Posted on 11/12/2019 10:42:04 AM PST by SeekAndFind
For the good of all sounds so communistic.
And those of us who are of one flesh who cannot hold your own infant? I guess that means we are of no value to the Christian family, huh? Only those who can carry and deliver a child have worth.
Got it.
Something that is for the good of all is hardly communistic.
Free trade is good for all.
Enforced contracts is good for all.
Intact families is good for all.
Kids having their moms at home is good for all.
Men having wives devoted to their well being instead of that of their company is good for all.
Fair taxes are good for all.
A strong military is good for all.
I could go on. Communism is good for nobody. You might say communism is good for the elite but really no it just makes them corrupt monsters.
Fedzilla and many States have jacked up tax rates and invented new taxes is such a way that most families "need" two incomes ...
Ovarian cancer is the nuns disease too.
This is not to indict any woman who for any number of good reasons has not delivered or nursed. It is just to say that we are biological beings and most women assuming they survive childbirth! Do well physically to have kids.
A career will not be able to come see you in your later years. In fact, after you’re gone from your career you will be replaced...and quickly.
So fine. You want to get married and have kids. Okay. Do not disparage those that do not want to be tied down to being a soccer mom even though it sounds romantic.
She married late after the hotness factor cooled off. I expect she married for companionship, not money. But she played the field while preaching that woman didn’t need a man. I guess “need” and “want” are two different things, but that’s a technicality in this context.
So why was it so possible to change it 40 years ago?
The magnitude of the change is the same.
Answer: a few subhuman slimebags have been working very hard to ensure that the change is all in the direction of decay.
OOH OOH 5!!!!! HERE!!!
5. ANY guy can raise ANY OTHER GUY’S kid and love the kid just as much.
Baby daddies are interchangeable.
So don’t worry about marriage or even dating the guy.
Cause you’ll have the kid and whoever you date will treat that kid like their very own.
99 percent of the time it doesn’t work that way.
I give credit to the 1 percent of men that do treat the kids like their own.
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Spoken like a true member of SotoNation! (tommy sotomayor fan)
No one is disparaging those who choose for whatever reason not to marry.
What is disparaged is women being told they should or must care for children, home, husband AND career which is a sheer impossibility.
Yep and which is why I’ve chosen career over marriage; although lots of folks can handle both I like to concentrate on one thing and one thing only and that’s my career.
I get this “Oh, you’re such a pretty girl why aren’t you married?” as I think about going through my checklists trying to get the airplane configured for flying.
**And those of us who are of one flesh who cannot hold your own infant? I guess that means we are of no value to the Christian family, huh? Only those who can carry and deliver a child have worth.**
I’m back (Zuriel, that is). My wife rarely ever comments online. That was maybe the third or fourth time in the 15 yrs I’ve been on FR. When she saw your comment, she said: “that type of a response is exactly why I don’t join any social media sites. It is too easy to misinterpret what someone is saying.”
And since she is not a chatter box (one of the reasons I love her), she tries to say as much as needed with no more words than necessary. I saw she closed using her name. That’s another thing she doesn’t care for, using a name other than her own when on a site. That’s her, the real deal; nothing but straight forward “this is who I am, and this is what I believe.” And she is all that while being a very humble and loving person.
She was simply expressing that the experience of motherhood is like no other. The joy is like nothing else. A living breathing soul that came out of her body. She can’t understand why a woman that is able to give birth would not want to be a mother. That’s her opinion, not a condemnation of folks that think differently.
Her heart aches for those that want to have their own children, but can’t. Our second came after a “dry spell” of no success, followed by a miscarriage. She has said that that was a tough time, but would have been tougher if we didn’t already have one child.
I look at how my life was before I met her: It was all about me and materialism. We met, and she was too wonderful to not try to lasso. She said she would help on the farm, but was not going to work away from home. She was raised in a city home where both parents worked, and partially raised herself. She said that she hated coming home from school to an empty house. Her brothers, all older, were in school sports, or off serving in the military.
We gave up a lot of material things an RN job could have paid for, but we have no regrets.
(Sorry about the long reply. I’m the opposite of my wife in more ways than one. lol)
My wife and I are convinced that the ‘pill’ not only has increased the number wrecked marriages, caused an abundance of STDs, and helped make sex a not so special thing, it has been bad for womens health.
My wife hadn’t committed her life to God in any big measure when we got married, but she said she would never play chemist with her body in that regard. An aspirin, penicilin, yeah, but thats about it.
Her personality and beliefs were always ugly.
O/T, but liberal women tend toward the physically unattractive side.
Perhaps it is a bias of mine.
Which came first, the feminist or the ugly?
I cannot say about most feminists being unattractive on the outside BUT they are surely UGLY inside, for certain.
Yours, TMN78247
If you’re happy with how things are going all well! It’s no crime to be unmarried. And it is ok to decide to marry later in life.
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