Posted on 09/02/2022 4:14:28 AM PDT by MtnClimber
How can you reach people with closed minds? Try these.
Have you ever talked with a liberal and made a comment that shuts him down completely? "Trump sure is getting a raw deal with that FBI raid, isn't he?" His eyes go glassy, and he starts to look for the exit. Or he repeats something automatically, like "Trump deserves anything he gets."
This "orange man bad" mantra is often called "Trump Derangement Syndrome." It effectively shuts down all communication between disagreeing sides and prevents any kind of meaningful dialogue, even between good friends or family members. Even intelligent people who are suffering greatly from Biden/liberal policies, through loss of jobs, high gas and oil prices, rapid inflation, high taxes, or curbs on religious freedoms, won't be able to change their minds and consider voting for a conservative or moderate candidate once he is somehow linked to Donald Trump.
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So how can you reach people with closed minds?
1. Be from within their tribe. Start by reinforcing what the two of you have in common — you may have lived in the same city, had similar jobs or similar backgrounds.
2. Get permission to discuss — "Would you like to tell me about your views on global warming?" This makes the idea of a discussion non-threatening.
3. Resolve never to argue or raise your voice. Don't threaten or invoke fear. If things start to become even a little heated, then withdraw — "we can always discuss this later" or "now may not be the time to discuss this." Getting into a heated argument is going to activate the liberal's lizard brain and end logical reasoning.
4. Start small. Don't try to convince the liberal that Donald Trump is the next George Washington. Go for a smaller issue
(Excerpt) Read more at americanthinker.com ...
That won’t work either.
I took a foray over to DU and they were discussing the new jabs and were falling over themselves about getting in line for the latest jab and counting the days until they can get their next booster.
One was commenting that he/she was going to Disney and the first thing being packed was an N95 mask.
They live in absolute terror of Covid.
You cannot reason with a mind so in bondage to fear and lies.
I start with asking a LEFTist if they are pro-democracy. That is an easy one and they cannot resist proclaiming their dedication to it! [Opening the trap door]
I then ask them the leading question about the definition of democracy being the people voting? [Baiting the trap]
When that is agreed to, I ask why then are these LEFT shibboleths like statues, monuments, names etc. NOT VOTED upon before destruction? Is that not ANTI-democracy? [Snap, the trap is sprung]
= = =
Of course it is never that simple nor does the LEFTist admit anything. By the time I get a few words into the 3rd query, there is an urgent need to leave.
One thing I’d love to propose for any debate between LEFT and non-LEFT is a small limit to language. If the LEFT is going to insist on that pronoun WEAPON, let us respond with our own weapon of language; a buzzer to sound with each use of that perennial of LEFTist vocabulary, the ‘_ist’ modifier.
Imagine that, used to death, duo of “... racist, sexist ...” reduced to “... raciBZZZ, sexiBZZZ ...”! the speaker will be tongue-tied and near inarticulate. Probably sound like Pennsylvania’s John Fetterman (’D’onkey Party)!
Can’t be done. It is a brainwashing apprenticeship from birth.
Both motivations are important. Whittaker Chambers recounted the now-archetypal story of the young woman, the daughter of a Western diplomat, in Moscow during the blood purges: "One night she heard the screams." In many cases, the emotional motivation is a sense of betrayal by a corrupt elite. Hypocrisy is epidemic and ridicule is effective.
But again and again, when former leftists and especially the intellectuals write of their long march to the right, the motivation is the slow realization that the party line is a lie. People with intellectual and moral integrity reach the point at which they rebel against the discipline of constant lying. The morally corrupt remain leftists.
That is an important point for us to remember when we are talking to someone on the other side. He may be a fully conscious, vicious, malignant liar who revels in his resentment and hate and who views us with contempt if we are polite. But am I sure of that? There is the possibility that he might be someone who can be redpilled. But it's even trickier in any public forum (or if I want to remain on speaking terms with a neighbor or coworker). The opposing speaker may be a contemptible liar upon whom we are prepared to unload. But the real target is the audience. The liar will be presenting himself as the reasonable person in the room, lying with a smile and telling the audience what it wants to hear. If a conservative just tries to blowtorch him, the conservative usually comes across as a disagreeable loon. The trick is how to expose the liar before the audience in a way that moves the audience our way.
“Would you think that you are likely wasting that portion of your life with no chance of curing a disturbed individual?”
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Yes. The problem is that people watching ABC, CBS, NBC, CNBC, & CNN don’t know what we know. For instance, they don’t know illegals are pouring across the border.
Allow my additions please;
11. Punji Stick trap
12. Flame thrower
13. Defenestration [above 5th floor] - Ravil Maganov, 67, chief executive of Russian private oil giant Lukoil — and a Ukraine war opponent — died in a six-story plunge from a Moscow hospital window. [09/01/22]
They’re not gonna change my mind and I have no interest in even attempting to change their’s. They think the way they do because they have a mental deficiency, so any further discussion is merely a waste of time and last time I looked in a mirror, I ain’t got that much left.
Good points but I don’t care anymore what they think. I control what I can in my circle of influence and I don’t have the patience anymore nor do I or have I ever cared about an ignorant commie, especially if they are still moronic with their beliefs after the last 6 years.
14. 9mm parabellum
“Getting into a heated argument is going to activate the liberal’s lizard brain and end logical reasoning. “
LOL! As if they had two brain cells to rub together anyway. The most you will get out of them are talking points from the View or CNN.
I think it is more like 26%, because that is the number that consistently approve of what the DemocRats do and hate Republicans no matter what.
“Would you like to tell me about your views on global warming?” This makes the idea of a discussion non-threatening.
too artificial
nobody talks like that
if someone said that to me i would be wary
yep
just like a drug addict or alcoholic
unfortunately they usually have to hit rock bottom
before they realize they have to change their behavior
14. Willie Peter...
They have F 15s. The most realistic tactic is guerilla hit and run, especially in major cities. So how do you set up artillery for that?
Waste of time.
You can’t persuade with reason a person who did not arrive at their position without reason.
There is only one way. You had better be willing to use it on them before they use it on you.
I can’t resist or stop.
Who wrote this codswallop?
The guy that wrote this article is still operating under the reality from 20, 30 years ago. He has no idea what the modern leftist is like.
There are 350 million people in the USA. the AF has 2,000 combat aircraft. The is 1 aircraft per 175,000 citizens. There is not enough Army and Af to enforce marsh law on NJ let alone THE ENTIRE USA.
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