There isn't much difference between any of the sites, Match.com, eHarmony, Christian Mingle, et al.
The question is did it cost you anything to find this out? If so I’d say you ought to get your money back.
As someone with VAST experience on the subject (married for the first time at 57, in Feb.), E.H. “conservative women, will NOT have photo’s......for a good reason!!
Leni
The only preson I know who has tried E-Harmony was an attractive blond female friend of ours. She is a conservative Christian and they dropped her as well.
Eharmony’s personality profile is a bit on the ‘lite’ side so if your answers aren’t in line with previous answers it will bounce you. My impression is that it has a rather weak lie scale built in. Go back, get a new email address, login, etc and try again and go slowly with each question. I bet you will get a different result. Also, have you been divorced more than twice? if so that will get you an immediate bounce.
I am getting married tomorrow. We met via eHarmony.
Dr. Warren is a wonderful man, strong Christian, thoughtful and with a great deal of integrity. Don’t forget - eH lost a lawsuit by gays, who also wanted great ‘marriage partners,’ and has been sold, and it is a second-generation site. I think it also discounts you if you are not working.
Isn’t this part of the quiz free, though? So, don’t let an online quiz define you.
The most recent one of these I took was very revealing of the mindset of the developers. I darn near gave their computer a nervous breakdown.
One of the categories was openness to innovation or a different way of doing things, or from the other perspective, stick in the mud-ness.
About half the questions in this category were on willingness to develop or accept new ways of doing things but with morality not involved, the other half what I would consider "values" questions (morality, etc.).
I scored WAY over to the left on the first half, and WAY over to the right on the second half.
The program scored them all as part of the same trait, as if belief in traditional moral values could only exist because a person was afraid to experiment or frightened of change in general.
Very enlightening on the liberal mindset.
Scout out the next Tea Party meeting.
A female friend of mine had the same experience as you. She ended up getting a refund. She’s really cute and doesn’t need to do online meeting but she just wanted to try it.
I’m a conservative and my profile sounded a lot like yours and I made it. Mybe its the prison record? :)
“Former Dean of Fuller Theological Seminary”
From what I have heard, this seminary is notoriously liberal.
SweetiePalm and I just celebrated our first anniversary last Sunday.
We met on eHarmony on the 4th of July 2007.
Garde la Foi, mes amis! Nous nous sommes les sauveurs de la République! Maintenant et Toujours!
(Keep the Faith, my friends! We are the saviors of the Republic! Now and Forever!)
LonePalm, le Républicain du verre cassé (The Broken Glass Republican)
And here I thought "Everlasting Love" was a song about Stevie Wonder and Ray Charles playing tennis.
My husband flunked e harmony too.
I met him on FreeRepublic.
A practicing Christian friend of mine used eHarmony and found a gal in Wisconsin. He lives in NC, she moved here, they got married and are approaching their 6th anniversary.
My spouse and I met online at match.com. We did post photos and had 2 conservative weed-out factors (importance of personal belief in Christ and support for the military). Made sure these topics came up in discussion early on with anyone who really seemed interesting. Didn’t meet for several weeks and then in a neutral and very public place. It was fun and neither of us was desperate. When we open the doors, God leads us on.
Just for fun, my dear husband of 50+ years and I have thought about signing up at one of these dating sites to see if they would match us up. We met on a blind date when I was 16 and he was 22 and there has never been anyone else for us. When I see the horrible divorces suffered my family and friends I know how lucky we are.
I hope you find someone wonderful very soon.