If a woman is completely naked in front of me, I treat her as if she is fully clothed, unless she has made it clear she wants a relationship with me that includes being my lover.
I once did a photo shoot with a woman who had to be fully disrobed in the shoot. My job was to place an ultrasound probe on her enlarged abdomen.
At no time did I check out anything other than the small area where I was going to place the probe, and what angle I knew the photographer would find most pleasing, to get the job done quickly.
I remember nothing about her that I couldn’t see when she had her robe on. Not once did I focus on her breasts or other private areas.
The idea that women set themselves up for abuse, is a foreign one to me.
That being said, I have tried to warn the women in my life to be careful, because I don’t believe there as many men out there as there should be, that share my ethic in this matter.
You are a professional and a man of honor.
A pro. knows to always observe personal boundaries of behavior, even when the subject is sending out ‘mixed’ messages. Doctors and Therapists too. One must not break that trust the subject has established with you when they are most vulnerable, or you may never get it back.
I’d behave the same way myself except I’d be wearing a robe...a very large, full robe.
