Posted on 02/10/2019 6:56:27 PM PST by EdnaMode
“Oh, God, another Asian girl/white boy couple,” I groan, dropping my fiancé’s hand.
He hates it when I do this. So do I, really. I know it’s unkind and self-loathing, but every time I see another couple of our racial makeup, a little part of me sinks. We live in San Francisco, so this dip is as common as the hills. In these moments, I wish we were anything else ― that he were my gay best friend or we were startup co-founders, that he were Asian and I were white, that we were exquisitely ambiguous races, or that I could sink like my feelings into the sidewalk, be a little worm, and date whomever I want without considering social perception.
Shame is neither the wisest nor most mature part of oneself, but it still has a voice. “Stop it you guys!” my shame wants to say to these other couples. “Can’t you see the more of us there are, the worse it looks?”
“It” meaning the prevalent trend of Asian women seeming to end up with white men. “It” meaning the perpetuation of Asian fetish.
The first time I heard the term ”Asian fetish,” I was the only Chinese kid in a tiny school. Other students in my class had been pairing up to date since fifth grade, exchanging love notes and making each other Alanis Morissette mixtapes. I waited for my ”Jagged Little Pill” cassette, but nothing came in fifth grade. Or sixth. Or seventh. Or eighth.
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Racists are people who are obsessed with race.
Do you see where this is going?
A lot of men are courting women overseas. Who’d want to deal with the BS feminist crap here?
Dude has a smile that is all gums
Dont blame her..../S
Yes. He should break up with her. Now.
Doesn’t bode well for a successful marriage.
Hope she learns to stand on her own. Maybe with help from her caucasian man.
Doubt it though.
Ping for your interest. :)
For your interest.
They should both do a ‘trans’.
Then She (now He) would still be unique.
By all means, let ideology rule your love-life - every left-wing robot should.
LOL I asked my wife if we could take her mother to dinner so I could ask for her hand in marriage the traditional Filipino way. During dinner excused myself thin king they needed time without me there. My future mother-in-law asked my wife coif age 41, why are you marrying a white boy? I was 51.
My wife couldn’t stop laughing. Se pointed out to her mother, you’re married to a “white boy” American.
Yeah - I skimmed the rest of the article. Run - or find an uber.
Boy are you spot on. If someone kidnapped her BF and dropped him in Pocatello with no phone, no money, no credit cards he’d eventually be bett dr. R off than he is with this weirdo
I actually read the article. This dude needs to run far, far away.
"Eddie....I want to talk to you....I'm an American woman now Eddie, I want whats coming to me! .....HALF!"
Looks like she’s got to be carefully taught...or was at some time.
That's how you REALLY know that white guys are racist -- they don't think about race. [/s]
My brother is married to a wonderful rightwing pro-Trump Filipina. Cant have it any other way.
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