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The Bored Sex
The Atlantic ^ | Feb 14, 2019 | W Martin

Posted on 02/16/2019 8:57:16 AM PST by gasport

Women, more than men, tend to feel stultified by long-term exclusivity—despite having been taught that they were designed for it.

(Excerpt) Read more at theatlantic.com ...


TOPICS: Health/Medicine; Hobbies
KEYWORDS: feminazism; gigo; mgtow; pua; redpill; sexpositiveagenda; smashmonogamy
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To: Yogafist

Men engaging in the sex act are on automatic pilot until the need for blue pills come around. Women can do it when their dead. A cold fish can function.


21 posted on 02/16/2019 9:32:37 AM PST by DIRTYSECRET (urope. Why do they put up with this.)
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To: gasport
You're still trying? The key is to make them wonder what makes you tick, not wonder what makes them tick.

Always make them think they won the argument too. 8>)

22 posted on 02/16/2019 9:37:32 AM PST by Robert DeLong
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To: antidemoncrat

Bored of sex with the SAME guy.

The article says they want a different guy, two guys, a girl, etc.


23 posted on 02/16/2019 9:37:37 AM PST by JohnnyP (Thinking is hard work (I stole that from Rush).)
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To: Dilbert San Diego
Relationships and marriage take work. That seems to be lost in the modern world.

Three things. 1. Humans live longer than ever. 2. Radical Feminism 3. Our culture no longer supports marriages and families to stay together.

24 posted on 02/16/2019 9:41:42 AM PST by MinorityRepublican
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To: gasport

The article is trying to say that normal, straight women should have sex with other women, other men, and cheat on their spouses.

What a load of crap that article is.

Sounds more like the writer is bored and is trying to justify their own behaviors.


25 posted on 02/16/2019 9:42:10 AM PST by manc ( If they want so called marriage equality then they should support polygamy too.)
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To: gasport

Another symptom of the disease known as affluenza.

People that are forever ungrateful for what they have and have no limit to their hedonistic appetites deserve all the misery they inevitably get.


26 posted on 02/16/2019 9:42:16 AM PST by aquila48
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To: gasport

Never try to understand Women. Women understand women, and they dont like women.


28 posted on 02/16/2019 10:06:58 AM PST by Dead Dog (J.)
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To: gasport

The problem is left-wing women are sexually frustrated, and try to generalize their unhappy, unfulfilling, meaningless lives to all women.

https://broadly.vice.com/en_us/article/paeekv/why-conservatives-have-better-sex-lives-than-liberals


29 posted on 02/16/2019 10:07:34 AM PST by Redmen4ever (u)
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To: gasport; All

1960’s recycled baloney.

It was garbage then, it is garbage now.


30 posted on 02/16/2019 10:10:21 AM PST by longtermmemmory (VOTE! http://www.senate.tand http://www.house.gov)
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To: gasport

I think women were designed to have many hands making for light work. In the world the way it is, they get dumped on with having tons of chores and not enough time to be able to even enjoy the work that can be equal parts fun.

It is not exclusivity that they have a problem with, it is the atomic family in the place of the more traditional extended family that is the problem. There needs to be support in the form of extended family. Nature did not intend for individuals to move all over the place so that they can have the fruit of their labors systematically milked away from them. Nature supports extended family groups so that the grandparents can look after the kids, the parents of those kids can look after the grandparents, and everyone can pitch in and help when a need to do so presents itself.


31 posted on 02/16/2019 10:10:23 AM PST by BlackAdderess (When anyone can be fired at any time with the magic of Photoshop anyone can be blackmailed)
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To: Dead Dog

Yes, very few of them. Much prefer the company of men.


32 posted on 02/16/2019 10:12:13 AM PST by Lizavetta
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To: gasport

The atomic family in the place of the extended family is a recipe for female burnout. I don’t think you are looking at boredom. You are looking at burnout. These are VERY different things. Mistaking burnout for boredom will encourage a remedy that adds to burnout, making matters worse. It would be better to encourage families to stick together and pool their resources to address challenges.


33 posted on 02/16/2019 10:14:59 AM PST by BlackAdderess (When anyone can be fired at any time with the magic of Photoshop anyone can be blackmailed)
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To: Steely Tom
Designed for vs. want are two different thing.

We live in a fallen corrupted world, we don't naturally desire what we’re designed for. That's a human reality, not just a chick thing.

Accordingly both Men and women want to screw like dogs in a pack. Men with a harem, women with an alpha provider and half the rest of the pack. A good cad knows exactly how easy it is to nail another man’s wife.

But if we act on those impulses, as opposed to a higher order, society collapses and we get the third world. Mankind’s “natural” state. Follow the higher order and you become your own little Israel surrounded by “nature’s” man.

34 posted on 02/16/2019 10:17:38 AM PST by Dead Dog (J.)
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To: gasport

Behind ever angry women is a man who has no idea why he is the blame.
Now we know how snap on tools came into business.


35 posted on 02/16/2019 10:18:01 AM PST by Vaduz (women and children to be impacIQ of chimpsted the most.)
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To: gasport

I know of no women - or men for that matter - who put Almighty God first in their lives who are bored with anything, much less sex.

Get back to Church.


36 posted on 02/16/2019 10:20:28 AM PST by MichaelCorleone (Jesus Christ is not a religion. He's the Truth.)
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To: gasport
The problem here is our desires and attachments

A Buddhist would remind us the the root of all suffering is our desires (4 Nobel Truths)

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Four_Noble_Truths

Unguarded sensory contact gives rise to craving and clinging to impermanent states and things

The very act of desiring that which is not lawful or freely given WILL cause suffering. The secret here is to come in command of our desires.

37 posted on 02/16/2019 10:32:00 AM PST by HangnJudge
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To: Steely Tom
They feel stultified because they always think they can do better than what they've got.

I think that's true of many people. Not just women.

I think it's a sad way to live because we live in such a world of plenty. Even our so-called poor live in luxury that the rich of a hundred years ago could only dream about.

I think being satisfied with what you have is the key to happiness. Now there's nothing wrong with working hard to do even better but if you can appreciate what you have today - that is on of the best gifts that you can give yourself.

38 posted on 02/16/2019 10:39:21 AM PST by SamAdams76
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To: gasport

Help is on the way on June 23. It’s called Vyleesi.


39 posted on 02/16/2019 10:43:13 AM PST by Dave Wright
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To: gasport

People who want to rationalize their homosexual desires often write idiotic articles like this one. The tell here (among several) is that for homosexuals sex is the whole cake. For normal people sex is a slice of the cake. Very meaningful difference.


40 posted on 02/16/2019 11:20:56 AM PST by TalBlack (Damn right I'll "do something" you fat, balding son of a bitch!)
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