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Premarital Sex, Cohabitation, and Divorce: The Broken Link
National Council on Family Relations ^ | May 2003 | National Council on Family Relations

Posted on 09/17/2010 1:34:15 PM PDT by MichiganConservative

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To: Tax-chick

Not in the mood for humor at the moment, are you? Forgive me for intruding.


81 posted on 09/18/2010 7:16:12 AM PDT by B4Ranch (Conflict is inevitable; Combat is an option. Train for the fight.)
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To: B4Ranch

I’m sorry. I thought you were serious. It is not uncommon for posters to complain about their sex lives while married, as opposed to what they enjoyed while single.


82 posted on 09/18/2010 7:45:44 AM PDT by Tax-chick ("A little plain food, and a philosophic temperament, are the only necessities of life."~W. Churchill)
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To: redgolum

Exactly. Now sexual virtue is considered a handicap, a personal failing, means something is psychologically wrong, maybe a closet homosexual, etc.

My DH had only one girlfriend before we were married - for a very short time, and he was 32. If people knew of his “inexperience” (people like the ones we’re talking about) they would have thought something was wrong with him.

On the contrary, he had high principles.

I will admit we had a very short engagement.


83 posted on 09/18/2010 7:47:02 AM PDT by little jeremiah (Courage is not simply one of the virtues, but the form of every virtue at the testing point.)
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To: Tax-chick

Yes; it means going against the flow, swimming against the current, and basically being an outsider to the cultural milieau. (sp?)

At one of the local grocery/everything store chains in this state they have one special “Family Friendly” checkout aisle. Since the regular “womens” magazines, Globe etc are so racy - soft porn covers really - they have one special aisle for parents who don’t want their children to see such mind rotting junk.

It means that parents who raise their children to hold high principles and expect them to act accordingly have a difficult task; but one of the most worthy. The next generation is so important. When I see parents keeping their children from swimming in the cesspit of modern culture and training them in traditional virtues and principles, it engladdens my heart.


84 posted on 09/18/2010 7:51:46 AM PDT by little jeremiah (Courage is not simply one of the virtues, but the form of every virtue at the testing point.)
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To: Tax-chick

Well said!


85 posted on 09/18/2010 7:58:02 AM PDT by little jeremiah (Courage is not simply one of the virtues, but the form of every virtue at the testing point.)
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To: little jeremiah

“Milieu,” I think. No matter how I arrange the vowels, it still looks wrong ;-).


86 posted on 09/18/2010 7:58:28 AM PDT by Tax-chick ("A little plain food, and a philosophic temperament, are the only necessities of life."~W. Churchill)
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To: little jeremiah

It appears I overreacted to what was intended to be a quip.

However, the glamorization of sex outside marriage has serious consequences when people do get married.


87 posted on 09/18/2010 8:07:19 AM PDT by Tax-chick ("A little plain food, and a philosophic temperament, are the only necessities of life."~W. Churchill)
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To: Springman; sergeantdave; cyclotic; netmilsmom; RatsDawg; PGalt; FreedomHammer; queenkathy; ...
A picture

If you would like to be added or dropped from the Michigan ping list, please freepmail me.

88 posted on 09/18/2010 8:15:15 AM PDT by grellis (I am Jill's overwhelming sense of disgust.)
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To: Tax-chick

No “a”, yours looks right.

I saw that - a quip.

But on FR (I can imagine elsehwere!) often such comments are meant at face value.


89 posted on 09/18/2010 8:16:02 AM PDT by little jeremiah (Courage is not simply one of the virtues, but the form of every virtue at the testing point.)
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To: Tax-chick
I think that's a lot more *ahem* inspiring than being in bed with someone you're pretty sure doesn't give a flying freep if you're dead tomorrow, as long as he ejaculates tonight.

I wouldn't know.

To quote the inimitable comedy team Puke and Snot:

(actress) -- Tell me, is it true what they say about you Frenchmen?

Puke -- What, that we rarely bathe and are rude to foreigners?

(actress) -- No, that,they say the Frenchmen are the world's greatest lovers?

Snot -- I don't know, I've never made love to a French man.

Cheers!

(Full Disclosure: RIP Snot, we'll miss you.)

90 posted on 09/18/2010 9:03:19 AM PDT by grey_whiskers (The opinions are solely those of the author and are subject to change without notice.)
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To: MichiganConservative
It is only women who have more than one intimate premarital relationship who have an elevated risk of marital disruption.

It's not just women who are hurt by all of this, as even some MRA's are starting to point out.

91 posted on 09/18/2010 9:26:44 AM PDT by TwelveOfTwenty (Compassionate Conservatism? Promoting self reliance is compassionate. Promoting dependency is not.)
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To: little jeremiah

Similar case here.

What is funny is that many of those who said we did it wrong are divorced.


92 posted on 09/18/2010 10:38:52 AM PDT by redgolum ("God is dead" -- Nietzsche. "Nietzsche is dead" -- God.)
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To: redgolum

Yes indeed. DH and are best friends for life. That’s what counts.


93 posted on 09/18/2010 11:31:21 AM PDT by little jeremiah (Courage is not simply one of the virtues, but the form of every virtue at the testing point.)
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To: grey_whiskers

I’ve never made love to a Frenchman, either, so that makes all of us.


94 posted on 09/18/2010 2:24:59 PM PDT by Tax-chick ("A little plain food, and a philosophic temperament, are the only necessities of life."~W. Churchill)
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To: envisio

do0d, i KNOW you want to get in on this one :)


95 posted on 09/21/2010 5:05:39 AM PDT by absolootezer0 (2x divorced, tattooed, pierced, harley hatin, meghan mccain luvin', smoker and pit bull owner..what?)
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To: MichiganConservative

Seriously??!! What in the world are you thinking? Do you realize that in order for the woman to become a “slut” as you so delicately put it there needs to be a man involved in the process? What about the man? What label does he receive? He probably be hailed as a hero for sleeping around with as many people as he can. Do you think he won’t have trouble staying true to whomever he marries?
Your logic is a major fail.


96 posted on 10/01/2011 6:20:28 AM PDT by logical_thinker85
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