now
As a woman married twice I can tell you that continuing the pursuit and romancing her for thirty years is exactly what men do not want to be bothered with.

Really now? And why in the world should a man have to "pursue" a woman he is married to? Romance is another thing, but the pursuit comment is absolutely nonsensical. I am not sure its realistic to expect romance to last forever -- or at least not at the same level as when your were courting. Ultimately, compatibility is more important than romance.

They believe that with the wedding ring comes her responsibility to put out on demand so he can get back to the game.

Women should never underestimate the importance of "putting out". It does not have to be "on demand", but it should be periodic. Once a week seems to work for most couples (after the first 2-3 years). Sex is a big factor in a marriage. Some women talk themselves into thinking it isn't, but they often find out the hard way they are mistaken.

41 posted on 08/18/2020 3:16:03 PM PDT by rbg81 (Truth is stranger than fiction)
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To: CondoleezzaProtege

I did some work for a friend that was a private investigator. He didn’t like doing the domestic stuff so I did it.

I NEVER had to follow the husband to see where he was doing his dirt.

It was always the wife.


42 posted on 08/18/2020 3:17:04 PM PDT by qaz123
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To: Richard Kimball

I would have thought you posted Helen Thomas...


43 posted on 08/18/2020 3:39:52 PM PDT by sauropod (I will not comply.)
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To: asinclair

My son’s boss was just blindsided by his wife. She told him she didn’t feel like cooking so he went to pick up dinner and when he returned she was gone w/the kids leaving a note about divorce.

She wants his money and he has a lot of it. I just hope he gets, at least 50% custody of the kids.


44 posted on 08/18/2020 3:42:48 PM PDT by tiki (Obamagate)
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To: Wiser now

More often than Birthday or Christmas would be nice.

Any responsibility for the woman? NOOOOOPE!


45 posted on 08/18/2020 3:44:36 PM PDT by sauropod (I will not comply.)
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To: setter

It needs to be said.

Between the bi-polar diagnosis that goes untreated, manic depression, social media obsessions, addiction to materialism & “stuff”, and downright laziness - I’d say I’d have to fully agree with you.


46 posted on 08/18/2020 3:45:06 PM PDT by Roman_War_Criminal (Like Enoch, Noah, & Lot, the True Church will soon be removed & then destruction comes forth.)
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To: CJ Wolf

Because men are so sexy.....

Just kidding. I can’t figure out why women do anything.


47 posted on 08/18/2020 3:45:14 PM PDT by Vermont Lt
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To: CondoleezzaProtege
Your wife is a precious gift from God who should be charged every minute of every day Here’s a minimum short list Latte every day Leg massage daily Full massage min 1x per week Entertain the children and make them excercise Put her in charge and back her up in private and public Have NO on line presonce. Let her do it for the family Cook great meals for her Give her lots of quiet time and space Paddle her around in your kayak wherever she wants to go Should I go on ? Truth over power Love ❤️ over fear
48 posted on 08/18/2020 3:48:36 PM PDT by Truthoverpower (The guv-mint you get is the Trump winning express ! Yea haw ! Trump pence II!)
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To: tired&retired

Interesting theory!


49 posted on 08/18/2020 3:50:36 PM PDT by 9YearLurker
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To: CJ Wolf

“Why do women cheat?”

Every cheater has to have a cheaterette?


50 posted on 08/18/2020 3:51:30 PM PDT by Bonemaker (invictus maneo)
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To: CondoleezzaProtege

The other day I watched a movie called “A Woman Scorned,” about a woman named Betty Broderick. Apparently a true story.

Scary stuff. Cheaters beware! It may be a capital offense.


51 posted on 08/18/2020 3:59:02 PM PDT by Buttons12
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To: Craftmore

I heard a similar phrase; Never let your man leave the house horny or hungry, cause there is always some slut out there with a sandwich. Told my wife that one before we got married, she seems to have taken it to heart.


52 posted on 08/18/2020 4:03:56 PM PDT by OIFVeteran
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To: asinclair

More common than anybody realizes or acknowledges now among college age women.


53 posted on 08/18/2020 4:12:23 PM PDT by MSF BU
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To: setter

Some women go to the gym when they are neglected, get into great shape and go elsewhere for fun. I could give you a dozen examples among acquaintances.


54 posted on 08/18/2020 4:14:21 PM PDT by MSF BU
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To: setter

Bravo! Bravissimo!

My reaction to the headline was: “Why do women cheat at least as much as men?”


55 posted on 08/18/2020 4:17:04 PM PDT by Nothingburger
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To: CondoleezzaProtege

Why do men cheat?

It’s simple - God made us that way.

The whole “Go forth and multiply” responsibility was put on men, not women.

God always wants more babies so his creation never dies out. He put the onus of this charge on men by making them sexually ready merely by seeing nice young breasts, butts, or flat tummies. Because of course, it is the young women who are most likely to successfully bear a child.

In other animals, God used the sense of smell to make sure babies would continue to be created in the species.

In humans, he used the eyes of man, and insured that men would forever chase young women who look good. And especially NEW women who look good, since he also cursed men with the tendency to lose interest very quickly in their current women.

God wants men out and about creating babies! Marriage is a false societal constraint and a human invention that actually thwarts God’s plan, and as such, it will never be completely successful.

Why do women cheat? Who the hell knows?


56 posted on 08/18/2020 4:20:08 PM PDT by EarlyBird (ThereÂ’s a whole lot of winning going on around here!)
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I got my freshly married Wife a concealed carry class for Christmas.
Then got her a pistol for her birthday.
Nope. Not gonna cheat.


57 posted on 08/18/2020 4:22:13 PM PDT by RandallFlagg (Fact: Gun control laws kill innocents.)
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To: fhayek
Pheromones are real?


58 posted on 08/18/2020 4:25:19 PM PDT by Bonemaker (invictus maneo)
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To: Wiser now

Women cheat for the same reason men cheat.

No morals and a belief they can do anything at anytime with anyone without any responsibility or remorse.

But it ALWAYS comes back to no morals whatsoever.

Period!


59 posted on 08/18/2020 4:26:13 PM PDT by newfreep
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To: setter
Western women have become unbearable. There I said it.

Please expand on first statement. And then expand on different cultures... I am ethnically only 1/2 “Western” as it were. So I’d be interested to get your take.

60 posted on 08/18/2020 4:37:59 PM PDT by CondoleezzaProtege
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