After reading the articled published in your newspaper Married without children: Finding fulfillment with no kids I dont agree with the views presented in the article. The Eatons seem to feel that children prevent happiness. Children bring and added measure of happiness to a loving couples relationship. Choosing not to have children is a selfish decision and can ultimately lead to an unfulfilled life. If others shared your unique views on families then we would all cease to exist as a species. The argument that women have other things to do has come about in recent years. While this view was heavily adopted in the 90s women today have chosen to leave the full-time position behind to be home with their families at least part-time. The Eatons say that their relationship is strong; this is an ideal foundation for a strong happy family. When we look to those who have children and have made such a great sacrifice to tend to another human and to nurture them through life, these are the people who are truly happy. Raising a family can defiantly be a finical sacrifice for a few years however, through great sacrifice comes great reward, the best things in life dont come without a price. In the article it stated that in the long- term its people who have children who are the happiest, Popenoe. By having children and creating that family unit in a couples old age they can look to their children for care and comfort. The concern of not spending enough time with your spouse is selfish. Having a family and raising a family is a great and rewarding gift that will bring couples closer together. It is ridiculous to think that a shower for a child-free woman should be held. A baby shower is often a gift to the women before she embarks on a life-long mission of self sacrifice. A woman who willingly side steps motherhood forfeits the celebration or the perks that come with the sacrifice. I believe that having a family is one cultural norm our society has in perspective. It is a misconception that the world is over populated. With the generation of the baby-boomer aging and family sizes rapidly decreasing this is a false notion that as people we need to cleanse ourselves of. The commandment given to Adam and Eve by God to multiply and replenish the earth is still in effect today (Genesis 3:6). I hope that couples realize the great blessing it is to bear and rear children in this world. This is a divine calling and a great responsibility to raise a generation of socially aware and compassionate people to carry on the legacy and to be the next Einsteins, Mozarts, Michelangelos and Mother Teresas.
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To: Collegegirl
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2 posted on
12/03/2007 12:47:11 PM PST by
OB1kNOb
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To: Collegegirl
Do they use paragraphs in college?
3 posted on
12/03/2007 12:47:25 PM PST by
reagan_fanatic
(Ron Paul put the cuckoo in my Cocoa Puffs)
To: Collegegirl
4 posted on
12/03/2007 12:48:18 PM PST by
Calpernia
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To: Collegegirl
So, you started a vanity on a three year old thread?
Interesting....
5 posted on
12/03/2007 12:48:39 PM PST by
Hoodlum91
(I support global warming.)
To: Collegegirl
How do you feel about the price of cheese?
8 posted on
12/03/2007 12:54:41 PM PST by
RedRover
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To: Collegegirl
Real question:
What do you think about coed dorms/rooms?
9 posted on
12/03/2007 12:56:22 PM PST by
dakine
To: Collegegirl
Paragraph breaks are free here...
10 posted on
12/03/2007 1:03:35 PM PST by
JRios1968
(Faith is not believing that God can. It is knowing that God will. - Ben Stein)
To: Collegegirl; Tijeras_Slim; Allegra; CzarNicky; RockinRight; Hoodlum91
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To: Collegegirl
Hey, what's happenin' and welcome to FR! Enjoy your stay, however long it may be. Oh, and there may just be kitties in your future, just so ya know.

To: Collegegirl
Look down.
On the keyboard you will see a key that says “ENTER”
Use it.
Use it frequently, use it lots, just USE THE DANG THING!
19 posted on
12/03/2007 1:20:25 PM PST by
najida
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To: Collegegirl
22 posted on
12/03/2007 1:21:50 PM PST by
Xenalyte
(Can you count, suckas? I say the future is ours . . . if you can count.)
To: Collegegirl
I’ve worked in IT for over 10 years and I agree. All they worry about is how to make their budget bigger.
25 posted on
12/03/2007 1:23:03 PM PST by
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(A fool who'll waste his life, God rest his guts.)
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To: Collegegirl; darkwing104
Come on in! The water’s fine!
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43 posted on
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(Inside every cynical person, there is a disappointed idealist - G. Carlin)
To: Collegegirl
As you have no doubt surmised, the welcome mat at FR comes with lots of other “goodies” free of charge.
Welcome to FR. Beware the kitties.
47 posted on
12/03/2007 1:53:12 PM PST by
50mm
(Inside every cynical person, there is a disappointed idealist - G. Carlin)
To: Collegegirl; Tijeras_Slim; Xenalyte; Jersey Republican Biker Chick
Hey, you know what?
I LOVE wearing new socks!
If I won the lottery, I'd buy 365 pairs of socks a year so I could have new socks every day. For those summer days when I just wear sandals, I'd have some extra socks for those days where you might want to put on a fresh pair of socks to go out for the evening.
48 posted on
12/03/2007 1:54:19 PM PST by
Allegra
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50 posted on
12/03/2007 1:58:05 PM PST by
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To: Collegegirl
57 posted on
12/03/2007 2:19:33 PM PST by
gondramB
(Preach the Gospel at all times, and when necessary, use words.)
To: Collegegirl
College?
Demand a refund.
60 posted on
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