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9 Thing You Should NEVER Say to Your Partner
Good Housekeeping ^ | August 3, 2024 | Marisa Lascala

Posted on 08/03/2024 8:16:29 PM PDT by DoodleBob

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To: DoodleBob

An article written by a woman, for a woman’s magazine, which only quotes other women. Halfway through this I began to get the feeling that something was off and in going back to check, discovered the “dripping with estrogen” effect was due to an entirely woman’s point of view. I’m wondering why the original poster felt the need to post this on a board predominantly read by men.


42 posted on 08/03/2024 9:14:35 PM PDT by clive bitterman
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To: Reno89519

Very.


43 posted on 08/03/2024 9:15:24 PM PDT by No name given ( Anonymous is who you’ll know me as)
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To: DoodleBob

“Ending an argument with the ‘D-word’ can stop your partner in their tracks,”

Dishes.


44 posted on 08/03/2024 9:17:18 PM PDT by Redcitizen
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To: DoodleBob

10. The lab report is positive.


45 posted on 08/03/2024 9:17:21 PM PDT by central_va (I won't be reconstructed and I do not give a damn...)
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To: Responsibility2nd

There appears to be merit in what you say. We seldom argue, but when we do, one side or the other just shuts up. It’s hard to have an argument if you are the only one speaking. It works for us, and today is our 56th anniversary.


46 posted on 08/03/2024 9:23:07 PM PDT by mouske
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To: Leaning Right

In high school, I once gained a collection of 8-track tapes after a breakup, but then I lost them in the next breakup. :-(


47 posted on 08/03/2024 9:23:57 PM PDT by Tired of Taxes
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To: DoodleBob
10. "No, your butt makes those pants look big."

"Calm down, you're overreacting."

Babylon Bee: Behavioral Scientists Now Believe Feminists Are Always Angry Because They Don't Have A Man To Tell Them To Calm Down

48 posted on 08/03/2024 9:25:25 PM PDT by KarlInOhio (7/13/2024:The day the Democrats and their SA chose assassination as their primary political tool.)
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To: clive bitterman

To each his own.

I posted it because it is a fruitful article.

Men AND women can benefit from staying far from words that cut.

The almost 50 posts on this thread come from men and women, offering insights and commentary that educate fellow FReepers.


49 posted on 08/03/2024 9:26:15 PM PDT by DoodleBob (Gravity's waiting period is about 9.8 m/s²)
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To: Kenny Bania

I find it hard to believe there are so many thin skinned crybabies. Everything mentioned here so far should be forgotten by the next morning.

The real dangerous things you should never say:

#1 I would leave you if I knew where to go.....or any other version of “leave you”.

My mother, when I was really mad and threatening to do bad things for revenge, always said the same thing...”Don’t burn your bridges behind you.”

Excellent advice. Tere are certain things that you can destroy that can never be replaced. Threatening to leave, divorce, or similar acts burn a bridge that you will never replace.

#2 Threats. “If you break your ....whatever I am not going to nurse you. I’ll put you in a nursing home.”.

There are other examples, but you should get the point Each of the above is a definite threat to end the relationship. Threats are sure death to a relationship.

You may still live in the same house after a serious threat, but remember a house is not a home. The romance is ended.


50 posted on 08/03/2024 9:31:03 PM PDT by old curmudgeon (There is no situation so bad that the government can not make worse)
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To: DoodleBob

I get a regular dose of 9, 7, 4 and 1


51 posted on 08/03/2024 9:34:53 PM PDT by Sequoyah101 (More important than why there was nobody protecting the AGR roof, how did Crooks know that?)
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To: DoodleBob

“Wake up. I can’t sleep.”

“What are you thinking?”

“Where is this relationship going?”

https://search.brave.com/search?q=whose+line+but+not+your+partner


52 posted on 08/03/2024 9:46:24 PM PDT by SunkenCiv (Putin should skip ahead to where he kills himself in the bunker.)
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To: DoodleBob
words that cut

Actions that cut, or inactions, are 1,000 times worse than any air cuts. Few relationships end over ill formed audio.

53 posted on 08/03/2024 9:47:33 PM PDT by Reeses
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To: DoodleBob

Bump


54 posted on 08/03/2024 9:49:34 PM PDT by Az Joe (Live free or die)
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To: DoodleBob

How about:

Didn’t your hair used to be darker?

wy69


55 posted on 08/03/2024 9:54:11 PM PDT by whitney69
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To: DoodleBob

Never say what this song says:   "The Thrill Is Gone" - B. B. King     (song link)

56 posted on 08/03/2024 10:06:09 PM PDT by Songcraft
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To: cdcdawg

I always say, “Don’t get nervous.”


57 posted on 08/03/2024 10:23:03 PM PDT by taterjay
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To: mmichaels1970

Thats because in general, women run on feelz, men run on logic.

They believe they don’t have to justify feelings so whatever they do when running on feelings is ok and not able to be criticized.

Combine that with the fact most don’t feel they ought to be accountable or responsible for what they do in their dealings with men in their lives, and generally don’t want to have to live under the same relationship rules they demand men live under...


58 posted on 08/03/2024 10:24:37 PM PDT by Secret Agent Man (Gone Galt; not averse to Going Bronson.)
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To: Secret Agent Man

Yeah. Girls are icky and weird but still make me me feel inadequate, in a logical way, of course.


59 posted on 08/03/2024 10:27:40 PM PDT by Fuzz
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To: DoodleBob

Don’t ask how soon dinner will be ready while she is still mowing the lawn.


60 posted on 08/03/2024 10:34:54 PM PDT by tired&retired (Blessings )
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