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Loved ones left behind (Pets in your Will)
St Pete Times ^ | 02/09/2007 | SAUNDRA AMRHEIN

Posted on 02/09/2007 1:41:56 PM PST by devane617

SUN CITY CENTER

It's just the two of them now. Ever since Eileen Horan's husband died five years ago, her daily routine has revolved around Pat, their miniature poodle. Every morning, Pat jumps on her bed, wriggling and panting warm breath in her face. They go on seven walks a day. They take their medicines together. Horan, 87, considers Pat one of her children. He's also her biggest worry. Like many residents in retirement communities like Sun City Center, Horan fears what will become of Pat when she dies. Who could care for the 15-year-old poodle the way she does? Who could comfort him after his seizures or make sure he gets his medicine? "I pray every day that Pat will go to sleep before me so I know that he's safe," Horan said. The concern is so great among retirees, who often die before their pets, that they set up trust funds or make plans for their animals in a will. Now, local residents and veterinarians are hoping to build a massive home in southern Hillsborough County - the second of its kind in the nation - where pets could stay the rest of their lives after their owners die.

Euthanasia?

"It's a real problem for people. They really care for their pets," says Spencer Faircloth, who launched the idea for the pet home after Horan came to him years ago with a wrenching request: Would he have Pat euthanized when she dies?

He said no. But Horan's dilemma is one Faircloth has heard often in his job as a trust officer at SunTrust Bank in Sun City Center.

He talks to clients about setting aside money for the care of their pets after they're gone. Faircloth, 77, an animal lover who also lives in Sun City Center, has a trust fund for his beloved cat, Patches.

In 2002, Florida joined more than a dozen other states in allowing pet owners to set up trust funds for their animals. Owners can specify an amount of money and name a trustee to carry out their wishes under court supervision.

The problem, Faircloth says, is that many older Americans don't have anyone they trust enough with their pet.

Looking to Texas

Some retirees have outlived all of their relatives.

Others feel they can't count on their adult children, who live out of state or have families and pets of their own, he said. Some adult children simply dump their parents' pets outside to fend for themselves after the funeral, he said.

The issue forced Faircloth and local veterinarians to form a nonprofit group called the Pet Continuing Care Home Inc.

They're hoping for a large, private donation to build a pet home in southern Hillsborough County, which would accept animals from anywhere in the country.

It would be patterned after the Stevenson Companion Animal Life-Care Center in College Station, Texas.

The 8,300-square-foot Stevenson Center looks like a house, complete with a living room, formal dining room, a sun room full of cat condos and large, fenced yards where dogs can run and play.

The center operates in partnership with the College of Veterinary Medicine at nearby Texas A&M University.

Veterinary students live full time at the home, providing companionship, care and grooming for the animals. The pets get regular exams and medical attention from the school's veterinary teaching hospital.

Faircloth and the Pet Home group want to establish a similar relationship with the University of Florida's College of Veterinary Medicine.

Unlike animal sanctuaries, the home would not allow adoptions except for special cases.

Last month, Faircloth and the Pet Home nonprofit invited the director of the Stevenson Center to Sun City Center for a presentation.

Residents loved the idea. They had just one problem: the cost.

Got an extra $50,000?

Dr. Henry Presnal showed slides of dogs and cats napping together on pillows.

He told stories of new friendships among the Stevenson Center's 13 dogs, nine cats and a llama.

He said 280 pets are enrolled and will be taken in when their owners die.

But the next detail vexed some of the dozen or so people in the audience:

Depending on a pet owner's age, the minimum endowment required from an estate is $50,000.

Marian Weber, a resident in her 80s, spoke up. She could never afford that price tag based on what she gets from Social Security and a small pension, she said.

"No matter how much I want to, I can't," said Weber, who has no children and no surviving relatives to care for her dog, Thunder, a 2-year-old Chinese crested powderpuff.

Presnal and other Stevenson officials explained that the endowment, which is invested and never touched, needs to be high enough to generate income to pay for animal care and medical bills.

Medical care for aging animals becomes expensive, not to mention boarding costs that can run about $5,000 a year. Many of their clients bequeath their homes, he said, though some local residents said they have adult children to think about.

"It is not an elitist program," Presnal said. "You don't have to be wealthy to do this."

Donations needed

Pet Home planners think enough donations could help some residents with the cost.

First, the local home needs one big donation to be built - as much as $1.5-million.

Until then, some residents are leaving their pets to the free "Care for Life" program at the Humane Society of Pinellas, which finds new homes for animals.

The Humane Society of Tampa Bay does not have a formal program, but about once or twice a year, someone wills his or her pets to the agency.

Others leave them to trusted veterinarians, such as Dr. Bob Encinosa of Riverview, the new head of the Pet Home effort.

"They want to make sure the animal is going to be placed in a good home," he said.

Horan, who decided to ask her son in Riverview to take Pat when she dies, says the uncertainty can keep owners awake at night.

"I think you're only really happy when you have the security of what will happen to them."

Times researcher Angie Holan contributed to this report.

Saundra Amrhein can be reached at (813) 661-2441 or amrhein@sptimes.com.

. more information

The new pet home

The Pet Continuing Care Home Inc. is a local nonprofit group looking to build a home in southern Hillsborough County modeled after the Stevenson Companion Animal Life-Care Center in College Station, Texas.

For more information about the plans for the Pet Continuing Care Home, call Spencer Faircloth at (813) 633-5818 or Dr. Bob Encinosa at (813) 671-3400.

For more information on the Stevenson Center in Texas, visit www.cvm.tamu.edu/petcare.


TOPICS: Pets/Animals
KEYWORDS: cat; cats; doggieping; kitty; pets
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I just went through this when updating my Will. I talked to several friends and finally decided who would do the honors. I specified instructions, and an amount of money on a yearly basis. I love my kitties, and want them cared for if something happens to me.
1 posted on 02/09/2007 1:42:01 PM PST by devane617
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To: devane617

Bookmark.
Pets are beloved family members often left without care after their owners death.


2 posted on 02/09/2007 1:43:47 PM PST by BunnySlippers (SAY YES TO RUDY !!!)
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To: devane617; Slings and Arrows; HairOfTheDog

Awww, that is very sweet.


3 posted on 02/09/2007 1:44:27 PM PST by mom4kittys (If velvet could sing, it would sound like Josh Groban)
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To: devane617

We often do forget our pets -- we think someone will take care of them, so we don't plan.

I provided for my best friend to take in my cats. But if she is unwilling or unable to do so -- I have an arrangement with the local shelter. The shelter has a program where, if you arrange ahead of time (and contribute some money), they will take your pets when you pass on. A very good arrangement.


4 posted on 02/09/2007 1:46:30 PM PST by fatnotlazy
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To: BunnySlippers

I adopted a wonderful older cat who was living in fostercare after her owner died.


5 posted on 02/09/2007 1:48:26 PM PST by nuconvert ([there are bad people in the pistachio business] (...but his head is so tiny...))
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To: fatnotlazy

I love cats, and thought about offering to take in a few cats under this situation. However, I don't know if I could turn someone away. I would probably be seen on TV news in a fews years being escorted off to jail for have a house full of cats.


6 posted on 02/09/2007 1:49:04 PM PST by devane617 (Let's take back our country -- get a job in the MSM, or education system. We need you.)
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To: nuconvert

I adopted a wonderful older cat who was living in fostercare after her owner died.

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You are a wonderful person. Most people overlook older pets. Everyone seems to want kittens and puppies. But the older models still have a lot to offer.


7 posted on 02/09/2007 1:51:09 PM PST by fatnotlazy
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To: devane617

I love cats, and thought about offering to take in a few cats under this situation. However, I don't know if I could turn someone away. I would probably be seen on TV news in a fews years being escorted off to jail for have a house full of cats.

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That's why I stay out of pet stores and shelters unless one of my critters passes on and I want another. If I were at either place too often, I'd be bringing all of them home. :)


8 posted on 02/09/2007 1:52:29 PM PST by fatnotlazy
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To: devane617
My Dad never much cared for pets. About a year before his death, and a couple of months before a diagnosis, he inexplicably stopped at a pound in Florida and brought home a 9 year old Chihuahua. The dog had been dumped in the pound by the family of an elderly lady who had passed and was scheduled to be euthanized the following day. "Tippy" went everywhere with Dad that last year and remained with my Mom and was a great comfort to her following my Dad's death. I would like to think that was Dad's plan. Tippy passed away peacefully on Christmas eve 2002.
9 posted on 02/09/2007 1:52:41 PM PST by Ben Mugged (Always cheat; always win. The only unfair fight is the one you lose.)
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To: devane617

Marian Weber, a resident in her 80s, spoke up. She could never afford that price tag based on what she gets from Social Security and a small pension, she said.

"No matter how much I want to, I can't," said Weber, who has no children and no surviving relatives to care for her dog, Thunder, a 2-year-old Chinese crested powderpuff.

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Elderly people often buy puppies or adopt dogs for companionship, but fail to take into account that the life span of a dog is 15+ years....frequently outliving very elderly owners.

Someone needs to point this out.


10 posted on 02/09/2007 2:05:16 PM PST by sodpoodle (Official Thread Nanny)
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To: fatnotlazy

Thanks.
I've had many cats. She's been one of the best.
:~ )


11 posted on 02/09/2007 2:07:15 PM PST by nuconvert ([there are bad people in the pistachio business] (...but his head is so tiny...))
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To: devane617
Our pets give us unconditional love, something few humans are capable of. I've made provisions for my pets in case I leave before they do.

I like to share this beautiful story with those fellow pet lovers who haven't read it:

Rainbow Bridge

Just this side of Heaven is a place called Rainbow Bridge. When an animal dies that has been especially close to someone here, that pet goes to Rainbow Bridge.

There are meadows and hills for all of our special friends so they can run and play together. There is plenty of food, water and sunshine and our friends are warm and comfortable.

All the animals who had been ill and old are restored to health and vigor; those who were hurt or maimed are made whole and strong again, just as we remember them in our dreams of days and times gone by.

The animals are happy and content, except for one small thing: they each miss someone very special, someone who was left behind. They all run and play together, but the day comes when one suddenly stops and looks into the distance.

His bright eyes are intent; his eager body begins to quiver. Suddenly, he breaks from the group, flying over the green grass, faster and faster. You have been spotted, and when you and your special friend finally meet, you cling together in joyous reunion, never to be parted again.

The happy kisses rain upon your face; your hands again caress the beloved head, and you look once more into those trusting eyes, so long gone from your life, but never absent from your heart. Then you cross the Rainbow Bridge together...

*Author Unknown*

12 posted on 02/09/2007 2:08:01 PM PST by janetgreen
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To: devane617; sinkspur; 88keys; DugwayDuke; sissyjane; Severa; the OlLine Rebel; naturalman1975; ...
Something to think about :~)

Ping!


Other articles with keyword "DOGGIEPING" since 12/29/04

Ping!


13 posted on 02/09/2007 3:09:42 PM PST by HairOfTheDog
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To: devolve; ntnychik; PhilDragoo; HairOfTheDog; devane617

Very sad to think about for some people. Luckily I have 4 children who would definitely take care of my Yorkie if the time came.

The real problem is with older pets with medical problems, as in the article.


14 posted on 02/09/2007 3:19:12 PM PST by potlatch (Does a clean house indicate that there is a broken computer in it?)
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To: potlatch

And family that might not be prepared to take them on.

The dogs might be absorbed by family... they may not like it but they'd probably get used to them in time :~)

My big concern before I got married was the horses. My family wouldn't have known how to take care of them the first day, let alone find homes for them. Luckily I did talk to my family about it and discussed who they should call if something happened.


15 posted on 02/09/2007 3:26:20 PM PST by HairOfTheDog
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To: devane617
I've taped a note to my refrigerator with my Vet's name and phone number on it. If anything were to happen to me I know he would find a good home for my beloved pet kids.

(My elderly Mom - should she out live me - would probably just take them to the pound cause she doesn't understand/believe in becoming emotionally attached to animals). My best friend lives at the other end of the country so my Vet is the next best person.
16 posted on 02/09/2007 3:26:57 PM PST by proudofthesouth (Mao said that power comes at the point of a rifle; I say FREEDOM does.)
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To: HairOfTheDog; devolve
My kids all love my dog and would gladly take him. I certainly can see more of a problem with horses though.

I have 8 acres of pasture behind my home and my kids grew up with horses, lambs and cattle. Most people don't have the resources to care for horses.

I'm glad you have had discussions about the care of yours.
17 posted on 02/09/2007 4:00:43 PM PST by potlatch (Does a clean house indicate that there is a broken computer in it?)
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To: mom4kittys; Slings and Arrows; Glenn; republicangel; Bahbah; Beaker; BADROTOFINGER; etabeta; ...
My dog and kitties will be provided for in my estate. I just hope the cats don't try to bump me off for the money.


19 posted on 02/09/2007 5:10:13 PM PST by Slings and Arrows ("Facts are a Zionist plot!" --MarkL)
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To: MaryFromMichigan

It doesn't hurt to check with the SPCA on these kinds of concerns. All of my experiences with them have been good ones.


20 posted on 02/09/2007 5:15:26 PM PST by BunnySlippers (SAY YES TO RUDY !!!)
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