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EXCLUSIVE: Canadian Mother Was Told To Be More “Inclusive” After Complaining About A Male Wearing A “Child’s Bikini” While Showering With Young Girls At Her Local Pool
Reduxx ^ | November 19, 2024 | Amy Hamm

Posted on 12/01/2024 12:21:44 PM PST by Morgana

The mother of a young girl in British Columbia, Canada, is speaking out after a man in a pink, sparkly bikini — adorned with sparkles, frills and princess tiaras — was found showering in the female changing room of her local public pool. After reporting the man’s presence, she was told that the facility “welcomes and celebrates diversity.”

Angie Tyrrell of Saanich, BC, spoke to Reduxx about the distressing experience, which occurred on July 5 of this year at Commonwealth Place, a local recreation center. Tyrrell recounts she had brought her daughter, who was 10 at the time, and her daughter’s friend, who was 11, for a playdate at the pool, where she watched them from the sidelines. After the girls were done, Tyrrell waited for them in the bathroom area of the female changing room.

But what should have been a peaceful end to a fun-filled day quickly turned to panic after the young girls ran out of the shower room. Approaching Tyrrell, the two whispered: “There was a man in the shower with us.” Terrified, Tyrrell instructed the girls to get changed out of their bathing suits inside of the nearby toilet stalls so that the man would not see them undress.

Soon after, the man entered the bathroom area. Tyrrell witnessed a teenage girl with her top off immediately cover herself and flee into a toilet stall upon spotting him. There were numerous women and children in the room, and Tyrrell noted that they all instantly appeared to become uncomfortable and moved to hurriedly get dressed and disperse. Tyrrell says the man, who was muscular and had a hairy chest and back, was wearing what appeared to be a pink child-like bikini, which was adorned with princess tiaras, sparkles, and frills.

After the girls were finished changing, Tyrrell approached the reception desk to alert staff that a male was in the female change room. Tyrrell tells Reduxx that staff were dismissive, even when she stated: “He’s wearing a child’s bikini, but he’s definitely a man.”

Upset and concerned, Tyrrell attempted to contact higher ups at the Commonwealth Pool via e-mails she shared with Reduxx.

Bree Dobler, the assistant manager of the facility, responded to Tyrrell in an email signed with “she/her” pronouns. In her first reply, Dobler didn’t appear to understand the problem, and seemed to simply believe there was a concern about the man’s bikini.

“While the District of Saanich welcomes and celebrates diversity, and we encourage visitors to our Recreation Facilities to use the restroom or changeroom with which they identify and where they feel most safe. All patrons are expected to respect the privacy and identity of others and wear appropriate attire for swimming as outlined in our Code of Conduct. You did the right thing by approaching staff with your concerns and it is unfortunate that they did not take your concerns seriously and call the onsite supervisor to gain better understanding of the situation and follow up accordingly. I will be following up with our staffing teams in this regard,” Dobler said, adding: “Should it assist with your comfort on your next visit we do have the option of universal or single stall washrooms or changerooms for patrons with concerns for their own modesty or want to maintain more privacy.”

Tyrrell replied incredulously, re-articulating her concern.

“I don’t think it’s right that a man’s wish to ‘feel most safe’ in women’s only spaces should be deemed a higher priority than the legitimate physical and emotional need for women and girls to actually be safe… You say if we are concerned that we should use the universal change room. But why should all of the women—who the women’s change facility is for—have to leave to accommodate a man?”

Dobler’s next email took on a distinctly sharper tone.

“…everyone’s gender identity and expressions are valid. Everyone is welcome in our centres in the changeroom where they feel most safe. Gender expression and identity is protected under BC’s Human Rights Code and we are proud to have a Diversity in Changerooms Policy in our centres,” she wrote. “There is no evidence to support that providing diversity in changerooms has increased incidents or safety of others. I understand that the topic of gender diversity in change rooms can be sensitive and presented the option of the universal or single stall washrooms or changerooms. Our goal is to create an inclusive environment where everyone feels respected and valued. I understand that this is a complex issue and appreciate the open dialogue and feedback. Thank you for your understanding and for helping us make our community more inclusive.”

Tyrrell then sent a final email to Dobler, which went ignored. It partly read: “I see where you’re coming from now. You actually believe that the 6-foot-tall muscular man with the hairy chest and back who took a shower with my 10-year-old daughter was a woman because he was wearing a bikini. That is magical/religious thinking.”

Since her experience at the Commonwealth Pool, Tyrrell has refused to use the public facilities in Saanich, as she fears it is unsafe for her and her daughter. The two have not returned to the recreation center.

Staff at Saanich Commonwealth Place did not respond to a request for comment.

The BC Human Rights Code referred to by Dobler does prioritize self-declared “gender,” allowing males to enter female-only spaces on the basis of their chosen “identity.” On the province’s website, the government of British Columbia asserts that “trans people must be recognized and treated as the gender they live in and prefer to express.” Businesses and public facilities that fail to accommodate trans-identified males may be subject to “discrimination” claims.

This is the second publicized case involving a trans-identified male utilizing the women’s restrooms at a public recreation center on Vancouver Island. Just one hour north of Saanich is Nanaimo, where one mother was threatened with police after reporting that a male had been “watching” her daughter change in the women’s restroom of the Nanaimo Aquatic Centre.

Janayh Wright, a photographer and mother of three, spoke to Reduxx about her own encounter with the man in February of last year.

Wright says that while in the changing room waiting for her young daughter, she witnessed a man wearing a wig and a face mask enter the women’s facility and proceeded to walk over to the shower area. Wright says he did not have a towel or pool bag, and gave no indication that he was getting changed or going swimming. He then returned and entered the stall next to the one Wright’s daughter was changing in.

Wright then witnessed the man try to peer under the stall divider and into the cubical her daughter was using. She immediately confronted him as he exited, but the man simply responded that he identified as female and that it was his “human right to be in the women’s changing room.”


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Aren't you glad Trump won?
1 posted on 12/01/2024 12:21:44 PM PST by Morgana
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To: Morgana
There's Canada...

Then there's British Columbia. That's where they keep the crazys.

2 posted on 12/01/2024 12:25:45 PM PST by billorites (freepo ergo sum)
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To: Morgana
the facility “welcomes and celebrates diversity.” PERVERSITY...
3 posted on 12/01/2024 12:26:33 PM PST by Jim W N (MAGA by restoring the Gospel of the Grace of Christ (Jude 3) and our Free Constitutional Republic!)
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To: billorites

The whole country seems absolutely bat shit crazy.


4 posted on 12/01/2024 12:27:35 PM PST by military cop (I carry a .45....cause they don't make a .46....)
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To: Morgana

Surprised they didn’t arrest her an send her to the gulag.


5 posted on 12/01/2024 12:29:46 PM PST by E. Pluribus Unum (The worst thing about censorship is █████ ██ ████ ████ ████ █ ███████ ████. FJB.)
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To: Morgana

Guys are stronger than women, but how many women would it take to hold a guy like this still while another flashes a scalpel about?


6 posted on 12/01/2024 12:29:59 PM PST by bigbob (Yes. We ARE going back!)
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To: Morgana

yeah it’s real easy to lose your job these days.


7 posted on 12/01/2024 12:30:33 PM PST by Strict9
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To: Morgana

I used to love visiting Canada. They’ve certainly simplified any decisions I make about vacationing. The skin crawls.


8 posted on 12/01/2024 12:31:12 PM PST by mairdie (GreenwichVillage ArmyPoet: https://www.iment.com/maida/family/father/oldsoldiersdrums/frontcover.htm)
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To: Morgana

Boiled down it is a communist government dictating and demonstrating the penalty of refusing to go along with their unwanted policies.

“Make and example of them”

...and yes, I hope Trump will be able to positively affect Canada’s government and get the boot lifted and Trudeau voted out of office.


9 posted on 12/01/2024 12:34:38 PM PST by WeaslesRippedMyFlesh
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To: billorites
Then there's British Columbia.

Just across the border from Washington state.

10 posted on 12/01/2024 12:35:29 PM PST by E. Pluribus Unum (The worst thing about censorship is █████ ██ ████ ████ ████ █ ███████ ████. FJB.)
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To: billorites

This is Vancouver Island. In the rest of BC, ya might get your ticket punched for something like this.


11 posted on 12/01/2024 12:35:59 PM PST by gundog (It was a bright cold day in April, and the clocks were striking thirteen. )
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To: E. Pluribus Unum

“Surprised they didn’t arrest her an send her to the gulag.”

They’ll send her to the re-education classes first. Then, if she doesn’t get her head right, it’s off to the gulag.


12 posted on 12/01/2024 12:37:47 PM PST by ProtectOurFreedom (Republicans are the party that says ‘Government doesn’t work.’ Then they get elected and prove it.)
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To: Jim W N

Predators


13 posted on 12/01/2024 12:37:50 PM PST by Gene Eric
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To: Gene Eric
Predators

That too...

14 posted on 12/01/2024 12:40:54 PM PST by Jim W N (MAGA by restoring the Gospel of the Grace of Christ (Jude 3) and our Free Constitutional Republic!)
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To: Morgana

The Left’s definition of Inclusive doesn’t include normal people just FREAKS


15 posted on 12/01/2024 12:41:13 PM PST by butlerweave
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To: billorites

“ Then there’s British Columbia. That’s where they keep the crazys. “

Last time I was in Saanich it was a liberal sinkhole.


16 posted on 12/01/2024 12:42:31 PM PST by gymbeau (I refuse to be anonymous. I am THEnonymous.)
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To: mairdie
I used to love visiting Canada. They’ve certainly simplified any decisions I make about vacationing

I have cousins and family spread around Ontario. We would visit every summer to their lake houses, Toronto, Montreal, Gaspe, etc... It was similar to the USA, but still quite different. Like visiting the English or French countryside.

There is no "Canadian character" any longer. I've watched it steadily turn into a globalist, post-modern, neo-marxist, plastic hell-hole. Visit Niagara on a summer day and all you say are South Asians and the Muslim hajib. Trudeau and his Karen Administration run on printed money and debt, overlain with cheap woke slogans. Canadians are getting visibly poorer.

17 posted on 12/01/2024 12:44:32 PM PST by PGR88
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To: Morgana

Diversity now means pedophilia. This is where liberalism, political correctness, and wokeness leads.


18 posted on 12/01/2024 12:45:27 PM PST by Telepathic Intruder
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To: Morgana

How come women are never seen in men’s rooms anywhere? It’s just the guy trannies that are pushing this.


19 posted on 12/01/2024 12:47:55 PM PST by pfflier
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To: Morgana

No rights are absolute. For example, a citizen has the right to vote, but not if that citizen is six years old.

There is one exception to that rule. A pervert’s rights are absolute. He can go and do whatever he wishes. All in the name of “inclusion”.


20 posted on 12/01/2024 12:50:47 PM PST by Leaning Right (It’s morning in America. Again.)
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