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57 Things I Need You to Stop Doing to the Women You Work With
Esquire ^ | October 16, 2017 | Kaitlin Menza

Posted on 10/18/2017 3:45:40 AM PDT by C19fan

A female friend of mine went on a foreign business trip early in her career with two colleagues who were both male, married, and senior to her at the company. After dinner with a client, hours after she had retired to her room, around 1 a.m., one of her coworkers knocked on her hotel door and asked if she would come out for a drink. She declined. After another hour, around 2 a.m., the other coworker knocked on her door. When she opened it a crack, he tried to push his way into her room. She fought him off. All three still work together.

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TOPICS: Society
KEYWORDS: men; women
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To: TalonDJ

I understand and have overheard men’s locker room talk to each other. That’s not what I was referring to.

It’s the comments about physical appearance and I gave some examples upthread.


181 posted on 10/18/2017 12:26:16 PM PDT by metmom ( ...fixing our eyes on Jesus, the Author and Perfecter of our faith..)
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To: wardaddy

It wouldn’t work anywhere I’ve been either. And if it did, I’d be outta there.

I’m at work for work.


182 posted on 10/18/2017 12:27:19 PM PDT by metmom ( ...fixing our eyes on Jesus, the Author and Perfecter of our faith..)
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To: Augie
I have one rule for dealing with females in the workplace - maintain a 100% professional bearing at all times. It works most of the time. Except for the crazy ones. Nothing works on the crazy ones.

The crazy ones can't be helped.....

We women don't even like the crazy ones.

183 posted on 10/18/2017 12:28:15 PM PDT by metmom ( ...fixing our eyes on Jesus, the Author and Perfecter of our faith..)
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To: antidisestablishment

But the intend is understood and women are good at picking up on intent.


184 posted on 10/18/2017 12:29:03 PM PDT by metmom ( ...fixing our eyes on Jesus, the Author and Perfecter of our faith..)
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To: central_va

The satisfaction the rest of us not so beautiful women get is that payback is coming.

Age is NOBODY’S friend and I suspect that it’s harder for those really beautiful women to age. Matter of fact, I’ve noticed a tendency that the more beautiful they are, the worse they tend to age. Literally.

And I’ve seen 70 something year olds looking anorexic, sauntering down the beach in a bikini like she was 17 instead of 70.

It about cost me my lunch.


185 posted on 10/18/2017 12:33:03 PM PDT by metmom ( ...fixing our eyes on Jesus, the Author and Perfecter of our faith..)
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To: SauronOfMordor

Well, teen....

That’s the problem in that case.

I don’t expect rational behavior or thought over anyone with that many hormones raging through their bodies.


186 posted on 10/18/2017 12:34:41 PM PDT by metmom ( ...fixing our eyes on Jesus, the Author and Perfecter of our faith..)
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To: Crusher138

We normal, real women think no more highly of those kinds of women than we do of those kinds of men.

They are also abusers and cads.

Matter of fact, that sort of thing has been happening for thousands of years, based on the account in Genesis of Joseph and Potiphar’s wife.


187 posted on 10/18/2017 12:38:00 PM PDT by metmom ( ...fixing our eyes on Jesus, the Author and Perfecter of our faith..)
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To: usmom

You know, I am actually starting to think something is wrong with ME! Apparently every other woman in the world is so irresable that men are constantly throwing themselves at them and just can’t help but make advances. I have been in the workforce with men for 30 years— nothing. Not so much as a glance. Am I that ugly and unappealing? I guess so.
_____________________

There is not a thing wrong with you.

I was very attractive in my younger days.

I controlled whether I received advances or not by my behavior. Where I looked, how I responded to men whether at work or at play.

If I wasn’t interested, the men knew it.

I remember that there was a specialist in our area who had been found to be sexually fondling and abusing a number of women in his practice. My PCP had referred me to this man and I had seen him three or four times. After the scandal broke he asked me whether this man had been a problem for me. I looked at the PCP and said: I am just not the kind of woman that men can abuse.

My PCP looked at me a moment, and said, Yes, that he could see that.


188 posted on 10/18/2017 12:53:43 PM PDT by Chickensoup (Leftists today are speaking as if they plan to commence to commit genocide against conservatives.)
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To: central_va

Yes I know those women exist. I was talking to some girls at work once about going out to bars and they said how they never even take money because guys buy them drinks. I was amazed by this. I have been legal since I was 18 (not 21 like today) and told them no one had EVER bought me a drink. I still can’t figure it out- they claim they just walk in, sit down and guys start sending over drinks. I wish I knew their trick (or had their beauty). I could have saved myself a lot of money over the years! They were just amazed that I actually always bought my own drinks when I went out- they thought all girls had drinks bought for them.


189 posted on 10/18/2017 12:54:52 PM PDT by usmom
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To: Mr. Jeeves
...an ugly Harvey Weinstein, who has the power to give his targeted woman what she wants, can do or say these things with impunity - a handsome Justin Timberlake or Ben Affleck can do or say these things and get a tremendously positive response...whereas Dave from the accounting department will incur a sexual harrassment complaint for saying "Good morning." :)
It's not an even playing field, so it's best for the average (powerless) man to remember he isn't free to say much of anything in Corporate America. Stick to work and adopt the "Mike Pence Policies." Women will come to him if they are interested...

You nailed it. (No pun intended.)

190 posted on 10/18/2017 1:26:58 PM PDT by Albion Wilde (I was not elected to continue a failed system. I was elected to change it. --Donald J. Trump)
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To: central_va

Um... yes, actually, reading facial expressions is a very basic human skill, and when you are making someone uncomfortable, and they are looking at you like “What on earth...” you should be able to recognize it.


191 posted on 10/18/2017 1:28:51 PM PDT by A_perfect_lady
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To: Political Junkie Too

Rule 1: Never go to a therapist who wears a toupee.


192 posted on 10/18/2017 1:33:09 PM PDT by Albion Wilde (I was not elected to continue a failed system. I was elected to change it. --Donald J. Trump)
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To: metmom

I have no problem complimenting a man on his physical appearance at work. or taunting him mildly about something that is ‘off’. I would never do the same to a woman because I don’t want to go visit HR.


193 posted on 10/18/2017 1:36:39 PM PDT by TalonDJ
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To: Rifleman
That wasn’t mean, sugar, that was just the way an adult woman corrects male behaviour that she doesn’t care for.

Did you mean to reply to me?

194 posted on 10/18/2017 1:46:55 PM PDT by A_perfect_lady
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To: C19fan
57 things...huh.

Does that have anything to do with the 57 States?

195 posted on 10/18/2017 1:49:11 PM PDT by Osage Orange (Watch your six.)
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To: Osage Orange

196 posted on 10/18/2017 1:52:53 PM PDT by RightGeek (FUBO and the donkey you rode in on)
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To: metmom

That’s right.

Look at all the foreign women Harvey Weinstein got. He seemed to target foreign women.


197 posted on 10/18/2017 2:22:34 PM PDT by miss marmelstein
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To: C19fan

1 Stop reading esquire magazine. Subscriptions now require revoking your “man card”

This is just B***hsplaining.


198 posted on 10/18/2017 2:25:01 PM PDT by longtermmemmory (VOTE! http://www.senate.gov and http://www.house.gov)
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To: A_perfect_lady

This is ridiculous monkeys communicate non verbally. We are humans. We speak! So let me get this straight if the bitchy looking blonde with permanent dead pan face suddenly smiles at me then I am good to go? She might as have “come f me” message tattoo to her face?


199 posted on 10/18/2017 2:34:34 PM PDT by central_va (I won't be reconstructed and I do not give a damn.)
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To: metmom

I had plenty of short affairs with women overseas and non wanted to come to America. None.


200 posted on 10/18/2017 2:36:07 PM PDT by central_va (I won't be reconstructed and I do not give a damn.)
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