[qam1]

I currently have a crush on my car Insurance Agent, I believe the feeling might be mutual

Unfortunately she works in the same room with some older nosy women, so I don’t know how to ask her out at her work with this women sitting right next to her. Not to mention, it’s my car insurance, so how often do I really have to go there?

Luckily they screwed up my policy so I got to see her again, but outside of purposely damaging my car I really have no reason to go there (I can pay my bill online).

Just dam.

[WFTR]

Does she have her own e-mail address or does everyone in the office use the same e-mail? If she has her own e-mail, maybe you could drop her a line for some reason. The nosy lady next door may not have any reason to think twice about her reading just another e-mail from a customer. If you exchange a few e-mails, maybe you'd have an excuse to ask her out.

Bill

[My hearts in London - Everett]

You can go in and add and delete car rental to your policy every month! lol :~) Just trying to help!

[ROTB]

Here’s what you say:

“What time are we having dinner tonight?”

They love that. Just say that. Wait for an answer. Forget about the nosy old c**k-blocking hag. She’ll be a distant memory 2 minutes later.

Good hunting man!

[Harmless Teddy Bear]

(I can pay my bill online).

But that does not mean that you have to pay it on line.

Pay it in person and choose a time when the other lady is not there. Go about lunch time, you can sit in the lobby filling out papers until you see her leave.

Sometimes you have got to be a bit sneaky.

[fr_freak]

I currently have a crush on my car Insurance Agent, I believe the feeling might be mutual

You've got a couple of options:

1) call her at work and ask her out
2) come to see her on whatever pretense you want, then slip her a note that says something along the lines of "Just in case those nice elderly ladies are really mean gossiping harpies, I'm asking you this in note form: will you have dinner with me tonight?" When she looks up, give her a big smile
3) say to hell with the old ladies and ask her out in front of God and everybody. Say it loud and with great confidence (you can vomit in the sink later, if necessary).

The one option you DO NOT HAVE, is to fail to ask her out. If she says no, or if you go out with her and things fail miserably, at least you'll know and you won't be sitting in the old folks home 60 years from now wondering what might have been.

Set a deadline for yourself. If you don't think of a better way to ask her out by, say, June 6 (D-day, heh heh), then you go with option 3. Period. In fact, I'm going to go ahead and set that deadline for you. Ask her out by June 6, then report back to this thread and let us know what happened. Remember, Fortune favors the brave!

[reg45]

If she is your insurance agent, you should call her up and ask if she could get you a quote on life insurance. Then you would get a chance to discuss some personal things like marital status, beneficiaries, etc.

[Fighter@heart]

Damn! Grow a set & just ask her out. Anything worth having is worth fighting for. If a nosey ole “biddy” is gonna scare ya off, maybe she deserves better. She only has 3 possible answers, yes, no, maybe. No & maybes can be turned into “yes.” An unasked question precludes the possibility of ANY ANSWER.