Lost Our Cat Today

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[mkmensinger]

I don't do many vsnities, but we lost our cat Orphan today to Cystitis. We had him just a year (he came to us as an adult), but he brought joy to us during his time here. We'll miss him greatly.

[mkmensinger]

Orphan after his last haircut. He had really thick fur so he got a summer lion cut.

[mkmensinger]

Picture is up.

[Duchess47]

I’m so very sorry.

[Zionist Conspirator]

The loss of a pet is absolutely heartbreaking. May G-d comfort your family.

[mkmensinger]

Thanks. All these replies from FRiends mean a lot.

[momtothree]

I am so sorry for your loss, mkmensinger. If it any comfort at all, please know your little kitty appreciated the time spent with you... loved and well cared for. Losing a pet is so difficult.. they provide so much joy and love to us and ask for so little in return. Perhaps one day... in the way future... another kitty will make his or her way to your home. You obviously are a great cat owner and I personally believe animals sense that in humans (call me silly but I do). Hugs, Mom

[EnquiringMind]

So sorry for you and your family. I am absolutely dreading the day when we lose ours, so I can relate to your sadness. Prayers and hugs to you.

[CatherineofAragon]

I’m so sorry for your loss. Hugs to you.

[CatherineofAragon]

I’m so sorry for your loss. Hugs to you.

[TASMANIANRED]

I’m very sorry for your loss.

[EnquiringMind]

Thank you so much for posting that. I copied and saved for the coming days when those words will be most comforting.

[EverOnward]

Over the Rainbow Bridge

http://www.newrainbowbridge.com/NRB/rbpoem.htm

Sorry for your loss.

[Allen In Texas Hill Country]

So sorry. Just had to put my Weimaraner down and he will be remembered forever. But my cat, Capone, helps me get along. He stays outside all day long buts comes when I call him. Now if he would stop catching and eating (yucck) hummingbirds.

There has to be a pet heaven and thats where I want to go.

[Slings and Arrows]

[leapfrog0202]

You are very welcome.

My friend just told me her next door neighbor had to have her dog put to sleep yesterday and her vet recommended this book. Now I haven’t read it, but the reviews are good. The vet told her many of his animal parents have told him the book comforted them:

http://www.amazon.com/All-Pets-Go-Heaven-Spiritual/dp/1439177635/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1344815226&sr=8-1&keywords=all+pets+go+to+heaven

[5th MEB]

You made me cry again after 17 years, damn your and my eyes.
Personally I think my old Rolly dog will be there to meet me at St. Peters gate and ask what took so long and do I have some chocolate.

[xrmusn]

I ‘know’ your pain....Just went through it last Wednesday.
But I got another one yesterday and while it is going to take a long while, I will not forget “Cat” but “Black Cat” will pick up the slack for now.

[leapfrog0202]

You made me cry again after 17 years, damn your and my eyes.
Personally I think my old Rolly dog will be there to meet me at St. Peters gate and ask what took so long and do I have some chocolate.

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Awwww, I’m sorry and I totally agree with you. I’m sure ours will be there waiting for us!

I’ve shared that with so many people that have lost a pet and it seems to bring some peace.

[NoGrayZone]

I’m so sorry for your loss. This may make you cry, but it helped me through losing my elder in 12/10....

YOU HAVE CHOSEN TEARS

The little orange boy stopped.
Behind him, kitties were playing, chasing each other and
wrestling in the warm sunshine.
It looked like so much fun, but in front of him, through
the clear stillness of the pond’s water, he could see his mommy.
And she was crying.
He pawed at the water, trying to get at her, and when
that didn’t work, he jumped into the shallow water. All that got him was wet and Mommy’s image danced away in the ripples.
“Mommy!” he cried. “Is something wrong?” The little orange boy turned
around.

A lady was standing at the edge of the pond, her eyes
sad but filled with love.
The little orange boy sighed and walked out of the water.
“There’s been a mistake,” he said. “I’m not supposed to be here.”
He looked back at the water.
It was starting to still again and his mommy’s image was coming back.
“I’m just a baby. Mommy said it had to be a mistake. She said I wasn’t
supposed to come here yet.” The kind lady sighed and sat down on the grass.
The little orange boy climbed into her lap.
It wasn’t Mommy’s lap, but it was almost as good.
When she started to pet him and scratch under his chin like he liked, he
started to purr. He hadn’t wanted to, but he couldn’t help it.
“I’m afraid there is no mistake. You are supposed to be
here and your mommy knows it deep down in her heart,” the lady said.
The little orange boy sighed and laid his head on the lady’s leg.
“But she’s so sad. It hurts me to see her cry. And daddy too.”
“But they knew right from the beginning this would happen.”
“That I was sick?”

That surprised the little orange boy.
No one had ever said anything and he had listened when
they thought he was sleeping.
All he had heard them talk about was how cute he was, or
how fast he was or how big he was getting.
“No, not that you were sick,” the lady said.
“But you see, they chose tears.”
“No, they didn’t,” the little orange boy argued. Who would choose to cry?
The lady gently brushed the top of his head with a kiss.
It made him feel safe and loved and warm - but he still worried about his mommy.

“Let me tell you a story,” the lady said.
The little orange boy looked up and saw other animals gathering around.
Cats - Big Boy and Snowball and Shamus and Abby and little Cleo and Robin.
Merlin and Toby and Iggy and Zachary. Sweetie and Kamatte and OBie.
Dogs too- Sally and Baby and Morgan and Rocky and Belle.
Even a lizard named Clyde and some rats named Saffron and
Becky and a hamster named Odo.
They all lay down near the kind lady and looked up at her, waiting.
She smiled at them and began:

A long long time ago, the Loving Ones went to the Angel
in Charge. They were lonesome and asked the Angel to help them.
The Angel took them to a wall of windows and let them
look out the first window at all sorts of things - dolls and stuffed
animals and cars and toys and sporting events. “Here are things
you can love,” the Angel said. “They will keep you from being lonesome.”
“Oh, thank you,” the Loving Ones said. “These are just what we need.”
“You have chosen Pleasure,” the Angel told them.

But after a time the Loving Ones came back to the Angel in Charge.
“Things are okay to love,” they said. “But they don’t care that we love them.”
The Angel in Charge led them over to the second window. It looked out at all sorts of wild animals. “Here are animals to love,” he said. “They will know you love them.”
So the Loving Ones hurried out to care for the wild
animals. “You have chosen Satisfaction,” the Angel said.

Some of the Loving Ones worked at zoos and wild animal
preserves, some just had bird feeders in their yards, but after a time they
all came back to the Angel in Charge.
“They know we love them,” they told the Angel. “But they don’t love us back. We want to be loved in return.”
So the Angel took them to the third window and showed
them lots of people walking around, hurrying places.
“Here are people for you to love,” the Angel told them.
So the Loving Ones hurried off to find other people to love.
“You have chosen Commitment,” the Angel said.

But after a time a lot of Loving Ones came back to the
Angel in Charge.
“People were okay to love,” they said. “But sometimes
they stopped loving us and left. They broke our hearts.”
The Angel just shook his head. “I cannot help you,” he said.
“You will have to be satisfied with the choices I gave you.”

As the Loving Ones were leaving, someone saw a window
off to one side and hurried to look out.
Through it, they could see puppies and kittens and dogs
and cats and lizards and hamsters and ferrets.
The other Loving Ones hurried over. “What about these?” they asked.
But the Angel just tried to shoo them away.
“Those are Personal Empathy Trainers,” he said.
“But there’s a problem with their system operations.”
“Would they know that we love them?” someone asked.
“Yes,” the Angel said.
“Would they love us back?” another asked.
“Yes,” the Angel said.
“Will they stop loving us?” someone else asked.
“No,” the Angel admitted. “They will love you forever.”
“Then these are what we want,” the Loving Ones said.
But the Angel was very upset.

“You don’t understand,” he told them. “You will have to
feed these animals.”
“That’s all right,” the Loving Ones said.
“You will have to clean up after them and take care of them forever.”
“We don’t care.”
The Loving Ones did not listen. They went down to where
the Pets were and picked them up, seeing the love in their own hearts
reflected in the animals’ eyes.

“They were not programmed right,” the Angel said. “We can’t offer a
warranty. We don’t know how durable they are. Some of their systems
malfunction very quickly, others last a long time.”
But the Loving Ones did not care.
They were holding the warm little bodies and finding
their hearts so filled
with love that they thought they would burst.
“We will take our chances,” they said.
“You do not understand.” The Angel tried one more time.
“They are so dependent on you that even the most well-made of them is
not designed to out live you. You are destined to suffer their loss.”
The Loving Ones looked at the sweetness in their arms
and nodded.
“That is how it should be. It is a fair trade for the
love they offer.”

The Angel just watched them all go, shaking his head.
“You have chosen Tears,” he whispered.

“So it is,” the kind lady told the kitties.
“And so each mommy and daddy knows. When they take a baby into their heart, they know that one day it will leave them and they will cry.”
The little orange boy sat up. “So why do they take us in?” he asked.
“Because even a moment of your love is worth years of pain later.”
“Oh.”

The little orange boy got off the lady’s lap and went back to the edge of the pond. His mommy was still there, and still crying.
“Will she ever stop crying?” he asked the kind lady.
She nodded. “You see, the Angel felt sorry for the
Loving Ones, knowing how much they would suffer. He couldn’t take the tears away but he made them special.”

She dipped her hand into the pond and let the water
trickle off her fingers.
“He made them healing tears, formed from the special water here.
Each tear holds bits of all the happy times of purring
and petting and shared love.
And the promise of love once again.

As your mommy cries, she is healing. It may take a long
while, but the tears will help her feel better. In time she will be less sad
and she will smile when she thinks of you.
And then she will open her heart again to another little baby.”
“But then she will cry again one day,” the little orange
boy said.

The lady just smiled at him as she got to her feet.
“No, she will love again. That is all she will think
about.”
She picked up Big Boy and Snowball and gave them hugs,
then scratched
Morgan’s ear just how she liked.

“Look,” she said. “The butterflies have come. Shall we
go over to play?”
The other animals all ran ahead, but the little orange
boy wasn’t ready to leave his mommy.
“Will I ever get to be with her again?”
The kind lady nodded.
“You’ll be in the eyes of every kitty she looks at.
You’ll be in the purr of
every cat she pets. And late at night, when she’s fast
asleep, your spirit will snuggle up close to her and you both will feel at
peace.

One day soon, you can even send her a rainbow to tell her you’re safe
and waiting here for when it’s her turn to come.”
“I would like that,” the little orange boy said and took
one long look at his mommy.
He saw her smile slightly through her tears and he knew
she had remembered the time he almost fell into the bathtub.
“I love you, Mommy,” he whispered. “It’s okay if you
cry.”

He glanced over at the other pets, running and playing
and laughing with the butterflies.
“Uh, Mommy? I gotta go play now, okay? But I’ll be
around, I promise.”
Then he turned and raced after the others.

Author Unknown

[Nowhere Man]

My heart goes out to you as well as my condolences. I've been there many times. Many mentioned "The Rainbow Bridge" but along with that, one other experience has comforted me:

One interesting story, some say it could be a dream, maybe so, but I’m convinced one of the kitties that have passed on came down to comfort me. I had a total of 11 cats in my life, 3 are still here. In my dream, one of the cats that passed on came back to me, his name was Buddha (Boo, 1990 - 2007). He was a black cat, half-Siamese. He looked up at me and like in the TV show, “Sabrina,” he started talking to me and his mouth moved. He said, “I know your said, that’s why I came down here, all of your past pets got together and elected me as ‘spokescat,’ God would only let one of us come down so I got elected.” I said to him, “I miss all of yuns (I’m a Pittsburgher, plural form for “you”), how are yuns doing up there?” He replied, we are do fine, we are happy, all healed up and having a good time. Muffin is spending time with Aunt Jean (her original owner, we inherited her Burmese cat) plus we all get together to play and hang around. We miss all of you even though we can see you.” He added, “don’t feel sad all the time, we will always be with you, even if you do not feel it at times, we are doing fine. There are times we do come down in spirit. We will all see each other and be with each other again.” I said, “there are times I wondered if I hasted any of your passing by trying to feed you and medicate you.” He put up his paw is said, “it would not have made much of a difference, a few hours at most, maybe a day, but it was just our time to go.” He said, “Well my times is almost up, I have to go.” I asked him if he could stay a minute for one more question, he stepped in quick, reading my mind, and said, yes, when you take in other kitties, you are loving us as well through them. Don’t feel say, we are fine, we will always be with you.” Then he left.

When I get really bummed out at times, I think of this and it helps me cope and know everything’s fine.