Found this while packing

[CMS]

my wife bought this a while back and it was put up. I found it today.

i compleley broke down

[Jonty30]

I know. You had a moment and you didn’t know. I know you feel guilty about that. All I’m saying is that she felt safe enough to exchange disagreeable words with you. Some women wouldn’t have done that with their husbands, because they don’t feel safe to do so.

You can take comfort in that there will come a day when you can issue that apology personally.

[21twelve]

“I’d trade ANYTHING in my life to include my life to tell her I’m sorry and I love her.”

Yes - you were meant to find that poem. And maybe try to understand why now? And your quote above? She no doubt has said the same thing. Forgive her. Forgive yourself.

[Kathy in Alaska]

I think you are right.

[Vendome]

Uhmmm....Wow...

[waterhill]

Uh, yeah..

[Ueriah]

I’m sorry you had to experience such a loss at such a young age.

Grief is not easy. I hope you are able to find some comfort this Easter.

[Ezekiel]

"I found it today."

i.e. the day before Easter.

...When tomorrow starts without me.
Don’t think we’re far apart.
For every time you think of me.
I’m right there in your heart.

[Openurmind]

Were you always sorry after an argument? Then she already knew you would be sorry and all would be ok tomorrow before she even went to sleep. :)

[MayflowerMadam]

That was on the bulletin for my dear friend’s funeral in 2001. It’s hard to read (for me).

[Lean-Right]

She knows.

[trebb]

True love never dies...God Bless

[M Kehoe]

Bttt.

5.56mm

[CMS]

.When tomorrow starts without me. Don’t think we’re far apart. For every time you think of me. I’m right there in your heart.

that was beautiful

[CMS]

Absolutely i was sorry. This was the first arguement in 16 years that we went to bed still mad. All other arguments were solved before sleep

thats what kills me on this one. it wasn't resolved and our last words were hateful.

I have to live with remebering our last words being her calling me a bastard and me calling her a b***H.

those last words...... id give my soul to take my words back

[yldstrk]

Our last words were her calling me a b**tard and me calling her a b***h.
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Keep in mind people, this kind of exchange never helps anything and it can permanently damage the relationship.

[MomwithHope]

Whatever you do don’t give up your soul. She knows you regret it. My Dad passed suddenly and our last words on the phone were not pleasant. However our faith has healed any disagreement. I would say strive now to be worthy to join her in heaven. That is for eternity, not just the years we live our lives here. Use this to strengthen your faith.

[CMS]

i have to carry those words with me for the rest of my life. it is soul crushing to remember.

id trade my soul to apologize and tell her i love her just more time

[MomwithHope]

PS - no accident you found this when you did. Happy Easter, I recommend you celebrate with others in church. Easter joy will fill your heart.

[drwoof]

“Forgive her. Forgive yourself.”

Excellent advice. Your life with her was not defined by that moment. Imagine instead the two of you making up, as you no doubt would have; having a heart to heart wherein you both apologize and reconnect. Honor her —and your love for each other— in that way, and don’t let the darker forces of our spiritual world mislead you.

[yldstrk]

It was mutual. I am sure she is regretting it too from heaven and sent you the message she sent to apologize. You and she are in the same boat, but she is reaching out to you to assure you that she didn’t mean for that to be her last communication. She loves you too. I have no doubt of what I am saying.

I mainly put the message on here for others. (And for you in your next relationship.) I spent a lot of my legal time as divorce lawyer.