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An open letter to men, who can help female runners feel safe
NT News ^ | December 6, 2016 | Carolyn Tate

Posted on 12/06/2016 11:08:19 AM PST by conservative98

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To: conservative98

I really feel sorry for men in that they have to be subjected to women like this. I wonder what it will be like in a few years when my 16 and 12 year old boys are all grown up.


41 posted on 12/06/2016 11:27:53 AM PST by pinkandgreenmom
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To: conservative98

42 posted on 12/06/2016 11:29:06 AM PST by Snickering Hound
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To: ZULU

Funnel Web spiders can bite through a shoe.


43 posted on 12/06/2016 11:29:36 AM PST by ZULU (We are freedom's safest place!!!! #BOYCOTT HAMILTON!!! #BOYCOTT NEW YORK CITY!!!!!!!)
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To: Mr. Douglas
noticed this 20 something young woman walking behind me and struggling to “keep up” but always just a step or so behind me. Remembering that it is a bit of a “dicey” area

I'd have at least considered the possibility that she was running point for a gang of toughs intent on robbing me. You had the benefit of seeing her body-language.

44 posted on 12/06/2016 11:30:34 AM PST by NorthMountain
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To: conservative98

My advice to that female runner is to (1)Get a large protective Dog and(2)Take the headphones off while your out in public.

There are predators out there and it matters not that your a female or a male.If your unaware of your surroundings your just making yourself a victim.

It angers me everyday I see this and people wonder why there are so many muggings.


45 posted on 12/06/2016 11:32:33 AM PST by puppypusher ( The World is going to the dogs.)
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To: Blue Jays

Darn right. No runner has eye in the back of the head and wearing HEADPHONES will cut of the SOUND of approaching footsteps. Never forget the HEARING as well as SEEING is a critical part of the human defense mechanism.
It’s like a teen blasting the car audio so loud he/she never heard the horn of the approaching truck.


46 posted on 12/06/2016 11:32:38 AM PST by CaptainAmiigaf (New York Times: "We print the news as it fits our views.")
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To: conservative98
Because as a man, you fall into one of two categories:

1. You’re a genuinely nice guy who needs to be more aware of this problem

2. You’re a man who makes women feel unsafe when she’s running in public (shame on you!).

I reject the premise right there; that I "need() to be more aware of this problem."

How dare she presume that I, nay, men in general, haven't long since been wearied down into being overwhelmed with guilt over not being 'sensitive enough' to women's 'needs.'

47 posted on 12/06/2016 11:33:09 AM PST by Quality_Not_Quantity
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To: conservative98

Just an observation. In my personal history, the more dedicated a female runner is, the more obnoxious and nose in the air they become. The progression is almost linear as far as I can see.


48 posted on 12/06/2016 11:33:50 AM PST by DesertRhino (November 8, America's Brexit!!!)
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Wow......with each passing day, Trump’s victory over Clinton looks more and more like the right decision....Apparently Leftist women are the weakest creatures on the planet..


49 posted on 12/06/2016 11:34:32 AM PST by Maverick68
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To: NorthMountain

You had the benefit of seeing her body-language.


Yep. And the reverse was true. She was dressed quite professionally and was very attractive, and I’ve been trained to “appear to be carrying”. It wasn’t dark and it was pretty clear what was going on. I can’t remember the whole thing but she followed for something around a block or more before I noticed she was clearly pacing me.

I have four adult daughters and I think I somehow carried that “protective father” thing off to her.


50 posted on 12/06/2016 11:35:30 AM PST by Mr. Douglas (Today is your life. What are you going to do with it?)
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To: Snickering Hound

Now, that’s what I’m talking about!


51 posted on 12/06/2016 11:35:31 AM PST by Quality_Not_Quantity
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To: conservative98
Actually, this advice isn't sex specific. It is simple good manners for both men and women.

By the way, I have completely stopped hiking alone. With the influx of illegals and immigrants into our state the number of rapes has increased dramatically. Some of these rapes have been on hiking trails.

52 posted on 12/06/2016 11:35:53 AM PST by wintertime (Stop treating government teachers like they are reincarnated Mother Teresas!)
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To: Quality_Not_Quantity

Stuff like this really burns me. I am able to compartmentalize it, but the women who demand full and unconditional equality, then begin making demands on that equality really irritate me.


53 posted on 12/06/2016 11:36:53 AM PST by rlmorel (Orwell described Liberals when he wrote of those who "repudiate morality while laying claim to it.")
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To: lee martell
Many of her points are valid, and are what used to be called common sense or courtesy.

Very well said! It's a shame that the author got so PC and anti-male at the end. Because most of what she said was good advice. There is nothing wrong with being courteous.

54 posted on 12/06/2016 11:37:15 AM PST by Leaning Right (I have already previewed or do not wish to preview this composition.)
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To: DesertRhino

There is a tendency for female athletes to strongly internalize the idea “anything you [men] can do, I can do better”. It’s objectively false, and living with cognitive dissonance can really mess with the mind.


55 posted on 12/06/2016 11:38:26 AM PST by NorthMountain
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To: conservative98

Too many rules, I think I’ll just stay home.

Good luck ladies.


56 posted on 12/06/2016 11:39:56 AM PST by READINABLUESTATE ("If guns cause crime, there must be something wrong with mine." -Ted Nugent)
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To: conservative98

Carry a machete and stop writing silly articles!


57 posted on 12/06/2016 11:40:14 AM PST by Larry381 (In a time of universal deceit, telling the truth is a revolutionary act)
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To: conservative98
Learn to tell the difference between harassment and physical assault.
Equating the two makes it hard to take you seriously.
Harassment is best ignored. For the other, take martial arts classes, that too is good exercise, and with a purpose.
Carry a weapon.
No matter how many good guys get your message, the bad guys will not get it, or care. Prepare accordingly.

58 posted on 12/06/2016 11:40:28 AM PST by BitWielder1 (I'd rather have Unequal Wealth than Equal Poverty.)
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To: conservative98

WTF? How about, don’t put on skin tight running clothes and go out at dusk to run. Common sense and situational awareness leads to responsibly staying safe. The I wanna do what I wanna do when I wanna do it mentality in this country is amazing.


59 posted on 12/06/2016 11:41:11 AM PST by VTenigma (The Democrat party is the party of the mathematically challenged)
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To: Buckeye McFrog

I agree - Her premise was sound. There are indeed a few freaks out there who prey on women, and good men should be aware of this.

then she goes off on the post-modern, annoying and stupid social justice cliches.


60 posted on 12/06/2016 11:41:33 AM PST by PGR88
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