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Wining and dining best way to woo women
Reuters ^ | Tue Jul 26,10:06 AM ET | unknown

Posted on 07/26/2005 2:54:12 PM PDT by Redcitizen

LONDON (Reuters) - Forget expensive presents or costly jewellery. Wining and dining is the best way for men to woo women, scientists said on Tuesday.

Researchers at Imperial College London developed a mathematical formula and modelled courtship as a sequential game to find the best way to impress the ladies.

Their results show that offering an expensive present signals the man's serious intentions but he must be wary of being exploited by gold-diggers who will dump him after receiving the gift.

"Guys are less likely to offer expensive gifts to females they don't have a long-term interest in. And girls won't be impressed with cheap gifts. By offering expensive but worthless gifts, such as dinner and theatre trips, the male pays no cost if the invitation isn't accepted," said Dr Peter Sozou, of University College London (UCL).

If women are not interested they are unlikely to accept the invitation, according to the research published in the journal Proceedings of the Royal Society of London B.

The researchers said giving gifts was a feature of courtship in humans and other species to impress females. Physical attraction is an important element but offering gifts also helps.

"Our analysis shows there is evolutionary logic in men 'burning money' to impress the girl," said Professor Robert Seymour of UCL's department of mathematics.


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KEYWORDS: culture; dating; research; science; singles
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To: Dashing Dasher

JERRY: Uhm, The thing about eating the Black and White cookie, Elaine, is you want to get some black and some white in each bite. Nothing mixes better than vanilla and chocolate And yet somehow racial harmony eludes us. If people would only look to the cookie all our problems would be solved.

ELAINE: Your views on race relations are fascinating. You really should do an op-ed piece for the Times.

JERRY: Um, um, Look to the cookie Elaine. Look to the cookie.


61 posted on 07/26/2005 3:19:17 PM PDT by Petronski (I love Cyborg!)
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To: bwteim

Don't have pics yet :-)


62 posted on 07/26/2005 3:20:27 PM PDT by cyborg (That's Mrs.Petronski to you thank you very much.)
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To: Dashing Dasher

"that" dear, that!


63 posted on 07/26/2005 3:20:34 PM PDT by pissant
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To: doodad

So you are saying the mistake was in sobering her up to shop?


64 posted on 07/26/2005 3:21:15 PM PDT by A CA Guy (God Bless America, God bless and keep safe our fighting men and women.)
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To: cyborg

Too hot to handle, I bet!
Just don't use the developer on Seinfeld who did Costanza's.


65 posted on 07/26/2005 3:22:10 PM PDT by bwteim (Begin With The End In Mind)
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To: quantim

"offering gifts also helps"

Only my credit card company knows for sure.


66 posted on 07/26/2005 3:23:51 PM PDT by bwteim (Begin With The End In Mind)
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To: cyborg; Dashing Dasher
Yeah I know but he can fix cars. That's a goldmine of help right there

With the Double D, he'd better be a Aviation Mechanic!!!

8^)

67 posted on 07/26/2005 3:26:05 PM PDT by The SISU kid (Rats are like Slinkies. Good for nothing. But you smile when you push them down the stairs)
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To: The SISU kid

LOL!


68 posted on 07/26/2005 3:26:48 PM PDT by cyborg (That's Mrs.Petronski to you thank you very much.)
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To: Redcitizen

One way or another, you're paying for it.


69 posted on 07/26/2005 3:26:59 PM PDT by Ironclad (O Tempora! O Mores!)
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To: cyborg; Petronski
LOL!! Petronski is a Seinfeld fanatic :-)

I knew I liked you folks.

Look to the cookie!

70 posted on 07/26/2005 3:27:59 PM PDT by Dashing Dasher (Stop calling me Mrs.Petronski -- that's the other one.)
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To: cyborg

Did you guys tie the knot.... already?


71 posted on 07/26/2005 3:28:46 PM PDT by Dashing Dasher (Stop calling me Mrs.Petronski -- that's the other one.)
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To: pissant

Oh pish!


72 posted on 07/26/2005 3:29:11 PM PDT by Dashing Dasher (Stop calling me Mrs.Petronski -- that's the other one.)
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To: The SISU kid

The car doesn't break nearly as often as the planes.


;-(


73 posted on 07/26/2005 3:29:54 PM PDT by Dashing Dasher (Stop calling me Mrs.Petronski -- that's the other one.)
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To: Redcitizen

Wining and dining best way to woo women?

I always thought it was obscene mouth gestures when you pass her in the car.


74 posted on 07/26/2005 3:30:38 PM PDT by linkinpunk
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To: Peach

You are so right!


75 posted on 07/26/2005 3:30:39 PM PDT by recoveringlurker
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To: Dashing Dasher

6-10-6


76 posted on 07/26/2005 3:33:07 PM PDT by Petronski (I love Cyborg!)
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To: linkinpunk
Whistling and yelling obscenities while I walk by your construction site always works for me.
77 posted on 07/26/2005 3:33:24 PM PDT by Dashing Dasher (Stop calling me Mrs.Petronski -- that's the other one.)
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To: Redcitizen; cowboy_code
Ok, I'm a little lost. Scientists have proven that the reason women date men is to get a glass of wine and some food. hm. Now, I LIKE wine, and food is good, but I can get that at home. I have great wines in the cellar and am a helluva cook.

So, what I did was find a guy who likes to eat my cooking, has an equally good cellar, and is a great kisser. I can eat and drink wine by myself. Kissing requires two...

78 posted on 07/26/2005 3:33:30 PM PDT by Hi Heels (Guns kill and cause crime? Dang, mine must be malfunctioning....)
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To: Petronski; cyborg

I'm still available to do the ceremony.


;-)


79 posted on 07/26/2005 3:34:06 PM PDT by Dashing Dasher (Stop calling me Mrs.Petronski -- that's the other one.)
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To: Dashing Dasher

No it's a reference to a thread about women who don't take their husband's names :-)


80 posted on 07/26/2005 3:34:44 PM PDT by cyborg (That's Mrs.Petronski to you thank you very much.)
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