Posted on 10/10/2017 3:15:45 PM PDT by nickcarraway
Following the publication on Tuesday morning of two more exposes detailing sexual assault and harassment allegations against Harvey Weinstein, actress Heather Graham recalls indirectly being propositioned by the studio mogul.
In the early 2000s Harvey Weinstein called me into his office. There was a pile of scripts sitting on his desk. I want to put you in one of my movies, he said and offered to let me choose which one I liked best. Later in the conversation, he mentioned that he had an agreement with his wife. He could sleep with whomever he wanted when he was out of town. I walked out of the meeting feeling uneasy. There was no explicit mention that to star in one of those films I had to sleep with him, but the subtext was there.
A few weeks later, I was asked to do a follow-up meeting at his hotel. I called one of my actress friends to explain my discomfort with the situation, and she offered to come with me. En route, she called me to say she couldnt make it. Not wanting to be at the hotel alone with him, I made up an excuse I had an early morning and would have to postpone. Harvey told me that my actress friend was already at his hotel and that both of them would be very disappointed if I didnt show. I knew he was lying, so I politely and apologetically reiterated that I could no longer come by.
That was the end of that encounter I was never hired for one of his films, and I didnt speak up about my experience. It wasnt until Ashley Judd heroically shared her story a few days ago that I felt ashamed. If I had spoken up a decade ago, would I have saved countless women from the same experience I had or worse?
The question and this is not an excuse is what defines sexual harassment in the workplace? He didnt explicitly offer a trade sex for work even though I knew that was what he was implying. And I hadnt gone to his hotel. I know this is an inner dialogue many women have its part of whats holding so many of us back from sharing our stories. We dont want to be attacked for reading into something that may or may not have been there. We dont want to be looked at as weak for not being able to handle ourselves in a business run by men. We dont want to lose work by being defined as a Difficult Woman. We dont want to be the first or only voice in the room.
My hope is that this moment starts a dialogue on redefining sexual harassment in the workplace and empowers women to speak out when they feel uncomfortable in a situation. I hope that dialogue covers the gray areas where we ask ourselves, Did what I think happen just happen? and that we are no longer shamed into feeling that we should grow a thicker skin, or that our story isnt good enough to count. Im glad the victims are being heard, that powerful voices in the industry are speaking up to say this kind of behavior isnt acceptable anymore, and that a predator is finally facing the consequences it means the world is starting to change for the better.
While I still do feel guilty for not speaking up all those years ago, Im glad for this moment of reckoning. To the countless other women who have experienced the gray areas: I believe you.
Ashley Judd wasn’t heroic. She didn’t mention Harvey once at the women’s march.
Harvey did far worse than was alleged of Trump.
Ashley was more outraged about an airline employee who MAY have made a pass at her.
She’s no hero. Where was the personal risk or sacrifice? She was quiet for decades.
Ashley Judd is no hero
If she was she would have just showed up and flung a bloody tampon at Harvey while screaming about being a naaaasty woman
Rollergirl, oooooooh yeah..!!!
“it means the world is starting to change for the better.”
The world always has better things happening.
She was looking for a pretend role to play and missed a much bigger more important role in real life.
One just has to be alert because they happen all the time.
Next to come is a list of all the women actresses (and possibly young men) who played roles in Weinstein movies and tv shows. The casting couch implications can be very revealing.
This coming from the woman who was more than willing to bed Fat Bastard in Austin Powers 2. Harvey is truly a repellant piece of work and the stories are now going to really start to fly!
I think they made one, maybe two pictures together over 20 years.
Sure, the whole "heroic" thing is overdone. It took her 20 years to do anything about it and she's been playing the big feminist for years, so there's hypocrisy on her part.
But this story only got Harvey because of all the accumulation of evidence. One woman on her own wouldn't have had much of a chance against him.
Weinstein’s problem is that he’s not in a position of power to support abortions they way Bill Clinton was/is. Therefore, they threw him under the buss once that couldn’t contain the truth.
All of these revelations make me wonder how many “underachievers” in Hollywood (talented actors who never seem to make it in the movies) are the ones who refused the casting couch.
I mean it’s not like you killed anyone, added OJ.
WeinSWINE is more befitting of this pig
Heather Graham has slept with everyone.
She is er... popular.
http://www.whosdatedwho.com/dating/heather-graham
Good old Zyklon Ben.
If that screeching, FemiNazi LUNATIC, Ashley Judd comes out smelling like a rose at the end of this, I’m going to jump off a cliff!
People should not get carried away on the fat pig Weinstein thing. Dems must be hiding something really awful behind all the brouhaha over Harvey.
Thread Winning Post!
Harvey’s wife left him over this crap storm he caused.
James Woods!
That’s where she should have stopped looking.
If LUNATIC, Ashley Judd comes out smelling like a rose at the end of this, Im going to jump off a cliff!
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