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An open letter to men, who can help female runners feel safe
NT News ^ | December 6, 2016 | Carolyn Tate

Posted on 12/06/2016 11:08:19 AM PST by conservative98

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To: papertyger
It is not my responsibility to make others "feel" safe...or anything else.

Correct. Just as one has no responsibility to be kind, courteous, etc. It is a personal choice. There are good reasons to show kindness. And there are good reasons not to show kindness.

For me, the deciding factor is if the person is evil, or just stupid. Again, it's a personal choice.

This was nothing but the vain ramblings of a "hot house flower."

Much of it was. The author didn't tell the whole story (situational awareness, etc.), but she made some sense. Unfortunately, she also tried to score feminist, PC points. A good editor was needed here.

121 posted on 12/06/2016 12:46:09 PM PST by Leaning Right (I have already previewed or do not wish to preview this composition.)
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To: conservative98

The last thing I remember before he knocked me out was hearing him spit before saying “passing on the left”.


122 posted on 12/06/2016 12:49:00 PM PST by Rebelbase (Gatlinburg wildfire: over 1000 homes and business damaged or destroyed.)
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To: PLMerite

my point


123 posted on 12/06/2016 12:49:04 PM PST by knarf (I say things that are true, I have no proof, but they're true.)
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To: Yaelle
I’d love to carry but I don’t want to get arrested. Bravo for you!

I'm legal as legal could be.

124 posted on 12/06/2016 12:50:43 PM PST by Stentor
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To: SGCOS
If you don’t want us to yell out: “nice tits” then don’t run topless

Um, could you tell me where you've ever seen women jogging topless?

Because I, um, think it's about time that I start jogging again.

Regards,

125 posted on 12/06/2016 12:52:06 PM PST by alexander_busek (Extraordinary claims require extraordinary evidence.)
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To: conservative98


Supposin' I offer you a possum as a parley? Will you women folks feel safe then?
126 posted on 12/06/2016 12:56:34 PM PST by Trump-a-licious
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To: conservative98

I’m a runner and, yes, I carry while running. This author is a whining little snowflake who gives chicks a bad name. Put your bag girl panties on and take care of yourself.

By the way, I’m more afraid of dogs than men while I’m running. Sexual assaults do occur but are far less frequent than dog bites, at least where I live.


127 posted on 12/06/2016 12:58:21 PM PST by surroundedbyblue (Proud to be an Infidel & a deplorable.)
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To: donna
Before Feminism, men used to be protective; and, then we humiliated them for opening the car door for us.

I always treat a woman like a lady Donna. And 99.9% of the time I get a wonderful smile in return. So don't you worry, as long as you keep gracing us with your smiles we'll always be there opening doors for you - no matter what some of your feminist sisters do.

I really don't think we can help it. It's in our genes. I've watched it come out in young men that were brought up NOT to be protective of women once they hit their 30's and had time to figure out how the world really works, ie. a woman's smile is a gift. Worth it's weight in gold :)
128 posted on 12/06/2016 12:59:15 PM PST by Garth Tater (What's mine is mine.)
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To: conservative98
Author Margaret Atwood said, “Men are afraid women will laugh at them. Women are afraid men will kill them.”

You may think that’s hyperbole, but I promise you, it’s not. Every woman I know has been in a situation at least once in their life when they thought their life was actually in danger.

Quick google search shows that in Canada (US stats not handy) men are more likely to be victims of homicide by 3.5 to 1. (7 men per 100,000/year, vs 2 woman per 100,000 per year).

I will hold my breath and expect a correction and apology from the the article's author...NOT.

129 posted on 12/06/2016 1:00:10 PM PST by AndyTheBear
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To: conservative98

Who exactly is she telling not to wear a “hoodie”?


130 posted on 12/06/2016 1:00:24 PM PST by Larry Lucido
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To: Yaelle

We currently have two males. Our first RR was territorial but once we started taking him fishing with us it made a big difference. When he passed away in 2/2000, we immediately went on a search for a new breeder and found a wonderful boy, who is a champion and the great-grandfather of the two we have today. We also had two other RRs, a rescue male and a female.

We recently brought home a mini Bull Terrier. He will likely top out at 32 pounds. :)


131 posted on 12/06/2016 1:01:57 PM PST by trisham (Zen is not easy. It takes effort to attain nothingness. And then what do you have? Bupkis.)
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To: conservative98

“Why am I telling you this? Because as a man, you fall into one of two categories:

1. You’re a genuinely nice guy who needs to be more aware of this problem”

BS. If I’m not doing it, it’s not my problem. I’m not magically responsible for the behavior of others, and it is sexist to think that I would be just because I’m a man.


132 posted on 12/06/2016 1:03:05 PM PST by Boogieman
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To: conservative98

“Why aren’t we asking men to fix what they broke?

I know, I know it’s #notallmen, but the thing is, it’s some men.”

Give me a break. Oh, I know “not all women” make false rape allegations, but some of them do. When they get around to doing something about that, maybe I’ll listen to their whining about this.


133 posted on 12/06/2016 1:05:39 PM PST by Boogieman
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To: Yaelle
So a polite essay in the media will not reach the creepy homeless guy who thinks he is allowed to touch you.

Neither will it take care of her REAL grievance, which is women who react positively to such flirtations....

I'm always amused by women who complain about men insisting they shave their legs and underarms: as if that would ever occur to a man on his own. Women need to take it up with the other women who adopted the practice to beat out their competition.

134 posted on 12/06/2016 1:06:33 PM PST by papertyger (The semantics define how we think.)
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To: Boogieman

So she wants men to look out for her safety while she is jogging in public.

Fine. If I notice her on a particularly dark and dangerous path, and I go up to her and say “Excuse me, Miss, but I really don’t think this is a safe area, perhaps you should run someplace else”, how would she react?

Probably by screaming and cursing at me, I reckon.


135 posted on 12/06/2016 1:07:06 PM PST by Buckeye McFrog
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To: MarineBrat
"..Smile and/or wave as you run past us — we like feeling like we’re part of a community..."

There's the rub: You are NOT part of a community. Due to your hateful values, you destroy community with your very existence.

You would better serve community by being at home and making your man a sandwich.

136 posted on 12/06/2016 1:07:12 PM PST by T-Bone Texan (Normal people do not play dominoes on pizza.)
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To: Behind the Blue Wall

You are an idiot.


137 posted on 12/06/2016 1:08:18 PM PST by Hugh the Scot ( Total War)
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To: conservative98

Don’t run in parks. Period. Or if you must, make sure it is at a time of day when plenty of people are out. Never, ever at twilight or in the dark. Women jog on the streets in my neighborhood all the time and look perfectly at ease because the streets are busy and full of people.

Men face death from strangers every day as well. No one is safe and everyone should take precautions and use common sense.


138 posted on 12/06/2016 1:10:20 PM PST by miss marmelstein
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To: Texan5
The world is a much more dangerous for all of us, thanks to the lack of regard for others prevalent in recent years...

Particularly for those who presume it is "society's" job to defend them.

NEWSFLASH! Law enforcement was not developed to make people safe. It was developed to preempt every yahoo from exacting retribution for perceived offenses, making civilization untenable.

139 posted on 12/06/2016 1:19:55 PM PST by papertyger (The semantics define how we think.)
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To: AndyTheBear

LOL, I can see your face turning blue already...:)


140 posted on 12/06/2016 1:20:05 PM PST by rlmorel (Orwell described Liberals when he wrote of those who "repudiate morality while laying claim to it.")
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