[SkyDancer]

Well it's what Hillary said about the good for all meaning forget your individual preferences you'll have to give them up. In Russia, during the Soviet regime the worse thing a kid could be called was "you're an individualist"

So fine. You want to get married and have kids. Okay. Do not disparage those that do not want to be tied down to being a soccer mom even though it sounds romantic.

[Persevero]

No one is disparaging those who choose for whatever reason not to marry.

What is disparaged is women being told they should or must care for children, home, husband AND career which is a sheer impossibility.