Posted on 03/26/2018 5:47:22 AM PDT by SandRat
Most people have a Wish List. Some may call it a Bucket List, but they are not necessarily the same.
A Bucket List usually refers to things we want to do or places we want to see before we die.
A Wish List typically itemizes stuff we want to accumulate while we are still kicking.
Sometimes the Bucket and the Wish cross paths. That happens when the person compiling the two is unclear on the concept of Wish and Bucket.
If you are an enthusiastic shopper with sufficient funds, it is possible you support the see something, buy it mindset. However, some shoppers enjoy or prefer looking without buying. They may choose to window shop because they lack funds. Or they desire the pure delight of spending time alone without someone demanding they hurry up.
My mother was the queen of looking but not buying. If you doubt me, please consider that mother spent eight hours in a sizable craft store window shopping. It must have been relaxing because she came home smiling. When she shopped with the eyes rather than the wallet she compiled various wish lists.The lists may include a few items for her, but mostly listed gifts shed like to buy for family and friends.
On the other hand, grocery shopping with our father, the king of impatience, was a weekly ordeal. You could say those times were her purgatory on earth.
No, he did not walk around the store dropping items in the shopping cart like Hubby tends to do. Father sat in the car, waiting. As you might have guessed, the longer he had to wait, the more agitated he became.
When it came to shopping, in the store or online, mothers two daughters did not follow in her look-but-not-buy footsteps.
One daughter loves to shop, but she likes to buy, not just look. Her motto: I like it. It is a bargain at that price. Im buying a dozen, whether I need it or not. Is that how hoarders approach their excessive accumulation lifestyle?
This writer abhors shopping, including grocery shopping. If we did not need fuel to survive, buying groceries would be the first thing crossed off my Must Do list. I walk in; buy the necessary item or items, and leave. No longing looks and lingering for this gal.
Often something catches my eye, but I talk myself out of buying it. Of course there have been times I regretted that decision. Oh well.
Perhaps the less one has, the more a person wants. This attitude is understandable among folks not born with silver spoons in their mouth. If that is the case, what do those who have everything wish to possess? From pure observation, they tend to accumulate for tax write-off purposes or just because they can.
It is a good thing we are not wealthy because clutter is annoying. As it is, we have more than we need or want. In fact, this writers focus is finding happy homes for as many of her possessions as possible. That may sound odd to you. But when you consider that belongings need care, at least dusting, and they take up space, it makes perfect sense.
The problem is it takes time and effort to match your belonging with happy homes.
Life is a constant evolution. What we wished for and obtained may become too much. Nowadays, our wish is to find people who need what we no longer use without enduring the brain damage of a garage sale.
Besides, who wants to buy garages?
“Bucket lists” do seem awfully self centered, now that you mention it.
God actually does want us to have some fun here on planet Earth. After all, it is part of His creation.
He just doesn’t want us focused on that too much.
My bucket list is short. It is to find a cure for my dry, winter skin.
But I digress....
I have a couple of buckets but they’re filled with used softballs for batting practice.......
Wow! That is awesome! I will follow you, too! :)
Joe was a local yokel when I was kid.
James Gang rocked
Joe played on the very 1st Michael Stanley LP.
When Glass Harp broke up, Danny Pecchio landed in MSB.
I seen em all and had beers with them to boot.. At the Rathskeller, JB’s Kent Ohio
https://www.youtube.com/watch?time_continue=5&v=TtQHtkjVQ24
Chrissy Hyndes Brother on Sax
My running buddy, Tim, who I still have contact with today used to double date with Joe LOL
That was ages ago! What’s a double date?
Goofy kids!
Tell you what Brother.
It was not on any bucket list but I loved living in Cochise Co
She’s no Lewis Grizzard or Art Buchwald, but has a good sense of humor.
A Bucket List usually refers to things we want to do or places we want to see before we die.
A Wish List typically itemizes stuff we want to accumulate while we are still kicking.
Pinging this one to all lists, even though it's unrelated, because we need a little recreation time! Thanks SandRat.
A couple more trips to AK.
A couple more hunts in Africa.
River boat down the Mississippi.
Bungee jump one more time from a hot air balloon.
Nostalgic train ride, CO or Canada.
Lots more deep sea fishing.
Disney World, FL, just me and my GF.
AIRNB in the Keys.
The Smithsonian.
Prolly think of more, but these I will do.
I don’t have much of a wish list. I guess I’d like a white Ford Mustang with blue racing stripes and a nice five speed V8. Sort of like the 72 Mach 1 I owned in college. Otherwise, I am quite content with what I own.
Bucket list is a lot longer, mostly sports:
Touring WW2 battlefields
Cubs-Yankees game in Yankee Stadium.
Candiens game in Montreal or Maple Leafs game in Toronto.
Formula 1 race at Silverstone or Imola.
Snowmachine trek across the Greenland ice cap.
Climbing the great pyramid of Giza.
I have a “to-do” list that never gets tended to.
“I cannot believe that any creator would like their children to live that way.”
William L. Brown wrote, “The attempt to make God just in the eyes of sinful men will always lead to error.”
“they really experienced nothing significant.”
Maybe they experienced significant things in connection with their relationship to God.
Maybe their God-given vocation was to be a husband and father, to raise good kids, and then to be a grandfather. Maybe they did a very good job of that, and have already heard Our Lord’s voice saying, “Well done, good and faithful servant.”
Checkin it twice...
Sharks with laser beams on their heads?
Mine has “compile to-do list” as the first item, and there’s so much to do that I can’t finish the list, so I don’t even get to check off #1.
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