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Should parents lose custody of super-obese kids?.
AP via Yahoo! Shine ^ | Jul 12, 2011 | LINDSEY TANNER

Posted on 07/14/2011 8:51:10 AM PDT by goodwithagun

Should parents of extremely obese children lose custody for not controlling their kids' weight? A provocative commentary in one of the nation's most distinguished medical journals argues yes, and its authors are joining a quiet chorus of advocates who say the government should be allowed to intervene in extreme cases. It has happened a few times in the U.S., and the opinion piece in Wednesday's Journal of the American Medical Association says putting children temporarily in foster care is in some cases more ethical than obesity surgery.

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TOPICS: Health/Medicine
KEYWORDS: childprotectservice; cps; dchs; food; getreadyhereitcomes; hideyokids; hideyourkids; liberalnonsense; nannystate; obamacare; obesity
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To: allmendream

Thank you, allmendream. Exactly.


41 posted on 07/14/2011 9:32:43 AM PDT by Mrs. Don-o (Liberalism is socialism in its larval form.)
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To: NautiNurse

“Cat food” and “dog food” are not natural to those animals.


42 posted on 07/14/2011 9:32:50 AM PDT by greatvikingone
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To: GnuHere

Don’t forget the summer “feeding programs” offered by public schools.


43 posted on 07/14/2011 9:35:43 AM PDT by MissEdie (America went to the polls on 11-4-08 and all we got was a socialist thug and a dottering old fool.)
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To: goodwithagun

Should Dems lose custody of a super-obese government?


44 posted on 07/14/2011 9:38:52 AM PDT by jimfree (In 2012 Sarah Palin will have more quality executive experience than Barack Obama.)
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To: JDW11235
My son never had formula, and I don't plan on using it with my daughter either. An entire year of breastfeeding is a huge commitment, one I would not be able to completely undertake without the support of my husband. The last time I looked at a can of Similac, the main ingredient at 41% of the entire content was corn syrup solids. We avoid HFCS like the plague. When my son, almost three, wants a snack he gets the plain, whole milk Greek yogurt out of the fridge and brings it to me!
45 posted on 07/14/2011 9:54:07 AM PDT by goodwithagun (My gun has killed fewer people than Ted Kennedy's car.)
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To: goodwithagun
This is a can of worms the Democrats would be well-advised to steer clear-of, because there is a direct correlation between government welfare checks and obesity.

The case can be made that Democrats need to lose custody of "the poor" if obesity is just-cause to terminate parental rights.

46 posted on 07/14/2011 9:56:22 AM PDT by E. Pluribus Unum ("A society of sheep must in time beget a government of wolves." - Bertrand de Jouvenel des Ursins)
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To: wolfman23601

Do you realize what you are saying? Taking a child away from the parents is serious business. If they are going to give the money and the tools to the foster parents to help the child lose weight, why can’t they do that for the family?

I know of children taken because of ‘neglect’. They were living in a car. The children were fed and clean but they didn’t have housing. They paid foster parents to take care of the children but they couldn’t help the struggling parents with housing.

I also just saw a new story of a family that lost their children because they didn’t have running water.

There are only a few cases where children need to be removed and obesity isn’t one of them.


47 posted on 07/14/2011 9:57:20 AM PDT by christianhomeschoolmommaof3
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To: christianhomeschoolmommaof3

A 90 pound 3 year old is well beyond obesity, but as I said, where do you draw the line?

That child needs to be in a different environment and those parent(s) should not be allowed to have kids, you cannot convince me otherwise. The slippery slope argument is the only thing that keeps me from thinking government should intervene. That child is 3 years old and already has almost no chance of being successful in anything.


48 posted on 07/14/2011 10:08:33 AM PDT by wolfman23601
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To: goodwithagun
The question is are there things a parent really can't control?

What if it's genetic? What if it's virus induced like the UK studies indicate?

What if foster care doesn't improve the child's obesity? Does the child get to go back to their parents?

Are there less drastic alternatives, like placing a live in counselor with the family, to observe family habits, and to teach the family how to make proper choices?

Or even less drastic requiring the family to attend education? or enroll in a supervised weight loss program.

Foster care should be a last resort.

49 posted on 07/14/2011 10:22:32 AM PDT by DannyTN
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To: wolfman23601
How is it even possible for a 3 year old to be 90 pounds? I think that child should probably be take away - that is pure abuse and neglect. However, where do you draw the line?

The first autopsy I ever saw in medical school was that of a 13 year old boy that was allowed by his parents (they owned a restaurant) to eat himself to death.

His liver was canary yellow from the fat infiltration and, to weight it, it had to be cut up in different pieces so that the pieces could fit on the meat scale. (An adult liver of a 6 foot, 230 pound man fits on the scale just fine.) The cause of death was "hepatorenal syndrome" where there is multisystem failure because the liver can no longer perform it's needed functions.

It all boils down to plain, old common sense.

The majority on this thread are against "Government interference in our private lives". That is a good argument for simply a "fat kid". On the other hand, a 90 pound 3 year old is a "dead kid walking". That crosses the common sense line just like this other case now being discussed on FR.

Mother arrested for 'leaving her children in hot car and attacking woman trying to rescue them'

"Well, yeah, but anybody knows that leaving kids in a closed car with 88 degree temperatures will kill them in the immediate future."

Yes, and anybody with medical training and experience knows that allowing a 3 year old to balloon to 90 pounds will kill it in the immediate future. Without even doing a liver biopsy, I can tell you what color that kid's liver is: It is canary yellow.

Allowing a parent to engage in behavior that is guaranteed to kill the child in nothing more that a "Pro-Choice" stance.

50 posted on 07/14/2011 10:32:53 AM PDT by Polybius
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To: DannyTN
I was watching a show on a 16 year old who wanted bariatric surgery. His mom kept telling the psychiatrist that her son was big boned and had genetics working against him. The doc told the mom that if genetics were in play, that would only account for 30% of his obesity. Since the kid was something like 200 lbs overweight, where did the other 140 lbs come from? The mom was speechless. As for weight problems I've had in the past, I have discovered I have problems with candida. Every couple of months I go on an anti-candida diet for about one to two weeks. Also, we have switched to real foods and haven't had weight problems since: Whole milk, lard, bacon, whole grains, butter, raw fruits and veg, lacto-fermented pickles and kraut, etc.
51 posted on 07/14/2011 10:33:57 AM PDT by goodwithagun (My gun has killed fewer people than Ted Kennedy's car.)
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To: wolfman23601

“That child needs to be in a different environment and those parent(s) should not be allowed to have kids,”

Wow just wow!


52 posted on 07/14/2011 10:42:34 AM PDT by christianhomeschoolmommaof3
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To: greatvikingone
But can I get a promise that my tax dollars won’t go toward their lifetime of medical needs?

People who are a little bit overweight have lower overall medical expenses than people who are at the "ideal" weight, if that is going to be your metric. People who are very overweight, obviously have more health problems. It would be interesting to see if a shorter lifespan offsets these problems to lower lifetime medical costs.

In any case, it should be offensive to any free person that we are having this conversation at all. The givernment should have no part in paying for medical care, because such an arrangement is incompatible with freedom. Once they are picking up the bill, every aspect of every citizen's life becomes a legitimate interest of the government.

53 posted on 07/14/2011 10:45:16 AM PDT by Haiku Guy (If you can read this / (To paraphrase on old line) / Thank a TAXPAYER!.)
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To: Polybius

Agreed. I don’t think people here understand exactly what a 90 pound 3 year old is. This isn’t the run of the mill fat kid in the neighborhood.


54 posted on 07/14/2011 10:45:26 AM PDT by wolfman23601
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To: goodwithagun

This is a fascinating case but our information is incomplete. What I want to know is: are the parents of this child themselves wards of the State?

As a conservative I don’t believe the state should be in the business of housing, feeding, or clothing anyone (that’s what private charity should be for, in cases of extremis). If the parents aren’t on the public dole, the state has no business in their family lifestyle or decisions.

If on the other hand, the parent(s) of the child in question have allowed themselves to become “children” of the state, in effect declaring themselves incapable of providing for their own basic needs, should the state assume them to be competent in the area of child rearing? If this situation is true, then the state should step in because their bad decisions are going to cost us even more money, in the form of medical maintenance and repair that are associated with this level of obesity. Of course it goes without saying that if the child must be removed, the child-care payments to the older “children” in this story should be immediately stopped.


55 posted on 07/14/2011 10:48:02 AM PDT by PTBAA
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To: goodwithagun

under President Bush they were starving. How can they get super obese so quick?


56 posted on 07/14/2011 10:50:12 AM PDT by sport
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To: Haiku Guy

Yes, medical care will become a “privledge of the state”, like a driver’s license. They will be able to successfully use the same arguments in court to control any and all aspects of life. If they can randomly stop you and force you to take breathalizers and field sobriety tests, what is to stop them from randomly coming in your home and searching your fridge for alcohol and fatty foods or searching your desk drawer for cigarettes?


57 posted on 07/14/2011 10:51:53 AM PDT by wolfman23601
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To: goodwithagun

This is a fascinating case but our information is incomplete. What I want to know is: are the parents of this child themselves wards of the State?

As a conservative I don’t believe the state should be in the business of housing, feeding, or clothing anyone (that’s what private charity should be for, in cases of extremis). If the parents aren’t on the public dole, the state has no business in their family lifestyle or decisions.

If on the other hand, the parent(s) of the child in question have allowed themselves to become “children” of the state, in effect declaring themselves incapable of providing for their own basic needs, should the state assume them to be competent in the area of child rearing? If this situation is true, then the state should step in because their bad decisions are going to cost us even more money, in the form of medical maintenance and repair that are associated with this level of obesity. Of course it goes without saying that if the child must be removed, the child-care payments to the older “children” in this story should be immediately stopped.


58 posted on 07/14/2011 10:54:46 AM PDT by PTBAA
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To: goodwithagun

I’m not convinced that we understand genetics well enough to say confidently that genetics would only account for 30% of an obese child’s obesity.

On the other hand, I am in favor of the state intervening to help the child. I just think there are a lot of options short of foster care that should be explored first.


59 posted on 07/14/2011 10:57:26 AM PDT by DannyTN
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To: PTBAA
"As a conservative I don’t believe the state should be in the business of housing, feeding, or clothing anyone"

As a conservative, I see the same "civic" duty that our founding fathers saw, that includes state care for the indigent, poor and needy. Research the Colonial Poor Laws some time.

Also read what scripture has to say about the "poor" and the "needy". There are at least 2 places where scripture said that a king's rule was to be cut short because they didn't take care of the poor. If "We the People" want to continue to rule, we better be considering that.

It needs to be balanced, it needs to be reasonably fraud proofed, but we don't need to shirk our duty, just because our leaders led us into the worse economy since the great depression.

60 posted on 07/14/2011 11:03:35 AM PDT by DannyTN
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