Exactly. Now sexual virtue is considered a handicap, a personal failing, means something is psychologically wrong, maybe a closet homosexual, etc.
My DH had only one girlfriend before we were married - for a very short time, and he was 32. If people knew of his “inexperience” (people like the ones we’re talking about) they would have thought something was wrong with him.
On the contrary, he had high principles.
I will admit we had a very short engagement.
Similar case here.
What is funny is that many of those who said we did it wrong are divorced.