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America facing shortage of ‘economically attractive’ unmarried men, study says
Christian Post ^ | 09/12/2019 | Leonardo Blair

Posted on 09/12/2019 8:18:01 AM PDT by SeekAndFind

America is facing a significant shortage of highly educated “economically attractive” unmarried men who earn at least $53,000 and have a college degree. And the situation could result in unmarried women remaining unmarried or marrying less well-suited partners, a study says.

That’s the conclusion reached by researchers Daniel T. Lichter of Cornell University, Joseph P. Price of Brigham Young University, and Jeffrey M. Swigert of Southern Utah University in their study, Mismatches in the Marriage Market, published this month in the Journal of Family and Marriage.

The results of the study were based on comparisons between real data on unmarried men and a synthetic profile of the ideal husband that the average unmarried woman desired, created from marriage data from 2008 to 2012 and 2013 to 2017 recorded in the American Community Survey.

“These synthetic husbands have an average income that is about 58% higher than actual unmarried men who are currently available to unmarried women. They also are 30% more likely to be employed (90% vs. 70%) and 19% more likely to have a college degree (30% vs. 25%),” the study says.

“Our analyses provide clear evidence of an excess supply of men with low income and education and, conversely, shortages of economically attractive unmarried men (with at least a bachelor’s degree and higher levels of income) for women to marry. One implication is that promoting good jobs may ultimately be the best marriage promotion policy rather than marriage education courses that teach new relationship skills,” the researchers conclude.

In an interview with The Christian Post on Tuesday, Price explained that the disparity between the characteristics unmarried women are looking for in a life partner and their available choices in reality have created “a structural mismatch” starkly highlighted in their research.

“The important contribution that our paper made was just to document the structural mismatch and the kind of men on average that women are looking for and the kind of men that are currently available for them," Price said. "So our best guess among the unmarried women in our sample, they are hoping to marry someone whose average income is $53,000, but if you look at the average income among the potential partners they can choose from, it's about $35,000. So this $18,000 gap creates a bit of a structural mismatch.”

Challenge of minority women

While all unmarried women face the challenge of finding suitable marriage partners, the study highlights that this challenge is particularly acute for minority women and black women especially. Unmarried Women from both low socioeconomic backgrounds as well as those with high socioeconomic status also have an especially hard time finding suitable partners.

“High rates of incarceration and substantial out-marriage to white women, especially among black men, have also left many minority women without marital partners. The fact that women’s educational levels now exceed men’s further implies that young women—by necessity—are less financially dependent on husbands than in the past and that educational hypogamy has become more commonplace,” the study says.

Among Christian women and those of other faiths where women are expected to marry in order to pursue intimate relationships, Price said there might have to be a cultural shift from hypergamy — where women tend to marry up — to one of hypogamy — where they marry below their standards.

“Hypergamy is this pattern we observe in data in which women tend to marry men with a higher level of education. And given that women now constitute about 60 percent of the college degrees, what you’ll probably start to see in faith communities is an erosion of the hypergamy norm, in which case women are OK marrying a husband who has less education than her. That’s one solution to the problem within a faith community,” Price said.

When asked about men who have invested in trade schools to acquire skills such as plumbing or carpentry, Price noted that that alternative route is also a solution for unmarried men to increase their stock, but the current data show unmarried women have a stronger preference for men with college degrees.

“I think that’s another solution too. It’s kind of a renewal of the dignity of work, which is that someone who has a skill, has a trade, and is able to work hard will be able to support a family even if they do not have a college degree,” he said.

A long-term response to improve the marriage prospects of the current crop of economically and educationally undesirable single men is to change the culture.

“We might have to change that norm, where the potential spouses actually can make a living through these other routes. Those are the alternative pathways to having a good life and a steady income,” he says.

Changing the culture

While alternative solutions to help single men lift their income so that they are more in line with the current desired spouses of unmarried women, changing the culture from hypergamy to one of hypogamy will be a lot more difficult.

“I don’t know how you change the norm — that you can have a happy marriage and a successful marriage with someone who is earning much less than you’re hoping to find. I don’t have a solution to that,” he says.

When asked what advice he would give to Christians facing this situation, Price said marriage can sometimes help men improve their status in life.

“I guess on a personal level I would say that marriage changes people in positive ways and it’s quite possible that, over time in a strong marriage, both the husband and wife will grow in their skills and talents,” he said.

There are men, he explained, “who through marriage have been able to improve their prospects at work, seek more education or seek additional training, try to get those promotions. Try to earn more.

“What we’re seeing is that the unmarried men, as they are right now, we can’t know for sure what their potential is going to be if they were in a lasting and committed marriage,” Price noted.

Not many women appear willing to budge on their standard, however, so Price suggested that churches can play a more integral role in helping men improve their prospects as potential partners for the crop of ambitious women.

“I think we have to take more seriously the charge as a faith community to encourage our young men to get the education, get the training they need to be successful in a career so they can be in a position to support a family and be attractive as a potential partner in a marriage,” he said.

Selectivity

In The Coming Divorce Decline, published last September, University of Maryland sociology professor Philip Cohen shows that better educated women 44 years old and younger tended to have more lasting marriages than their older counterparts because they were more selective in their choice of partners. He also noted that this selectivity has resulted in marriage becoming rarer and reflective of social inequality.

“Marriage is become more selective, and more stable, even as attitudes toward divorce are becoming more permissive, and cohabitation has grown less stable. The U.S. is progressing toward a system in which marriage is rarer, and more stable, than it was in the past, representing an increasingly central component of the structure of social inequality,” Cohen notes in his analysis.

“Over the last decade, newly married women have become more likely to be in their first marriages, more likely to have bachelor's degrees or higher education, less likely to be under age 25, and less likely to have grown children in the household — all of which suggests falling risk of divorce,” he continues.

In discussing the trend with Bloomberg, Cohen explained that marriage today is becoming more of an “achievement of status” for those who choose it.

“Marriage is more and more an achievement of status, rather than something that people do regardless of how they’re doing,” Cohen said.

“The change among young people is particularly striking,” Susan Brown, a sociology professor at Bowling Green State University, told Bloomberg in response to Cohen’s analysis. “The characteristics of young married couples today signal a sustained decline [in divorce rates] in the coming years.”

Many poorer and less educated Americans are often in cohabiting relationships with children. Those relationships are seen as less stable.

A study conducted in 2016 by Barna shows that a majority of Americans now believe in cohabitation due to pressures like shifting gender roles and expectations, the delay of marriage, and a secularizing culture.


TOPICS: Society
KEYWORDS: genderwars; golddiggers; manhood; marriage; mgtow; pua; redpill; shallowwomen; shortage; singles; waronboys
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To: EEGator
I know linemen with HS degrees only that make +200K.

Really? I don't think that is the norm at all.

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21 posted on 09/12/2019 8:30:44 AM PDT by central_va (I won't be reconstructed and I do not give a damn.)
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To: SeekAndFind
Economically Attractive?!
No points for "Inner Qualities"?
And they call us shallow.

22 posted on 09/12/2019 8:31:27 AM PDT by BitWielder1 (I'd rather have Unequal Wealth than Equal Poverty.)
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To: SeekAndFind

Just my experience.....

Teenage females believe in love.

Females older than teenage believe in security.


23 posted on 09/12/2019 8:31:55 AM PDT by blueunicorn6 ("A crack shot and a good dancer")
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To: sphinx

If schools, universities and employers are going to systematically discriminate against men, women will have to get used to marrying down economically.

...

That’s what I wanted to say.


24 posted on 09/12/2019 8:32:19 AM PDT by Moonman62 (Charity comes from wealth.)
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To: central_va

A first class lineman at my company makes 50 an hour.
OT is 75 an hour
Sunday & Holiday is 100 an hour.

I don’t any lineman (1st class) that make under 150K.


25 posted on 09/12/2019 8:33:27 AM PDT by EEGator
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To: SeekAndFind

If the country is facing a shortage of economically attractive men, then it’s safe to say that

America is facing a shortage of attractive women that are not a threat to a man’s economics...


26 posted on 09/12/2019 8:35:24 AM PDT by Professional
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To: Sicon

Patriarchy Smashed - mission accomplished


27 posted on 09/12/2019 8:35:33 AM PDT by a fool in paradise (Denounce DUAC - The Democrats Un-American Activists Committee)
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To: EEGator

I am posting a fact the average pay for linemen is $26/hr. Your situation is obviously an outlier and NOT THE NORM.


28 posted on 09/12/2019 8:35:59 AM PDT by central_va (I won't be reconstructed and I do not give a damn.)
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To: MeganC

Financial success is over-rated. All you need is love...love is all you need...Beetles song.


29 posted on 09/12/2019 8:36:30 AM PDT by entropy12 (Learn all you can from the mistakes of others. You won't have time to make them all yourself.)
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To: outpostinmass2

“If marriage is an achievement status won’t more people want to get married? Or am I missing something? I don’t follow the logic.”

Well, a nice house is also an achievement status that people want, but not everyone gets.

I’d also point out that many, many marriageable men chose not to get married simply because many, many women are not marriage material.

I employ a number of young male engineers and geologists; they make in the low-mid six figures in their late 20s. Nice kids, work hard, smart, make a lot money for their ages, and generally well put together and fit (one geologist is a bit of a slob).

They’ve opted out of marriage simply because the women they have dated are clearly mercenary and would not be good life partners. They’re definitely aware of the unfavorable legal climate for men in marriage, and they want no part in it.

I can’t say I blame them.


30 posted on 09/12/2019 8:38:24 AM PDT by TheThirdRuffian (Orange is the new brown)
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To: central_va

May be a Lineman in NYC makes $200k/year. But as you said it is definitely not the normal average.


31 posted on 09/12/2019 8:38:40 AM PDT by entropy12 (Learn all you can from the mistakes of others. You won't have time to make them all yourself.)
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To: central_va

Well if the internet says so, it must be a fact.


32 posted on 09/12/2019 8:39:15 AM PDT by EEGator
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To: SeekAndFind; All

Let’s not forget the push to normalize homosexuality.

Men who have difficulty finding women are now able to turn their sex drive toward other men, and be applauded when doing so.

The normalization of homosexuality makes it harder for women to find marriageable men.


33 posted on 09/12/2019 8:39:49 AM PDT by marktwain (President Trump and his supporters are the Resistance. His opponents are the Reactionaries.)
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To: entropy12

Rural and suburban PA.


34 posted on 09/12/2019 8:40:05 AM PDT by EEGator
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To: setter

[Rare to find a woman marrying down.]

I know of one, she even made him take her last name.


35 posted on 09/12/2019 8:41:13 AM PDT by VastRWCon (Fake News)
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To: SeekAndFind

“I don’t need you, and I don’t respect you” is not a good sales pitch for women seeking men.

I would be more than okay with my (highly-educated and successful) daughters marrying men who had not gone to college. I’ll take a hard-working carpenter, a hard-working farmer, a hard-working fisherman or a hard-working truck driver over some socialist pansy with credentials (I’m also okay with a hard-working doctor/lawyer/engineer/businessman). As long as the man has a work ethic and traditional values, I’m good. As long as it’s a real marriage - one man and one woman, planning for children - I’m good


36 posted on 09/12/2019 8:41:49 AM PDT by Pollster1 ("Governments derive their just powers from the consent of the governed")
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To: SeekAndFind

American women can be very demanding. That is why a lot of American men like from other countries.


37 posted on 09/12/2019 8:42:16 AM PDT by forgotten man
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To: SeekAndFind

“The BLS reports that,in the first quarter of 2019, men earned a median salary of $52,208 annually”

So basically, you have to earn above the average male to be considered. And since older men earn more than younger men, and they probably have unmentioned age requirements. They are probably saying that unless you’re in the top 10% earnings, you’re just not good enough.

It’s not that there is a man shortage. It’s that there is an excess of gold diggers.


38 posted on 09/12/2019 8:42:21 AM PDT by DannyTN
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To: TheThirdRuffian

They’ve opted out of marriage simply because the women they have dated are clearly mercenary and would not be good life partners...

There it is in a nutshell.


39 posted on 09/12/2019 8:43:00 AM PDT by Texas resident (Democrats=Enemy of People of The United States of America)
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To: marktwain

I see more women coming out and saying they’re “bisexual”, like Miley Cyrus.


40 posted on 09/12/2019 8:45:39 AM PDT by dfwgator (Endut! Hoch Hech!)
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