[Excellence]

My first crush started when I was 14, lasted 14 years until he died, and took 14 years to let go of. It was strange, but every time he was in dire trouble I would feel an extreme urgency to call. It's just that the last time I was too late, somebody else answered the phone and, recognizing my name and that I was a friend, told me he had committed suicide.

[qam1]

I currently have a crush on my car Insurance Agent, I believe the feeling might be mutual

Unfortunately she works in the same room with some older nosy women, so I don’t know how to ask her out at her work with this women sitting right next to her. Not to mention, it’s my car insurance, so how often do I really have to go there?

Luckily they screwed up my policy so I got to see her again, but outside of purposely damaging my car I really have no reason to go there (I can pay my bill online).

Just dam.

[WFTR]

Wow, I'm sorry for you loss. That's a sad situation. If you don't mind my asking, did the relationship ever grow into any kind of mutually romantic relationship? I guess I've never thought of a crush lasting fourteen years. The fact that you remained a presence in his life as much as you could speaks well of you.

Bill

[snugs]

What a sad story - sorry about your loss.