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The rise of ‘gray divorce,’ and why so many Boomers are splitting up late in life
NY Post ^ | 06/24/2026 | Alex Oliveira

Posted on 06/25/2026 9:47:40 PM PDT by CondoleezzaProtege

Americans age 50 and older are getting divorced—with almost half of all broken marriages in recent years coming from aging Gen Xers and Baby Boomers.

Gray divorces doubled between 1990 and 2010, until they comprised about one in four of all divorces nationally...

And though divorce has been dropping in most age groups across America, it has not among people 50 years and older.

Michael Stutman, a top New York City divorce lawyer, thinks a “popular culture” shift around modern marriage expectations, coupled with staring down the barrel of mortality, could be playing a part.

“The thing about people who are over 50 is that they’re getting cognizant that the fuel gauge is starting to go down to empty,” Stutman told The Post.

“And there’s one thing money can’t buy, which is time.”

(Excerpt) Read more at nypost.com ...


TOPICS: Society
KEYWORDS: agetruth; alexoliveira; divorce; generations; graydivorce; marriage; newyorkpost

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To: Justa
“when I was diagnosed with colorectal cancer.” So, how have you dealt with it? What are your treatment options?

Instead of donating your organs a few feet at a time, try nicotine patches to address the cancer.

61 posted on 06/26/2026 8:40:46 AM PDT by RideForever (Damn, another dangling par .....)
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To: alexander_busek

“ First determine which of the two sexes is filing for divorce in the overwhelming majority of cases, and you’ll instantly recognize what the reasons for this rise in so-called “gray divorces” are.”

70% are by the wife. - AARP


62 posted on 06/26/2026 8:50:50 AM PDT by EQAndyBuzz (Quiet! Quiet Piggy!)
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To: CondoleezzaProtege

Just for the record
Divorce % of marriages include the multiple divorced which skews the %

The actual rate first marriage and rather than ascribing multiple divorces to once counted individuals is around 25-30%

The info dissemination controllers being lefties who likely eschew marriage and having children love to pump up divorce rates and percentages to devalue a cultural cornerstone they themselves are often not participating in


63 posted on 06/26/2026 8:53:39 AM PDT by wardaddy (If u hate Trump you’re stupid or clueless and what’s going on We’re fighting for our civilization s)
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To: anton

The $1600 comes from his $3200.


64 posted on 06/26/2026 9:01:37 AM PDT by EQAndyBuzz (Quiet! Quiet Piggy!)
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To: MayflowerMadam

Yes’m!

Told that to my oncologist. He asked to have a chat with her. He did...then when he and I met, he said....As your doctor, it is my duty to see you to better health. My advice to you is to dump that woman! She will hinder our steps forward.


65 posted on 06/26/2026 9:35:51 AM PDT by Terry L Smith (....)
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To: Justa

Oh my..that was SOngsip hoke years ago!

I had radiation and the chemo box to the arm with a pic line.
For the rad, they put me on a a table, chest down. After doing this for a while, I had to use the bathroom one floor down, because it was like passing glass shards!

I weathered out the woman, moved, separated, and divorced heron a year’s time


66 posted on 06/26/2026 9:46:20 AM PDT by Terry L Smith (....)
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To: EQAndyBuzz

No it doesn’t.


67 posted on 06/26/2026 10:25:56 AM PDT by anton
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To: EQAndyBuzz

Divorced spouses can receive Social Security benefits on an ex-husband’s or ex-wife’s work record if the marriage lasted at least 10 years and you remain unmarried. You can collect up to 50% of your ex-spouse’s full retirement amount, and your claim will not reduce the payouts to your ex or their current family. Source SS website


68 posted on 06/26/2026 10:27:46 AM PDT by anton
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To: JohnnyP

Thanks for your story. I wish you nothing but happiness.


69 posted on 06/26/2026 10:31:42 AM PDT by mass55th (“Courage is being scared to death, but saddling up anyway.” ― John Wayne)
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To: A_perfect_lady

She wore pants after her husband died?! 😳😱 Mom never got THAT brave. (Dad was a Baptist preacher, only skirts.) But she did turn into a hussy and wear ... EARRINGS!

She was forbidden to drive, but when she was 80, my aunt secretly taught her to drive, and took her to get her license. She was 84 when Dad died, and the day after the funeral my sister and I bought her a car. She was so proud of that car. The farthest she drove was about 10 miles to work.


70 posted on 06/26/2026 10:33:08 AM PDT by MayflowerMadam ( "Trouble knocked at the door, but, hearing laughter, hurried away". - B. Franklin)
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To: A_perfect_lady
"Same. I was 38 when I realized: I just don’t want to do this anymore. Not with anyone."

That's the way I felt. Thanks for sharing.

71 posted on 06/26/2026 10:33:15 AM PDT by mass55th (“Courage is being scared to death, but saddling up anyway.” ― John Wayne)
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To: anton

Thank you for setting me straight. The way my attorney explained it was I retired and took SS benefits, my spouse would get half.


72 posted on 06/26/2026 11:47:52 AM PDT by EQAndyBuzz (Quiet! Quiet Piggy!)
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To: E. Pluribus Unum
If you aspire to live in poverty, divorce will get you there.

How to become a millionaire: Start with a billion dollars and get divorced (or turn your business over to your children).

73 posted on 06/26/2026 11:54:23 AM PDT by Labyrinthos
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To: mass55th

We graduated in 1965, hadn’t seen each other since then. Then her name popped up on my Facebook page and we started texting.

I’m in SoCal, she’s “Connie in Kent”. I sent her a link to an ABBA video where I posted a comment “To Connie, in Kent, Wa., so that’s what I call her.


74 posted on 06/26/2026 12:09:25 PM PDT by JohnnyP (Thinking is hard work (I stole that from Rush).)
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To: subterfuge

“ STD capital of the country in the Villages.”

This rumor is so ridiculous. One person many years ago, based on one visit, wrote an article claiming that and this fake news story has lasted forever. The lifestyle in The Villages is incredibly active and healthy. People are very busy playing pickle ball, tennis, water volleyball, water aerobics, swimming, shuffleboard, bocce ball, beanbag baseball, softball, etc.

There are more than 3500 resident run organizations including many supporting veterans. The Villages has the highest percentage of veterans of any community over 100,000 in the USA.

The entire community of about 175,000 people closes up about 9 PM.


75 posted on 06/26/2026 12:11:16 PM PDT by Freee-dame (The left never dreamed that Trump would be back in the White House in 2025. )
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To: JohnnyP

You were brave to start again with someone from your past. God bless you both.


76 posted on 06/26/2026 12:12:38 PM PDT by mass55th (“Courage is being scared to death, but saddling up anyway.” ― John Wayne)
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To: mass55th

Thank you.

We have no idea what’s in store for us, we text everyday and hope to see each other soon.


77 posted on 06/26/2026 12:23:50 PM PDT by JohnnyP (Thinking is hard work (I stole that from Rush).)
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To: Freee-dame

Well then where is the STD capital of the country? This is important. Never mind. I’ve got to stop saying stuff on the internet.


78 posted on 06/26/2026 12:38:08 PM PDT by subterfuge (What happened to my tagline?)
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To: CondoleezzaProtege
why is divorce so expensive?

because its worth it
79 posted on 06/26/2026 12:47:55 PM PDT by wafflehouse ("there was a third possibility that we hadn't even counted upon" -Alice's Restaurant Massacree)
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To: CondoleezzaProtege

I tell the doc “Doc - Take good care of her. She’s gotta last me a while yet.”

Occasionally wifey dear reminds me I’m stuck with her. Haven’t seen fit to argue the point.


80 posted on 06/26/2026 12:58:28 PM PDT by dagunk
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