Posted on 03/06/2013 7:02:25 AM PST by Kaslin
Dear Dave,
My wife and I make $140,000 a year, and we’re working on our debt snowball. We’re almost out of debt, but we still have two small car payments and some credit card debt. She wants to get rid of the credit card debt but doesn’t mind us having car payments. Can you help me understand this?
Kelly
Dear Kelly,
I’m not sure I understand her thinking either. The car payments and the credit card debt are the same thing. They’re both debt payments, and you’re being charged interest on both of them. The only difference is that one is attached to a car and one’s not. It makes about as much sense as saying you like Visa better than MasterCard.
Even if she has some strange hang-up about car depreciation, that argument doesn’t hold water either. Cars go down in value whether you borrowed money to buy them or not. A $20,000 vehicle will be worth $10,000 in just a few years no matter what you do. A car payment won’t keep it from depreciating or slow the rate of depreciation.
Sometimes people get burned out or tired of paying the price to become debt-free. It can happen when you’ve been working on something for a while, and it seems like you’re never going to get there. Sit down and have a gentle, loving talk with your wife. Find out why she feels that way about the car payments and where the root of the problem really lies.
She may just need some support and encouragement from the man in her life. Remind her how far you’ve come together on this journey, how close you are to winning, and how much you love her. You’re too close to making your financial dreams come true to stop now!
—Dave
Dear Dave,
I’m 23 years old, and I was in the military for five years. While serving I received what is now $2,700 in Series EE bonds. Should I keep them?
Tammy
Dear Tammy,
If it were me, I’d cash them in and do my own investing with the money. Series EE bonds have a very low rate of return. They don’t pay much, and they’re not good long-term investments. They’re almost like keeping your money in a certificate of deposit over the long haul.
Investing is never a bad idea, and I know that may seem like a lot of money to you at the moment. But my advice is to cash out the bonds, find a financial advisor with the heart of a teacher, and invest the money in growth stock mutual funds with a good five- to 10-year track record. After that, get set up for auto-draft on your checking account and put at least $50 a month into your new mutual fund. That’s a much better plan!
—Dave
And I’ve used credit in my business. Was charging about $15k a month to American Express mostly for travel and business expenses. Then a customer billing went from $300k a month to $0k because a vendor screwed me. All of a sudden Amex was telling me not to make my house payment or feed my kids so I could pay them. Got them paid and have learned to do business without them.
I dropped Amex decades ago and have never looked back.
I do everything via cash. I have no debt. Ive bought bus tickets, rented a car, airline tickets, etc.
Mortgage insurance is a bad bet. Buy term life insurance and never mix insurance and investments.
I learned that from Art Williams. ;-)
So for 6 years, he had to make a car payment. It didn’t matter if he lost his job or his income or whatever. Every month, that payment had to be made. And if the lender “lost” a payment, they would screw him like the slut he was until he could get it straightened out.
OTOH I bought a car and I don’t have to make any payments. I paid $3,000 for my car. How much did he pay for his car? If he even paid $20,000, is he $17,000 better off than me? I don’t think so.
If they don’t let you reserve with cash, show them that you have it and be prepared to walk out on them.
If he even paid $20,000, is he $17,000 better off than me? I dont think so.
People are not only different in income. They are also different in lifestyle and needs. A simple example: A guy that drives alone on 50 miles of highway each way to work every day needs a different car than a real estate agent working the same 15 mile radius, even if they both make the same money.
And one guy might drive a really nice car because he very much enjoys it, or uses it as a mobile office, and lives in a single wide, while another guy drives a reliable dented up beater to walmart once a week and lives in a really nice house.
Different strokes and all that...
And in this is a kernel of why I bristle when people ask why someone needs an assault rifle. They have no right to expect an answer from a question on a subject that is technically none of their business. Who are we to judge the perchasing decisions of others?
Few people have zero debt. And, knowing human nature as I do, those that do have zero debt are simply fighting different demons than those that have debt.
So for 6 years, he had to make a car payment. It didnt matter if he lost his job or his income or whatever. Every month, that payment had to be made. And if the lender lost a payment, they would screw him like the slut he was until he could get it straightened out.
If they dont let you reserve with cash, show them that you have it and be prepared to walk out on them.
In our case we were forced to. And we found someone that would take the debit card. I don’t like carrying much cash when I travel. Certainly not enough to impress someone loaning me a $25k car.
Neither do I. I was talking with a friend and came to a realization just how far out I am from ‘mainstream’, in dealing with my finances. I’ve been so used to dealing with just me that it feels normal now - but, she would ask why I was paying for groceries with cash. As in a month’s worth.
Anyways, Dave has been helpful for me, and I will be going back on his plan after 2 weeks off of it. I figured out I’m happier just sticking to that plan, and now I’m working on my little ‘emergency fund’, and continuing to build it up.
Someone gave me some perspective about why Dave said what he did. I was too hard on him. And, I still think he was off on this one, but nobody’s perfect. I’ve liked most of what has been posted here from him.
In fact, I get the feeling that for him to treat credit, in front of his audience, as an ok thing would be like going to an AA meeting and telling them that it’s ok to have a glass of wine with your meal.
You don’t NEED an assault rifle just like you don’t NEED a new car. These are things you want.
Oh yes they do get lost. It happens all the time. You may use autodraft but that doesn’t keep you from overdrafting. I’m sure your friend is incredibly adept with money but he still couldn’t afford the car he bought. That’s why he had to use the bank’s money.
A payment is called a liability for a reason. There is always risk involved.
When you’re working with addicts the solution is never.
Not relevant to the point that credit card interest is generally higher than car loan interest, the couple in the article had both. They might be getting screwed on whatever they bought on their credit card too. The last car I bought was in 2012, they had a "no interest" deal or $500 "cash back", after doing the simple math, I settled for "none of the above" and paid cash.
I don't do trade ins anymore either, I either sell my old car or give it to one of the g/kids if I can't find a buyer, there's always a needy g/kid in college somewhere, I have 14 of them.
Wife’s sister and her husband recently bought a used car and paid 27%. I was astounded, I didn’t even know it was legal to charge that much.
Talking to a car salesman before buying my new car, he told me that most of the customers he sells to are "under water" on their new cars and have to buy "gap insurance". Lenders will not allow you to owe more than the car is worth, sometimes many thousands more, I avoided the problem by not having a trade in and paying cash for the lowest price I could get on the car I wanted.
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