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Ask Amy: He wants to date me, but he’s big into Black Lives Matter
San Jose Mercury News ^ | 11/13 | AMY DICKINSON

Posted on 11/16/2017 11:18:52 PM PST by nickcarraway

DEAR AMY: There’s a guy who has made it known that he likes me. I am interested in him, too, but here’s my dilemma: We are of different ethnicities (I’m white). This is not an issue for me, but he has strong beliefs in the “Black Lives Matter” movement. In the city where we live he hangs mainly with residents who are mostly (their words) brown and black people.

I am already trying to figure out where I fit in. Some people have embraced me, while others play the reverse racism card. How do I know what he feels for me is genuine when he espouses views that openly favor people of color?

I am already trying to figure out where I fit in. Some people have embraced me, while others play the reverse racism card. How do I know what he feels for me is genuine when he espouses views that openly favor people of color?

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To: nickcarraway

Dear Amy,

Are you stupid?


41 posted on 11/17/2017 4:54:28 AM PST by bmwcyle (People who do not study history are destine to believe really ignorant statements.)
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To: nickcarraway

>> and the importance of acknowledging the reality and challenges of contemporary life for people of color.

Pales in comparison to the challenges experienced by “people of color” in past generations. Look up First World Problems.

According to some eternally angry sorts, having two parents getting married and raising a kid is racist.


42 posted on 11/17/2017 4:55:28 AM PST by a fool in paradise (Did Barack Obama denounce Communism and dictatorships when he visited Cuba as a puppet of the State?)
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To: nickcarraway

Before this girl decides she needs to know what she is getting into. First the sex will be great if you like it rough. He feels entitled to sex with you as part of his reparations, and to refuse his advances is racism. The goal is to use you as a trophy and to knock you up. He likely hates white people and will beat you if you make him angry. He may want to share you with his friends and of course to refuse is racism. When he becomes bored or finds his next white victim he will leave you alone and pregnant. Enjoy.


43 posted on 11/17/2017 4:56:52 AM PST by Brooklyn Attitude (The first step in ending the war on white people is to recognize it exists.)
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To: Yaelle
You can't even get the facts straight about these cases.

There was no "police brutality" in the NYC incident at all. No criminal charges were filed in New York, no Federal charges were filed after a U.S. Justice Department investigation (in the Obama administration, mind you), and there weren't even any administrative charges brought by the NYPD>

44 posted on 11/17/2017 5:24:38 AM PST by Alberta's Child ("Tell them to stand!" -- President Trump, 9/23/2017)
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To: nickcarraway
into Black Lives Matter

This is a clue.

The clue is that the fellow is not a thinker. You take it from there.

45 posted on 11/17/2017 5:36:22 AM PST by MosesKnows (Love Many, Trust Few, and Always Paddle Your Own Canoe)
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To: nickcarraway

Somebody needs to give her ‘The Talk’ ...


46 posted on 11/17/2017 5:40:52 AM PST by 11th_VA (Kudos to President Trump for denouncing ALL violence)
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To: nickcarraway

That song was originally by Fleetwood Mac.

I had to look that one up! I did not know that.


47 posted on 11/17/2017 6:02:01 AM PST by FrogMom (The education system: The ongoing fundamental transformation.)
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To: Yaelle
With civilized behavior there isn’t enough institutinal white on black racism to make life for a civilized black person anywhere near as hard as for someone with a broken arm, say.

Permission to steal this line?

Working on a bumper sticker. ;o)

48 posted on 11/17/2017 6:36:06 AM PST by super7man (Madam Defarge, knitting, knitting, always knitting)
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To: Mark17

Of COURSE everyone should be hockey fans!!

(I always wanted long black hair myself. I have blonde hair but when I was little I dreamed of coal black hair because blonde was so drab and colorless to me, ha)


49 posted on 11/17/2017 6:56:30 AM PST by Yaelle
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To: nickcarraway

Dear child,
When he says he wants to “date” you, it does NOT mean that he wants to court you and hopefully marry you.

It means he wants to get at you and bang da $@#! Out of you - til you become old news and he moves on to the next victim.

Wake up. Smell the coffee, girl.


50 posted on 11/17/2017 7:00:00 AM PST by joethedrummer
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To: Boomer

I’m getting hit for adding my exceptions because I am sure of all the “popular” police brutality cases lately, maybe one or two were legit. But most of the most famous ones WERE LIES so that their own behavior led to justified force upon them. My point isn’t the exceptions, and I want to be fair, but usually it is indeed poor civilization that leads to rougher treatment by LE.

So I don’t remember every detail with the guy selling cigs. I know the N Charleston one was handled perfectly: cops shooting an unarmed fleeing guy on foot -and the cop was arrested and serving/served time for murder in the first. But these are the exceptions. BLM was based on false narratives.


51 posted on 11/17/2017 7:00:37 AM PST by Yaelle
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To: super7man

Thanks for liking it. It is really comparable.

If you take chosen uncivilized behavior out of the equation, life is easier as a black person than as a person with a broken arm.


52 posted on 11/17/2017 7:01:56 AM PST by Yaelle
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To: DIRTYSECRET

Dear White Lady; here is what he’s thinking and telling his friends; “I’s gots mysef a white B*&%$, she’s gonna b payin my bills. She be havin a nice crib and eats, she be so dumb, I be playin here like a fiddle. She be getin a disease from me, ha ha whitey”


53 posted on 11/17/2017 7:47:16 AM PST by krug
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To: nickcarraway

It’s not the fact that he’s black, it’s the fact that he’s an anti-American Leftist kook.

Run, run away!!


54 posted on 11/17/2017 7:48:41 AM PST by Buckeye McFrog
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To: nickcarraway

Turn and run, that man is a straight up r@cist


55 posted on 11/17/2017 8:24:23 AM PST by Steven Tyler
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To: nickcarraway
Image result for run for your life gif

56 posted on 11/17/2017 9:01:36 AM PST by Responsibility2nd
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To: GrandJediMasterYoda

It reminds me of another such family, where a half black kid is raised by a white family and given every opportunity available plus some reserved for blacks only.

Then he grew up to write a book about his father (who abandoned him and he never knew) and to hate white people.

Odd, isn’t it? I played ball with tons of blacks, whites, and hispanics, most all of them hung out together and I hardly knew what color they were, my blonde blue-eyed granddaughter’s best friend is a black girl, they are always together, if the advocacy groups would STFU our country would be non-racial.


57 posted on 11/17/2017 9:43:55 AM PST by nobamanomore
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To: Yaelle

Ah, okay, I remember the N. Charlston event now that you gave those details. Yeah; that was straight up murder by the cop. I have no idea what he was thinking by shooting that poor guy in the back as he was running away. All of that would have shown up in the autopsy even if there was no video but the video made it easy to convict and put it to bed fast.


58 posted on 11/17/2017 9:59:41 AM PST by Boomer (TisOK2BWhite)
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To: nickcarraway

Dear Diversity Diva,

After he takes you for everything you have,
see you on Judge Judy. Dress modestly for the cameras.


59 posted on 11/17/2017 12:38:39 PM PST by sparklite2 (-)
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To: Bullish

Run. All 300 pounds of you.


Threadwin.


60 posted on 11/17/2017 12:40:32 PM PST by sparklite2 (-)
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