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Coronavirus etiquette: How to tell people you don’t want to shake hands?
Tampa Bay News ^ | 3/9/20 | Elaine Swann

Posted on 03/09/2020 7:09:44 PM PDT by hapnHal

Does coronavirus make it okay to leave people hanging when they offer a handshake?

Coronavirus cases have been confirmed in the Tampa Bay area.

Handshakes can spread germs, and with the continued spread of the new coronavirus, not to mention flu season, people may be dreading social situations that normally include a hearty handshake. In Florida, 12 residents had tested positive for COVID-19 as of Monday afternoon.

Etiquette expert Elaine Swann says that in the modern era, handshakes remain an important part of business deals and socializing. Tampa Bay career and executive coach Dianne M. Kipp said she even has an exercise she does with clients that involves handshakes as a way to move past disagreements and strengthen bonds at work.

“Shaking hands is still normally the proper way to greet someone in 2020,” Swann said. “However, it’s perfectly fine to hold off on shaking hands right now.”How do you turn down a handshake without making it awkward? Swann said it’s all about honesty and body language.

“Right now, I’m not shaking hands, but it’s very nice to meet you,” she advises telling people.She recommends signaling by clasping your own hands together, either in front or behind you, in anticipation of an unwanted hand. She also says that nodding politely can show you’re still being cordial and are actually excited to meet someone.If you stick out your hand and get left hanging, she says don’t take it personal and don’t linger on it.

“Bring up a new topic, and keep the conversation moving forward."A 2014 study showed fist bumps can spread 20 times fewer germs than a handshake, but Swann says you should never offer a fist, or an elbow bump, when the other person offered an open hand.

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To: BenLurkin

Love it. That will be my fallback move.


21 posted on 03/09/2020 7:50:47 PM PDT by TianaHighrider (God bless President Trump)
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To: BenLurkin

Yes - LOL Ben!


22 posted on 03/09/2020 7:50:57 PM PDT by 1FreeAmerican
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To: hapnHal

Use the Vulcan Peace Sign preemptively.


23 posted on 03/09/2020 7:54:47 PM PDT by Ingtar (Biden needs 39.79%, Sanders 42.05% of unallocated delegates. 44 still not allocated (past due))
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To: campaignPete R-CT

Kiss your granddaughter on the mouth and fantasize your wife is your sister to achieve arousal ? Ick.


24 posted on 03/09/2020 7:55:24 PM PDT by fieldmarshaldj (Dear Mr. Kotter, #Epsteindidntkillhimself - Signed, Epstein's Mother)
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To: hapnHal

Just tear up some paper.


25 posted on 03/09/2020 7:55:29 PM PDT by real saxophonist (Norovirus survivor; Hey Coronavirus - Bring it!)
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To: hapnHal

Say “No offense but I’ll pass”.


26 posted on 03/09/2020 7:55:42 PM PDT by Brooklyn Attitude (It's no coincidence that the DemocRAT/media complex always sides with America's enemies.)
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To: hapnHal

Jazz hands.


27 posted on 03/09/2020 7:55:46 PM PDT by GnuThere
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To: NonValueAdded
I just grimaced and said, "I'd rather not, I'm minimizing contact, what with that virus that's going around. Another day. OK?"

He just nodded and said "Good point."

28 posted on 03/09/2020 8:00:29 PM PDT by null and void (By the pricking of my lungs, Something wicked this way comes ...)
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To: Raycpa
Overall death rate from flu is likely to be reduced

Collateral damage, if you're a flu bug...

29 posted on 03/09/2020 8:01:21 PM PDT by null and void (By the pricking of my lungs, Something wicked this way comes ...)
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To: cloudmountain

What? You don’t carry a small bottle of hand sanitizer in your pocket???


30 posted on 03/09/2020 8:02:33 PM PDT by null and void (By the pricking of my lungs, Something wicked this way comes ...)
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To: hapnHal

I just tell people I gave up hand shaking for Lent. Seems to work...


31 posted on 03/09/2020 8:02:39 PM PDT by BelleAl (Proud to be a member of the party of NO! NO more deficit spending and government control!)
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To: hapnHal; Gamecock; SaveFerris; PROCON; Army Air Corps; KC_Lion; Rebelbase; redshawk
"I'm sorry, I can't shake your hand."


32 posted on 03/09/2020 8:06:09 PM PDT by Larry Lucido
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To: catnipman

I loathe shaking hands and always have, but I am an old woman who came of age at a time in which shaking hands was something that men and not women did.


33 posted on 03/09/2020 8:08:43 PM PDT by Bigg Red (WWG1WGA)
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To: Gamecock; SaveFerris; dp0622
Maybe we can kiss instead.


34 posted on 03/09/2020 8:09:27 PM PDT by Larry Lucido
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To: NonValueAdded

Never excuse. Never explain. “I don’t shake hands.” Is enough. You do not owe anyone your personal reasons for declining virus or no virus.


35 posted on 03/09/2020 8:09:28 PM PDT by lastchance (Credo.)
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To: hapnHal

I stopped shaking hands several years ago....when diagnosed with an autoimmune disease....and I would go to political and other meetings with lots of glad handers...and I learned to smile, offer my elbow, curtsy, tell them I wasn’t feeling well, or that I only shake when I’m agreeing to a “contract”....even give hugs....but NOT shake hands. Some people were weird about it....most understand, and go along. I can see how people can feel unsure about refusing to shake hands....I was all alone in my refusal and it was a bit nerve wracking....NOW it should be easier.


36 posted on 03/09/2020 8:11:13 PM PDT by goodnesswins (Trump is as good a dictator as he is a racist.....)
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To: untenured
The two hands I shook over the past week happened to belong to Chinese men...it didn't strike me until later that I shouldn't be shaking hands with anyone just now (and only this moment that one of them might well have traveled to China lately.)

It's very hard to break ingrained habits. (Try not touching your face during, say, a half-hour trip to the grocery store.)
37 posted on 03/09/2020 8:15:01 PM PDT by Jamestown1630 ("A Republic, if you can keep it.")
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To: BenLurkin

,,,while hoping on
One Foot!
Preferably Yourown.


38 posted on 03/09/2020 8:16:36 PM PDT by Big Red Badger (Despised by the Despicable!)
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To: hapnHal

Fist bump.


39 posted on 03/09/2020 8:17:31 PM PDT by meyer (WWG1WGA, MAGA!)
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To: hapnHal

The step which Trump and congress can take to show me that they aren’t delaying test kits and vaccines in order to reduce the number of Social Security beneficiaries would be to grubstake development of a couple of the vaccines which are just starting into human testing. The tests will take a year, and the pharma companies won’t be certain of a return on their investment until testing is completed. It would speed the process up by something like 6 months if the required doses were ready as soon as testing is complete.

At least one of the vaccines is merely a revision of a vaccine developed and approved for the similar SARS virus.


40 posted on 03/09/2020 8:19:08 PM PDT by nagant
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