Posted on 02/10/2019 6:56:27 PM PST by EdnaMode
Oh, God, another Asian girl/white boy couple, I groan, dropping my fiancés hand.
He hates it when I do this. So do I, really. I know its unkind and self-loathing, but every time I see another couple of our racial makeup, a little part of me sinks. We live in San Francisco, so this dip is as common as the hills. In these moments, I wish we were anything else ― that he were my gay best friend or we were startup co-founders, that he were Asian and I were white, that we were exquisitely ambiguous races, or that I could sink like my feelings into the sidewalk, be a little worm, and date whomever I want without considering social perception.
Shame is neither the wisest nor most mature part of oneself, but it still has a voice. Stop it you guys! my shame wants to say to these other couples. Cant you see the more of us there are, the worse it looks?
It meaning the prevalent trend of Asian women seeming to end up with white men. It meaning the perpetuation of Asian fetish.
The first time I heard the term Asian fetish, I was the only Chinese kid in a tiny school. Other students in my class had been pairing up to date since fifth grade, exchanging love notes and making each other Alanis Morissette mixtapes. I waited for my Jagged Little Pill cassette, but nothing came in fifth grade. Or sixth. Or seventh. Or eighth.
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Guess whos not coming to dinner? Bigots
My first thought.
She needs to take the advice from “En Vogue”
Free your mind and the rest will follow
Be color blind, don’t be so shallow
That’s just Wong...
Sounds more like one millenial geek being attracted to another millenial geek more than anything else. Why do people have to get so hung up on race??
Maybe you stay ‘short time girl’ Tria. You both be happier.
People are so focused on “race” that they don’t understand the speed bump in these pairings is not race, it’s culture.
Liberals and their “all cultures are equal” view have no clue as to the wide gulfs between cultures. We are not all the same.
I find plenty of women of different races/cultures attractive. But that doesn’t make me less cognizant of cultural differences and the hurdles they pose.
Make her walk crooked for a week, then run.
you forgot one....they're easy.....
they'll do ANYTHING to get that American citizenship and the big $$$$$$ that those balding, fat paunched white American men offer.....
now lets see the reasons why women marry date and marry black guys.....per urban rumor, they have bigger peckers then white guys....
anybody can make these reasons up.....
If youre struggling, move on. Very simple. Get the Only yellow crayon book and cry yourself to sleep.
I wonder when former CBS CEO Les Moonves realized his Chinese Wife Julie Chen wouldn’t give him a BJ forcing him to find some willing participants at the Office?
I assume it was after her extensive “make me look European” Plastic Surgery.
She was probably afraid he would ruin all that work and break her Face.
Now back to the Oriental Girl hates White Boys Thread.
That's one of the stupidest comments I have seen. And very racist too. I've been married to an Asian - Philippina - for 25 years and have 4 kids. Her family came LEGALLY when she was 10 years old.
Yes get away, her insecurities are going to drag you down. Run!
Dear "white boy" AKA (n-word), dump your racist fiancee.
My honey is from Shenyang, look for women away from Beijing and Shanghai, a lot of them have been brainwashed with feminist crap. I was introduced to Liu, my wife, by her cousin who is one of my best friends.
I’ve been married to a Chinese woman for 35 years.
I used to have American Femipig types say I wanted to marry an Asian woman because I wanted a demur, controllable and submissive woman.
I didn’t know whether to bust out laughing or cursing at that claim.
Cherry — I’m guessing you are a White woman. Sometime take a good hard look at most White women over 35. It ain’t pretty.
adolph is that you?
What the hell is she engaged to this guy for, this guy needs to kick this bitch to the curb NOW!!!
At first it seemed like a dream marriage except to say that he was a bit of a work-a-holic to support his family and at one point near the end of the marriage of 19 yrs, the wife suddenly decided to NOT WORK and leave all the responsibilities to him for the last 5 years of the marriage.
I would often pop in and chat with them you could see the quiet pains in his eyes he endured as she totally devolved into the proverbial Peggy Bundy (from Married With Children sitcom comedy), as she would be goofing off and spending the entire day on Youtube, claiming to be doing "spiritual research". They were both strong mature Christians but she got screwed up big-time in her head.
In the end, he confided to me that he didnt trust her cooking and he was chronically ill from various stuff that left the doctors confounded!
Now that she divorced him, he is a much happier person that he's ever been and even the pastor at church today publicly remarked that he is looking very well and happier than ever!
He once told me that he is very glad that there were no children produced in this marriage as we all feared that she would have used this as a weapon against him.
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