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13 Things Mentally Strong People Don’t Do
LifeHack ^ | 11/13/2013 | Amy Morin

Posted on 12/12/2013 1:06:26 PM PST by iowamark

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Forbes version: Mentally Strong People: The 13 Things They Avoid

Following the huge popularity of this post, article source Amy Morin has authored a Dec. 3 guest post on exercises to increase mental strength here. Cheryl Conner has also interviewed Amy Morin in a Forbes video chat that expands on this article here.

1 posted on 12/12/2013 1:06:26 PM PST by iowamark
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To: iowamark

They don’t read lists of what someone else thinks are the hallmarks of being a mentally strong person? ;-P


2 posted on 12/12/2013 1:12:08 PM PST by MortMan (We've gone from ‘failure is not an option’ to ‘failure is not an obstacle’.)
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To: iowamark

Most of those are on my list of why I don’t experience stress and enjoy my life. I don’t know if they make me strong, but they way simplify and enhance life.


3 posted on 12/12/2013 1:14:45 PM PST by discostu (This is Jack Burton in the Pork Chop Express, and I'm talkin' to whoever's listenin' out there.)
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To: MortMan

Chuckle.


4 posted on 12/12/2013 1:17:46 PM PST by ifinnegan
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To: MortMan

THey don’r really care whether they are seen by others as being “mentally strong”.


5 posted on 12/12/2013 1:18:17 PM PST by NEMDF
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To: iowamark; Revolting cat!; GeronL

These can be taken a number of different ways. If you distill it down, you realize that liberalism IS a mental disorder:

1. They Don’t Waste Time Feeling Sorry for Themselves
Victimization is the Democrat calling card of Identity Politics. Get on the plantation or else be eaten by Republican wolves. “Put y’all back in chains!” “War on Women!” “Bedroom police!”...

2. They Don’t Give Away Their Power
Socialism is slavery to the State.

3. They Don’t Shy Away from Change
But my daddy’s daddy voted Democrat and it was good enough for them.

4. They Don’t Waste Energy on Things They Can’t Control
“GLOBAL WARMING! ARRRRGHHHH!” “WHY are people still poor in this world?!!!” “Some nutjob just KILLED innocent people even though weapons were BANNED!!!”

5. They Don’t Worry About Pleasing Everyone
“But WHAT would the United Nations say about us?”

6. They Don’t Fear Taking Calculated Risks
“Personal savings and retirement investments could leave people helpless in their old age. Let Uncle Sam manage your money.”

7. They Don’t Dwell on the Past
“Did you HEAR what happened when people came to ‘America’? They stole land, raped, and plundered!!!”

8. They Don’t Make the Same Mistakes Over and Over
“Ferrandcare, Kennedycare, Hillarycare, Obamacare...”, Jimmy Carter II, the re-election of Barack Obama...

9. They Don’t Resent Other People’s Success
“You didn’t build that!” “White priviledge.””The workers control the means of production.” “All property is theft.”

10. They Don’t Give Up After the First Failure

11. They Don’t Fear Alone Time

12. They Don’t Feel the World Owes Them Anything
Bwahahahahahahaha.

13. They Don’t Expect Immediate Results
“World War II was won in just 4 years!”


6 posted on 12/12/2013 1:18:46 PM PST by a fool in paradise (America 2013 - STUCK ON STUPID)
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To: iowamark

Take the opposite of all those and you will have your average liberal.


7 posted on 12/12/2013 1:19:22 PM PST by Blood of Tyrants (From time to time the.tree of liberty must be watered with the blood of tyrants and patriots.)
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To: iowamark

I would never read a list of 13 anything.

Scares, depresses and nauseates me too much.


8 posted on 12/12/2013 1:19:33 PM PST by Fightin Whitey
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9. They Don’t Resent Other People’s Success

Mentally strong people can appreciate and celebrate other people’s success in life. They don’t grow jealous or feel cheated when others surpass them. Instead, they recognize that success comes with hard work, and they are willing to work hard for their own chance at success.

 

Liberals (Mentally ill people) on the other hand are very resentful of other people's success. And their wealth and riches. As a result, they try to tax and redistribute that wealth.

9 posted on 12/12/2013 1:23:44 PM PST by Responsibility2nd (NO LIBS. This Means Liberals and (L)libertarians! Same Thing. NO LIBS!!)
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To: MortMan

Haha, they wouldn’t need to, true.


10 posted on 12/12/2013 1:24:03 PM PST by OldNewYork (Biden '13. Impeach now.)
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To: discostu
Some of them are possibly sly attempts at making the sheeple more passive.

4. They Don’t Waste Energy on Things They Can’t Control - You won’t hear a mentally strong person complaining over lost luggage or traffic jams. Instead, they focus on what they can control in their lives. They recognize that sometimes, the only thing they can control is their attitude.

"Accept it, Obama won, you HAVE to pass his agenda."

"We GAVE 'capitalism' a chance, now it is time to move on."

"You cannot cling to religion and guns any longer. It divides people, leads to discrimination against alternative (yet natural) lifestyles, and causes grief for the victims of gun violence."

etc. etc.

If some distrated, inconsiderate road hog is texting while driving, veering from lane to lane, slowing down by 5-10 miles to avoid a collision, etc, I CAN take personal control of my own vehicle to get AROUND the yay-hoo. I can EVEN opt to drive on a different road.

And while I may not be able to "control" some union stooge from losing my luggage, I can opt to change carriers in the future. Also sometimes (but not always) squeaky wheel gets the grease. If you aren't so concerned by it, they may choose to ignore the problem altogether until it "goes away" (e.g., "not my problem..." "when does my shift end...").

Man CANNOT control the weather to great effect.

11 posted on 12/12/2013 1:25:46 PM PST by a fool in paradise (America 2013 - STUCK ON STUPID)
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To: Blood of Tyrants

I like the semantic implications of that piece...; )


12 posted on 12/12/2013 1:26:31 PM PST by jsanders2001
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To: iowamark

Can’t be liberal and “Mentally Strong”.


13 posted on 12/12/2013 1:26:47 PM PST by Uncle Miltie (I Love 0bamaCare! It proves government incompetence forever.)
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To: iowamark

They don’t write or pimp blogs.


14 posted on 12/12/2013 1:31:25 PM PST by humblegunner
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To: a fool in paradise

But that’s the line between wasting time and using time. If you’re stuck in a traffic jam now there’s nothing you can do about it, getting uptight won’t fix it; but you can control the next trip to avoid that congested area in the future, which you might not think to do if you’re too busing getting angry in the jam. It’s not about being passive, it’s about focusing energy where it matters, once you’re in a situation you can’t control ride it out and learn the lessons for when you resume control.


15 posted on 12/12/2013 1:43:22 PM PST by discostu (This is Jack Burton in the Pork Chop Express, and I'm talkin' to whoever's listenin' out there.)
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To: iowamark

Well, I’m a little over half... better get mentally stronger...


16 posted on 12/12/2013 1:45:39 PM PST by Thorliveshere (Minnesota Survivor)
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To: a fool in paradise

Good job with your reply.

As I went through the list, I came up with a similar line. Those who don’t do these positive actions/thoughts are probably liberals or mental ill.


17 posted on 12/12/2013 1:48:33 PM PST by Grampa Dave ( Obamacare, ItÂ’s a Wonderful Lie! Obamaganda is failing 24/7! Soon Obamaganda will fail 24/365!)
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To: MortMan
*smirk* ...should've been @ beginning of the 'list'

18 posted on 12/12/2013 2:10:41 PM PST by skinkinthegrass (The end move in politics is always to pick up a gun..0'Caligula / 0'Reid / 0'Pelosi :-)
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To: iowamark

The fact that I’m still alive says more about my mental strength than 13 of anything else.


19 posted on 12/12/2013 2:19:42 PM PST by real saxophonist (The revolution will not be televised. Everything else will.)
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To: iowamark

Thanks for the post.

I was unjustly fired last week and have been sitting here feeling sorry for myself and very angry.

Not saying it will continue but something to think about.


20 posted on 12/12/2013 2:24:16 PM PST by Hammerhead
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