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Most men just want a woman who's nice
Fox News ^ | 05/11/2017 | Suzanne Venker

Posted on 05/11/2017 10:02:05 PM PDT by BJ1

At the end of the day, most men just want a woman who’s nice. “Nice,” to a man, means being soft, gentle and kind. It means asking your husband how his day was and really listening. It means doing something nice for him with no expectation of getting something in return—you know, the way you did when you were dating. But wait a minute, you say. Don’t women want the same thing? A man who’s nice? Not exactly. Most women do want a man who’s kind, but that’s not the same as nice. Ask any guy you know, and he’ll likely give you example after example of women they know who said they wanted a nice guy but in reality wanted a bad boy. That’s because just as most men are attracted to femininity, or softness, most women are attracted to masculinity. And masculinity is hard. Gruff. Take charge. So, where are you on the nice scale? If you’re not an inherently nice person, believe me I get it. I think I’m pretty nice, but that isn’t the first word one would think of to describe me. The truth is, I’ve had to exercise my nice muscle. Now Playing Author shares marriage advice for 'alpha females' Never autoplay videos I’ve had to learn how to be be nice. A lot of women think they’re nice because they act nice. But acting nice and being nice are two different things. Being nice means you think of others before you think about yourself. (And yes, there’s such thing as being too nice and putting your needs last; but I’m not talking about that.) It means you’re attune to the needs of others and incorporate those needs into the equation. Most husbands have no desire to lord over their wives....

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KEYWORDS: genderwars; husbands; husbandstore; kindness; marriage; men; mgtow; wifestore; wives; women
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To: metmom

Thank you! You know, many, many, many years ago when I wrote that down, I may have been listening to him on the radio when he quoted that from another source... “John Eldredge” sounds familiar.

Thanks again. I’ll properly ascribe from now on.


141 posted on 05/12/2017 12:39:04 PM PDT by HeadOn (Please tell the Democrats it's nap time, and the Republicans to report to the Principal's office.)
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To: vetvetdoug
Very few expressed happiness in the basic pleasures in life like fishing and hunting.

You are such a guy.

For some people, hunting and fishing are not all that pleasurable.

Women don't think like men, and killing and gutting an animal is not at the top of most women's bucket list.

I mean, give me the meat already taken care of and I'll make a great meal out of it, but I prefer it processed beforehand thank you.

That's one of the things you do with the guys.

142 posted on 05/12/2017 12:43:27 PM PDT by metmom ( ...fixing our eyes on Jesus, the Author and Perfecter of our faith...)
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To: PLMerite

Well, then it was latent or they hid it very well, because I cannot even begin to imagine doing something that stupid.


143 posted on 05/12/2017 12:45:14 PM PDT by metmom ( ...fixing our eyes on Jesus, the Author and Perfecter of our faith...)
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To: metmom

metmom you can’t just take the comment in isolation. It was my response to another female Freeper’s hostile comment to men going to Thailand or Russia for brides. These women are not hung up about a man’s looks and they will treat him well. As a bonus there a plenty of thin, young and attractive women to choose from. It’s a buyer’s market for men.

But point taken about the men looking worse as the years go on. Fortunately women are also easily pleased with money, status and a man’s character in addition to a man’s good looks or lack thereof. So +1 for the older balding guys with a beer belly!


144 posted on 05/12/2017 12:49:45 PM PDT by BJ1
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To: Albion Wilde

And you weren’t there either, hon. My point was that she went into the marriage ‘knowing she didn’t love him.’ That was a CHOICE - not a fault of fate. Love isn’t fallen into or out of, we CHOOSE to love. From the get go, she chose not to love him. Surely he felt that.

And if he didn’t love her, it was because he CHOSE not to. Both of them, in choosing not to love were disobeying God.

Did I know all this 30 years ago? No. Did she? Probably not. Just trying to make it clear to anyone reading that Christians, above all people, should always CHOOSE to love. Irreconcilable differences should never be a reason why a Christian divorces, yet the way I read it, she was excusing it. Just because we commit a wrong, does not mean we should stand in defense of it. We should acknowledge and confess it. I didn’t sense she was doing that.

I did not condemn her, nor did I judge her. I simply tried to point out that she shouldn’t blame her ex for a divorce that her choices clearly played a role in.

And I’m Non-Denominational, religion police. Have a blessed day.


145 posted on 05/12/2017 12:50:19 PM PDT by dubyagee ("I can't complain, but sometimes I still do.")
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To: BJ1

Man to women: Make me a ‘nice’ samwich
Women to man: I will add a special ingredient for extra flavor but first sign these insurance papers.


146 posted on 05/12/2017 1:00:01 PM PDT by minnesota_bound
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To: Albion Wilde

And is it wrong or pious for me to suggest she pray for her ex? ‘Love your enemies’ ring a bell? Quite honestly, she sounds bitter because of his continued bitterness. A little prayer might do them both good.


147 posted on 05/12/2017 1:02:06 PM PDT by dubyagee ("I can't complain, but sometimes I still do.")
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To: HeadOn

#109 Andy Griffith cheated on his wife and had multiple girlfriends during the show including the redhead who was his tv wife.


148 posted on 05/12/2017 1:18:01 PM PDT by minnesota_bound
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To: BJ1

Russian women treat men well? What planet does this come from? They marry American men because they think they’re saps; they do it for citizenship and because they think American men are loaded.

Asian women are thought to be sweet and docile because they are small and fragile in appearance. More deception (although not their fault - it’s guy’s stupidity).


149 posted on 05/12/2017 1:34:56 PM PDT by miss marmelstein
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To: metmom

I’ve been reading The Lonely Guy threads here since I joined in 2001. It never changes.


150 posted on 05/12/2017 1:38:55 PM PDT by miss marmelstein
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To: miss marmelstein

When I was young I traveled a lot. American women were universally hated the world over. I can’t imagine things have changed much.


151 posted on 05/12/2017 1:44:17 PM PDT by central_va (I won't be reconstructed and I do not give a damn.)
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To: central_va

How charming of you to say so. I suppose you’re still looking for Melanie Wilkes to butter your biscuits?


152 posted on 05/12/2017 1:46:10 PM PDT by miss marmelstein
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To: minnesota_bound

Sheldon: __itches be crazy
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hrPpw8A_-xY


153 posted on 05/12/2017 1:46:49 PM PDT by minnesota_bound
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To: MeganC

I see you went to culinary school. I’m there now. Tough! Between algebra and getting yelled at by various cooks and all the dish-washing, I’m wrung out!

Nice post.


154 posted on 05/12/2017 1:49:42 PM PDT by miss marmelstein
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To: miss marmelstein

asian women ftw!


155 posted on 05/12/2017 1:51:14 PM PDT by BJ1
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To: miss marmelstein

Rightly or wrongly American women have a reputation world wide as < insert term for female dog here >.


156 posted on 05/12/2017 1:51:40 PM PDT by central_va (I won't be reconstructed and I do not give a damn.)
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To: central_va

Undoubtedly, wrongly.


157 posted on 05/12/2017 1:52:26 PM PDT by miss marmelstein
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To: central_va; miss marmelstein

If all their exposure is to spoiled, rich women, then they have a skewed view of American women.


158 posted on 05/12/2017 1:56:27 PM PDT by metmom ( ...fixing our eyes on Jesus, the Author and Perfecter of our faith...)
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To: metmom

They see the way they treat their husbands/boyfriends.


159 posted on 05/12/2017 1:58:55 PM PDT by central_va (I won't be reconstructed and I do not give a damn.)
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To: miss marmelstein

Men all want *hot* women and seem to think THEY, especially of all men, deserve one.

Funny how they don’t seem to think that women would like to like to look at what they wake up to in the morning as well.

But you know what?

Long and short of it is that age is NOBODY’S friend.

Past a certain age, attractive is the best qualifier you could apply to either sex.


160 posted on 05/12/2017 2:00:35 PM PDT by metmom ( ...fixing our eyes on Jesus, the Author and Perfecter of our faith...)
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