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Transgenderism’s Connection with Pornography: It’s Undeniable
Person & Identity ^ | Oct 2021

Posted on 09/14/2025 7:44:05 AM PDT by CondoleezzaProtege

Let me take you on the journey of how my daughter was groomed into being a trans identifying child at the age of 13—and I assure you, my story is not uncommon, I have heard its refrain echoed from many others with ROGD (Rapid Onset of Gender Dysphoria) kids…

My daughter’s story began innocently enough…my daughter got her period…

Then, in 8th grade, my daughter stopped being a good student. She became obsessed with an older girl she met, who identified as a boy. My concern grew. I started to go through all of my daughter’s devices, old, obsolete i-phones and kindles. During my initial investigation, I saw some odd texts and TikToks but nothing too worrying...

After a night in which my daughter had a panic attack, she started to open up to me about the cause of her pain and anger, and why her behavior had changed so dramatically. She gave me all of her passwords for all of her accounts, even her secret ones. She admitted to having accounts in every possible platform – Discord, Twitter, Pinterest, Instagram and TikTok – some that I had no idea existed. I spent the next couple of weeks going through each device and every platform.

What I saw made me physically ill.

I now knew why my daughter had become unrecognizable. The history on every device was filled with pornography,

(Excerpt) Read more at personandidentity.com ...


TOPICS: Health/Medicine
KEYWORDS: dysphoria; genderdysphoria; groomers; grooming; pornography; tiktok; trans; transgender; transgenderism
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To: CondoleezzaProtege

I knew this was true, but I rarely think about that depth of darkness. I am sick to my stomach.


21 posted on 09/14/2025 10:03:42 AM PDT by alstewartfan (I AM Charlie Kirk. ❤️✝️)
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To: CondoleezzaProtege

I learned a lot at the link. Regret learning it.

God, please save the young people. Protect them from those who wish to defile them and destroy their innocence.


22 posted on 09/14/2025 10:48:57 AM PDT by Bigg Red ( Lord, make me an instrument of your peace.)
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To: Vaduz

And in English?


23 posted on 09/14/2025 10:51:00 AM PDT by Bigg Red ( Lord, make me an instrument of your peace.)
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To: phil00071

Yes and if humans aren’t around the sheep and chickens get used.

When the crotch overpowers the brain freaky things ensue.


24 posted on 09/14/2025 10:51:20 AM PDT by Vaduz
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To: Chickensoup

I cracked into an art site my daughter frequented which was full of pre-teen and adolences and noted lots of posts of the the healthiness of sex with older men.


25 posted on 09/14/2025 10:54:10 AM PDT by AppyPappy (They don’t kill you because you’re a Nazi, they call you a Nazi so they can kill you...CFW)
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To: CondoleezzaProtege

It takes a lot more than mere exposure to porn. Having been a massive tomboy, most girls like me kinda go through that phase of hating their bodies during puberty, especially if they hit it young like I did (at ten). This girl had serious grooming occur.

This is kind of like saying that video games cause mass shootings.


26 posted on 09/14/2025 11:44:55 AM PDT by Tacrolimus1mg (Do no harm, but take no sh!t.)
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To: FamiliarFace

Whew. You’re right, it was a tough piece to read and sadly informative. I was unaware of how this works, but it makes sense- the adults behind the scenes setting these kids up are wicked.

Take young teens, just as their hormones are kicking in, play on their natural (at that age) need to separate from parents, add some gradually perverse sex and you have a sad, confused, depressed and isolated teen. Give them teachers and peers willing to delude themselves about “genders” and you’ve made miserable kids who recently were just going through natural development.

It’s overwhelming to ponder how we repair these lost kids, and prevent new damage. God bless this mother and all the parents struggling with this vile cult of evil.


27 posted on 09/14/2025 11:50:57 AM PDT by SE Mom (ScreamingEagleMom)
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To: grey_whiskers

Oh man. This is quite a web, isn’t it? Reddit is a true sewer. But these websites are all over. Poisoning the souls of innocents and making them into monsters.


28 posted on 09/14/2025 11:57:17 AM PDT by SE Mom (ScreamingEagleMom)
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To: CondoleezzaProtege

“I would simply kill a person who ever came to my door to try and remove my child from my home because that child wanted to transition.”

If parents do not start standing up for what they feel God intended for a girl without or a boy with a penis, then we will not endure as a society.

We are at war with evil and evil must be defeated.


29 posted on 09/14/2025 12:52:32 PM PDT by Racketeer
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To: CondoleezzaProtege

https://youtu.be/Cu3u5JrtA7M?si=CcItIkRmwQ5okTre
“The Disturbing Roots of Transgender Ideology”
Allie Beth Stuckey podcast from 2023.
Interview with feminist Genevieve Grier, a non Christian who researched and actually told the truth about what she discovered.
It will absolutely turn your stomach so warning..
She speaks about these dark web forums which are just crawling with demon possessed ( of course she didn’t describe this way) monsters who develop “relationships” with kids, applaud and affirm them, they are brainwashing factories for the vulnerable. Just as described in this article. She talks about how these bizarre horrifying roots began long ago, not just 10-15 years ago.
The depraved adult men who pervert and groom these children are absolute monsters.

If radical leftists have infiltrated the same dark web chat rooms, it would be easy to brainwash the kids into Marxist ideology and violence at the same time. Especially since many of the kids are already mentally ill.

There are a number of famous detransitioned young people who credit Charlie Kirk with helping them see how they had been manipulated. The “trantifa” movement cannot allow that.


30 posted on 09/14/2025 1:12:08 PM PDT by boxlunch
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To: boxlunch

This is obviously an extremely complex topic, and one that is a moving target—that an earlier quarter-generation’s normalized sexual-violence has mutated into today’s transexuals becoming hyper-violent “Reavers” (Firefly) https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MGpIkxFxc3c&t=1s ; I think last week’s transgender killer, (it was in Minnesota and the chromosomal xy they-them’s name is Robin Westman), inadvertently revealed a new motive, that a source of rage is having been incorrectly counseled and being unable to return from hormone abuse and surgery. (I myself have grandchildren whom I can no longer see because as transexuals they make death threats.)

Below, Jonathon Van Maren observed 7 years ago that violent pornography inducing boys to pressure girls to engage in degrading activities, has made chromosomal xx/they-thems wanting to stop being their birth sex (”gender”).

https://thebridgehead.ca/2018/11/23/porn-use-hasnt-decreased-sexual-violence-it-has-normalized-sexual-violence/

Pornography has normalized sexual violence. It is true that almost nobody predicted that pornography would become a replacement for actual sex for many people, or that its use would lead to trends like rising rates of erectile dysfunction in men under thirty. But the connection between pornography and sexual violence not only exists, it is far more dangerous than anyone could have initially predicted. The ubiquity of pornography and the increasing prevalence of violent and degrading porn, as I’ve noted before, has given rise to a new ideology of sex. This cultural trend has been missed by many due to the fact that it does not appear in the crime rates generally utilized to determine how our society is doing in regard to sexual violence.

The fact is that the pornography has taught an entire generation how to view sex—and that the majority of that pornography contains explicitly violent and degrading content (88% of top-selling porn content contains violence against women, and the top-ranked online porn for teen boys includes scenes where women and girls are virtually destroyed in a single shoot by multiple men simultaneously). Combine that with the relentless promotion of sexual violence as legitimate in the romantic context—the Fifty Shades of Grey torture porn trilogy sold well over 100 million copies, and the Hollywood films became smash hits—and we have created a culture where whipping, hitting, cruel restraints, and the intentional infliction of pain on a romantic partner is considered normal. It used to be considered wrong for a man to hit a woman. Now, apparently, it is okay if she’s really asking for it.

In fact, the mainstreaming of sexual violence has gone so far that a new and insidious phrase is popping up every so often. When Jian Ghomeshi (chromosomal xy), the former CBC host, was hit by multiple accusations of striking, choking, and other sexually abusive behavior by multiple women, the Toronto Star announced that Ghomeshi had been accused of “unwanted sexual violence.” The implication was obvious: It is commonly accepted now that there is such a thing as wanted sexual violence, and thus these distinctions now need to be made. Ghomeshi promptly came out and described his sexually violent relationships as “consensual,” much like “Fifty Shades of Grey.”

Consider, for a moment, how fundamentally sick a culture has to be to accept “sadism” (the s in BDSM) as a normal part of romance and sexuality. But that is precisely where the ubiquity of pornography has taken us. A Durex survey found that 36% of adults in the US now incorporate BDSM into their sex lives, and the Fifty Shades of Grey craze saw interest in this sort of behavior spike dramatically: A 96.2% spike in interest in Phoenix, Arizona, according to one poll; 95% in San Francisco, 50.5% in Detroit, 40% in Tampa, 44.4% in Las Vegas, and so on.

Sexually violent pornography has not just transformed the sex lives of adults, it has also transformed the sexual landscape for the young. I often speak on pornography in high schools, and it is depressingly common to get questions from young teen girls about why the boys are requesting degrading and violent sexual favors; the answer, of course, is that these things are mainstream in porn. In the UK, doctors are describing having to regularly stitch up young girls because they are engaging in porn-inspired anal sex. One Australian sex educator described how porn had “transformed” high school for girls:

“Seventh grade girls are asking questions about bondage and S&M. Many of them have seen 50 Shades of Grey, and wonder if a boy wants to hit me, tie me up and stalk me, does that mean he loves me? Girls are tolerating demeaning and disrespectful behaviors, and thereby internalizing pornography’s messages about their submissive role.”

Girls describe being groped in the school yard, and being routinely sexually harassed at school or on the school bus on the way home. They are saying that boys act like they are entitled to girls’ bodies, like girls are only there to pleasure them. It is partially true what defenders of porn often say, porn does provide sex education—but not in the way they think. It teaches middle school boys that women and girls are there for his pleasure and that they are always up for sex. To them, no just means persuade me.

Vanity Fair journalist Nancy Jo Sales describes a very similar atmosphere in American high schools in her chilling 2016 book American Girls: Social Media and the Secret Lives of Teenagers https://www.amazon.com/s?k=american+girls+social+media+and+the+secret+lives+of+teenagers . And a committee of British MPs just came out with a report highlighting an increase in sexual harassment a few days ago:

“While provision of sex and relationships education still patchy, teenagers are understandably turning to pornography to learn about sex. However, with much of even mainstream porn featuring sexual aggression, coercion, and a lack of interest in female pleasure, young people are early on exposed to very stereotypical and degrading images of sexuality which can feed into their attitudes towards women and sex….Again, no one is suggesting that watching porn as a teenager turns you into a sexual predator. What is of concern, however, is that young people’s very normal and valid sexual curiosity is being fed by scenes of violence, simulated rape, and acts that centre on aggression and degradation, all before they’ve had a chance to explore and develop their own sexuality. This risks young people growing up to view women as the sex objects they are in porn, which in turn normalises sexual harassment. There is also evidence to suggest girls feel coerced by their boyfriends into sexual acts they don’t want to partake in, citing ‘pornography as the explanation’ for being pressured into, for example, anal sex.”

One of my friends who frequently mentors young women who have experienced such abuse described the impact of violent pornography on our culture this way: Many girls, when trying to explain what happened to them, actually have to ask: Was I raped? Because porn has normalized sexual violence, the lines between acceptable and unacceptable sexual behavior have been blurred to the point that many young people simply no longer know what is or is not assault. And because many young people learn about sexuality from porn, many of them believe that sexual violence is simply part of any relationship.

I could go on. The stories from high schools are countless, and the normalization of what was once considered to be sexually violent behavior by pornography has now been well-established by researchers. As Dr. John Foubert, the author of a sweeping meta-analysis on pornography titled Porn Harms https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lcVQmDTzRk4 , has pointed out, over fifty studies have now established a connection between porn and sexual violence—and the statistical chance that this connection does not exist is one in 88 decillion.


31 posted on 09/14/2025 2:57:22 PM PDT by CharlesOConnell (Kucy)
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To: anton

I agree big time.


32 posted on 09/14/2025 4:14:44 PM PDT by No name given ( Anonymous is who you’ll know me as )
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To: A Formerly Proud Canadian

My thoughts exactly.


33 posted on 09/14/2025 4:14:56 PM PDT by No name given ( Anonymous is who you’ll know me as )
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To: anton

Porn is a perversion no matter who buys it and let’s be honest..it’s men..


34 posted on 09/14/2025 4:21:39 PM PDT by cherry
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To: cherry

Porn is a sin and it raises false expectations about sex for young males. But, hetero sexual porn is mostly harmless in that hetero couple are pretty much doing exactly what is depicted in hetero porn. Just not as well, not as often and not as successful.

Normalizing gay sex, forced sex, and fetishes is really dangerous.


35 posted on 09/14/2025 5:11:43 PM PDT by anton
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To: CondoleezzaProtege

This is a terrible, terrible story, but three things jumped out:

1) Parent gave the child multiple internet-capable devices with apparently no parental controls, ongoing parent investigations, or even verbal guidelines.

2) No mention of the child having the other biological parent in the picture.

3) No mention of any sort of belief in a Higher Power that could have helped the the child, or at least the parent.


36 posted on 09/14/2025 6:52:23 PM PDT by Albion Wilde (RIP, Charlie. Say hi to Andrew Breitbart. God protect your family. Justice for Charlie Kirk!)
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To: boxlunch
“The Disturbing Roots of Transgender Ideology” Allie Beth Stuckey podcast from 2023. Interview with feminist Genevieve Grier, a non Christian who researched and actually told the truth about what she discovered.

Without going into disgusting detail, Germaine Greer positioned herself on the far femnazi edge back in the 1970s in her writings. Now she FO.

37 posted on 09/14/2025 6:59:21 PM PDT by Albion Wilde (RIP, Charlie. Say hi to Andrew Breitbart. God protect your family. Justice for Charlie Kirk!)
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To: CharlesOConnell

That post made me cry. This is just horrifying. While I knew that stuff existed after watching that interview a few years ago, and was affecting a tiny fraction of our youth, I had absolutely no idea it had become this widespread. Our poor girls and boys who have been taken captive by this demonic tidal wave. No wonder our youth are so lost!


38 posted on 09/15/2025 1:28:48 AM PDT by boxlunch
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To: CharlesOConnell

” It is true that almost nobody predicted that pornography would become a replacement for actual sex for many people, or that its use would lead to trends like rising rates of erectile dysfunction in men under thirty.”
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I can vividly recall pastors talking from their pulpits, warning their congregants of the two subjects you mentioned. They were all laughed at and told they were not being realistic.

They could see once this particular Pandora’s Box was opened there would always be a way to force/coerce individuals into being the vanguard of the movement and then target the young. The young of *any* generation are always the easiest to change.

Sigh. It’s truly terrible those pastors were laughed at by those they sought to warn.

One most remember so many of the men in those pews often had their own stash of Playboy/Penthouse and their sons would eventually find those copies. It was only a matter of time for it going from print to other media forms.

May the LORD God endow those young men and women who follow Him with wisdom and strength.


39 posted on 09/15/2025 7:20:17 PM PDT by Notthereyet (NotThereYet)
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To: Albion Wilde

Yikes, I just reread my post. I misread the name Genevieve Grier and mistook it for Germaine Greer. Total error. My apologies.


40 posted on 09/20/2025 3:38:54 PM PDT by Albion Wilde (RIP, Charlie. Say hi to Andrew Breitbart. God protect your family. Justice for Charlie Kirk!)
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