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Sorry, Fido, It’s Just a Guy Thing
NYT ^ | October 3, 2008 | ABBY ELLIN

Posted on 10/06/2008 12:19:43 PM PDT by Daffynition

IF you ask Adam Fulrath who is the love of his life, he will barely blink an eye before responding: Parappa.

Mr. Fulrath, a 37-year-old design director at Time Out New York, keeps five photographs of Parappa, a shorthaired, bicolored, mixed-breed cat, on his desktop. He knows that it might be considered a little weird that a grown man would be so enamored with his kitty, but Mr. Fulrath, who is into video games and comic books and calls himself a “straight, geeky guy,” doesn’t care.

“She’s my primary relationship,” he said.

Mr. Fulrath is one of a growing number of single — and yes, heterosexual — men who seem to be coming out of the cat closet and unabashedly embracing their feline side. To that end, they are posting photographs and videos of their little buddies on YouTube and on Web sites like menandcats.com, and Twittering about them to anyone who will listen.

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(Excerpt) Read more at nytimes.com ...


TOPICS: Education; Pets/Animals; Society
KEYWORDS: genx
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To: yefragetuwrabrumuy

101 posted on 10/07/2008 1:43:03 PM PDT by Daffynition
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To: spodefly

“Women and cats will do as they please, and men and dogs should relax and get used to the idea.”
~Robert A. Heinlein


102 posted on 10/07/2008 1:47:16 PM PDT by Daffynition
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To: Doomonyou

Gamey ... but funny. Reminds me of the time the Lab dragged home the hind quarter of a deer that was in the process of being butchered. We roamed the neighborhood looking for the “owner” but didn’t find anyone who had recently shot a whitetail.


103 posted on 10/07/2008 1:51:31 PM PDT by Daffynition
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To: LucyT
Here. Have a Popsicle. ;)


104 posted on 10/07/2008 1:52:48 PM PDT by Daffynition
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To: Lurker
"...Mr. Fulrath, who is into video games and comic books and calls himself a “straight, geeky guy..."

Nope. Nothing gay about cats. Or mousse. Or ruffled cuffs. Or bare chests with gold chains...


105 posted on 10/07/2008 1:56:16 PM PDT by Joe 6-pack (Que me amat, amet et canem meum)
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To: Daffynition

Awww, thanks. Num, num.


106 posted on 10/07/2008 1:56:45 PM PDT by LucyT
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To: LucyT

107 posted on 10/07/2008 2:02:56 PM PDT by Lady Jag (DONATE NOW at https://secure.freerepublic.com/donate)
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To: Lady Jag

Oh, that’s neat; do you mind if I borrow it?


108 posted on 10/07/2008 2:05:43 PM PDT by LucyT
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To: LucyT
Hope you're OK now ... you sounded a little upset. ;)


109 posted on 10/07/2008 2:21:28 PM PDT by Daffynition
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To: Joe 6-pack
Roy - Tigger
110 posted on 10/07/2008 2:23:40 PM PDT by Slings and Arrows ("Poisoning the customers is bad for business." --Quark, *Star Trek: Deep Space Nine*)
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To: Daffynition

My husband is NOT a ‘cat person’ but he was the one that found our current cats at the shelter after MY cats, aged 17 & 15 had died of old age. He did it for me, and I thought it was very sweet. :) Plus, he appreciates how I’ve cared for and put up with his smelly hunting dogs all these years...

My worry is that these men are developing unhealthy relationships with CATS. They’re CATS! Not living, breathing women. That’s the part I find scary...anyone that puts pet relationships above human relationships is not firing on all cylinders, IMHO.


111 posted on 10/07/2008 2:27:33 PM PDT by Diana in Wisconsin (Save The Earth. It's The Only Planet With Chocolate.)
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To: Slings and Arrows

Gawd, that’s funny as h#ll! LOL!


112 posted on 10/07/2008 2:32:02 PM PDT by Diana in Wisconsin (Save The Earth. It's The Only Planet With Chocolate.)
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To: Daffynition

Thanks, Daffy; I’m fine.


113 posted on 10/07/2008 2:33:25 PM PDT by LucyT
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To: LucyT

Please use it freely.


114 posted on 10/07/2008 3:21:09 PM PDT by Lady Jag (DONATE NOW at https://secure.freerepublic.com/donate)
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To: the OlLine Rebel
"Why do us women always have to preen ourselves while men look like ugly slobs?"

Uhhh,.. because we can?

115 posted on 10/07/2008 3:58:08 PM PDT by Mr. K (Some days even my lucky rocketship underpants don't help)
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To: Diana in Wisconsin; All
Slate just *loved* this story:

"How to write a bogus trend story: Start with something you wish were on the rise. State that rise as a fact. Allow that there are no facts, surveys, or test results to support such a fact. Use and reuse the word seems. Collect anecdotes and sprinkle liberally. Drift from your original point as far as you can to collect other data points. Add liberally. Finish with an upbeat quotation like "My cat takes priority over the new relationship. Realistically, unless there's something absolutely amazing about [the woman I'm dating], he wins." Send bogus trend stories to..."

116 posted on 10/07/2008 5:27:47 PM PDT by Daffynition
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To: Diana in Wisconsin

I feel sorry for the poor tiger. He just wanted to get ahead.


117 posted on 10/07/2008 9:05:52 PM PDT by Slings and Arrows ("Poisoning the customers is bad for business." --Quark, *Star Trek: Deep Space Nine*)
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To: Lady Jag; TASMANIANRED; MS.BEHAVIN; MEG33; LUV W; EsmeraldaA; Kitty Mittens; AZamericonnie; ...
To All The Cat~Guys Of The Forum


"Out!" Haiku





Little Tux Kitty
has few words. Those she uses
can be understood

Gesturing is a
simple language. Easier
than teaching 'Felin~ese'

Little Tux Kitty
could sit by the door for hours.
This is more direct

Little Tux Kitty
could be impolite and raise
a ruckus, but won't

Little Tux Kitty's
Big Food Guy is very smart.
Knows that look too well

Could be dark and cold
outside. This will not deter
our adventurer

Answers are found in
the light. The best questions are
waiting in the dark

Little Tux Kitty
is too small and cute to be
denied her wishes

Age old conundrum.
Once Kitty is outside. When
will she want back in?



Jack Deth ~ 10/08/08.

118 posted on 10/08/2008 3:21:36 PM PDT by Jack Deth (Knight Errant and Resident FReeper Kitty Poem /Haiku Guy)
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To: Jack Deth

;o) Thanks ,Jack..I have 2 kittens now to keep my adult cat harrassed and entertained..


119 posted on 10/08/2008 3:35:50 PM PDT by MEG33 (God Bless Our Military)
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To: Jack Deth
Lovely poem Jack. Thank you!


120 posted on 10/08/2008 4:01:05 PM PDT by Daffynition
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