Posted on 09/06/2025 5:16:14 AM PDT by DoodleBob
1. Look for signs of unsafe driving
There’s no specific age to stop driving, but accidents resulting in injury or death do increase with age.[01] If you question your loved one’s ability to drive safely, consider riding with them occasionally and keeping notes of your observations. Be on the lookout for the following warning signs:
Increased accidents or tickets
Canceled car insurance policy or increased premiums
Signs of scrapes and minor collisions on their vehicle
An inability to turn their head to see behind the car and check blind spots
Trouble seeing at night
Driving the wrong way
Speeding on residential streets or driving too slowly on highways
Stopping at all intersections, regardless of signs and signals
Drifting across lanes
Forgetting to wear their seatbelt, turn on headlights, or use turn signals
Forgetting where they’re going or getting lost
Using the brakes instead of the gas pedal, and vice versa
Driving anxiety
Slowed response time
Trouble making decisions in the moment
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Know your options if your loved one refuses to stop driving. Some families may take drastic action, like hiding a senior’s car keys or immobilizing their car. These steps may keep them off the road, but they can spark additional conflict and may be illegal. In some states, you can request a driver review with the DMV regarding elderly driving concerns. In some cases, speaking with the local police force about how to legally stop someone with dementia from driving may be necessary to keep your loved one safe.
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Well, as a 92-year-old driver, I sure wish they would get all those 16-to-74-year-old "unsafe" drivers out of my way...
Been driving since the age of 10, got my first car at 11, and got my driver's license at 12...
I’d give up driving in a heartbeat if the self-driving vehicle concept became a safe alternative.
I’ve never liked driving. And now knowing that so many illegals are on the road... I can’t stop driving soon enough.
My dad was a driving fool. I did not inherit that mindset.
NZ had about 95% jabbed for the Wu Hu Flu
Actually that requirement for a physical etc to continue driving helped saved my father’s life in 1978...
He needed a heart transplant...
he received a partial a few weeks later and lived another 15 years...
he never felt sick, so he had not gone to a doctor in decades at that time...
... another reason to not buy a new car. They are becoming black-boxes that cannot be maintained by anyone other than an authorized dealer and they tattle on you in near real-time.
None taken.
I understand the process. They are not all easy.
A friend of mine’s dad was a Sabre jet fighter pilot in the 1950s, then into Super Sabers… then flew several airframes in Vietnam and got a couple of Air Force crosses. Full on fighter pilot forever. The kids at one point had the talk with him about hanging up his spurs and turning over the keys. They thought he’d get angry but were amazed at well it went. But he nodded quietly and listened. He ended by requesting to sleep on it overnight and talk it once more tomorrow at lunch.
He showed up at lunch in a brand new Porsche and says “this is the nicest way I could think of to tell you kids to go F yourselves”!
He lived inside their OODA loop until the day he died. That was back in the days our USAF pilots had freaking fangs!
100% true story!
I don't travel as much.
Got my drivers license as a freshman in high school. It was in 1962. I've had a driver's license since then.
Prior to that I was driving a tractor when I was 10, my brother & I had a 1947 Willies Jeep that we drove around the farm. And hauled my grandfather.
My brother and I were hunting with the men when we were 10 and 12. We were very good at hunting quail and dove. We had great bird dogs, over the years we had 4.
Dad bought my bother and I our first gun. It was a single shot, full choke, 20 gauge shotgun. It was a Remington pattern by their subsidiary in Brazil. I still have mine. Great little gun.
Good analysis. Also, some elderly people have broken their backs or necks simply by a minor accident that wouldn’t impact a young person at all. Especially at risk are those on blood thinners like Eliquis.
I don’t like Google, they already intrude in my life more than I can tolerate. I still am able to get where I want to go without navigation system.
I love technology, but hate what Large Tech has do to us.
This is one thing I do like. I only use it when I am not at all familiar with where I am going.
But, I agree with you about google.
Largely missing from this discussion is the issue of elderly drivers with dementia. I can tell you (from experience) that they lack any capability to listen or reason. I fought the good fight for 2 years early in my husband’s dementia journey to stop his driving enduring unfettered rage and fear of physical retaliation whenever I oh-so-gently raised the issue of not driving anymore. I finally had to hide the keys and disable his truck. It’s a fight I wouldn’t wish on anybody. 54 years of marriage and he truly despised me for the last 4 years of his life. Pray you never have to deal with a demented driver prone to road rage.
It is what it is. Sad yes, but at least to my knowledge he didn’t live long enough to hurt anyone.
OK, thank you... Appreciate the explanation very much.
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