Posted on 02/10/2019 6:56:27 PM PST by EdnaMode
“Oh, God, another Asian girl/white boy couple,” I groan, dropping my fiancé’s hand.
He hates it when I do this. So do I, really. I know it’s unkind and self-loathing, but every time I see another couple of our racial makeup, a little part of me sinks. We live in San Francisco, so this dip is as common as the hills. In these moments, I wish we were anything else ― that he were my gay best friend or we were startup co-founders, that he were Asian and I were white, that we were exquisitely ambiguous races, or that I could sink like my feelings into the sidewalk, be a little worm, and date whomever I want without considering social perception.
Shame is neither the wisest nor most mature part of oneself, but it still has a voice. “Stop it you guys!” my shame wants to say to these other couples. “Can’t you see the more of us there are, the worse it looks?”
“It” meaning the prevalent trend of Asian women seeming to end up with white men. “It” meaning the perpetuation of Asian fetish.
The first time I heard the term ”Asian fetish,” I was the only Chinese kid in a tiny school. Other students in my class had been pairing up to date since fifth grade, exchanging love notes and making each other Alanis Morissette mixtapes. I waited for my ”Jagged Little Pill” cassette, but nothing came in fifth grade. Or sixth. Or seventh. Or eighth.
(Excerpt) Read more at huffingtonpost.com ...
Not even worth reading.
The dementors at Huffpo site make Harry Potter’s dementors look like amateurs.
Exactly, and bears repeating. If you are obsessed with race, you are racist. You may be otherwise a perfectly nice person, but you are a racist.
A lot of people are. Most of them, if they are Americans, are Democrats. In fact, if you are obsessed with race, God bless you, that's your party.
If you are not obsessed, if you are more interested in a person's character, principles, things like that, you are probably not a Democrat. You might even wear a Maga cap on special occasions.
Asian women are attractive to white men by default, with white women having done everything they could to be unattractive.
It’s not a fetish. It’s wanting a woman who is feminine, which is normal and natural. Tattooed, fat, promiscuous females are not marriage material.
Then don’t marry him, you racist POS. Now you get credit for virtue signalling, too?!? Get lost, jerk.
My Cuban-born wife is more pro-Trump than I am.
Dump whitey.
Date and marry a black man.
Everybody will think of you as brave and progressive and unbiased and forward-thinking. Everybody that is liberal, that is. Conservatives? They’re racists, every single one of them, even black and Hispanic conservatives.
Oh, when you have babies with that black man, abort ‘it’ just before birth. You’ll probably even get a special on TV for being so progressive.
Dude, at least find one that will age well.
Since being stationed in Asia twice I prefer Asian women but never ran into one here.
This girl needs help, serious help.
Trust me. Chinese women are crazier, more pig headed, and have a very strange idea of common sense.
I should know i am married to one. No man knows how a woman thinks but when you square the equation with a chinese mind you are in deep deep doo doo.
LMAO.
“You numbah 1, GI!”
Land of the Big PX, here we come.
“...He’s making an effort to not leave me alone in the awkward parts of our love, and I’m making an effort to not let go of his hand. We’re not perfect. But after I rise from the little dips of shame, I wouldn’t actually want either of us to be anything else.”
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Jeez, she has “dips of shame” for having a white boyfriend? Silly.
Of course if I had a white boyfriend I’d have gobs of constant shame. But I’m a guy, so that’s understandable.
In the late 50’s, my uncle in California was madly in love with a Japanese gal.
Her family would not allow it.
Idiotic article from an idiotic publication. Over the years I have dated outside my race lots of times. Never bothered me in the least. I don’t even see the race. I just see a woman that I am very attracted to or in love with. This liberal insanity needs to stop.
I find Koreans much more attractive to me than Chinese. But I hear Korean girls can be crazy as well.
A lot of men are courting women overseas. Who’d want to deal with the BS feminist crap here?
1. They keep themselves fit
2. They generally look younger than they are
3. They are smart, hard working and well behaved
4. They generally avoid the Feminist nonsense
5. They know how to treat a man
Explains everything, no need to read farther.
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My son married a Vietnamese woman. She is very fine and they have the most beautiful daughter who is the light of my life.
I hope they don’t live in the Feces District
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