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I need help with marriage troubles (vanity)
Posted on 12/20/2004 6:41:03 AM PST by kerouacbal
I am 26 years old and have been married for 2 years. I am having trouble growing up and I am driving my wife nuts. It has gotten to the point that my wife talks about divorce almost every day. I want to work this out more then I every wanted anything but I can't seem to do it or do it quick enough. I can't seem to remember consistently to do every day things like take out the garbage make sure all the doors are locked and the heat is off at night (there is a lot more but won't get into it all). I am posting this here to try to get some advise on how to help my self grow up and start to take care of my wife and son better like a husband should. My parents are dead and I don't have a close family member or friend to get advise from. Could someone please help me.
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To: Lazamataz
Max. Max Combined.
361
posted on
12/20/2004 11:56:06 AM PST
by
Max Combined
(Clinton is "the notorious Oval Office onanist")
To: Laura Earl
That you have. I have a very loving and forgiving wife as well. Over all we sound well adjusted. Please take out the garbage when you get home.
362
posted on
12/20/2004 11:56:31 AM PST
by
Conspiracy Guy
(Boycott Boycotts Warrior. If you aint buying call me!)
To: Tijeras_Slim; Laura Earl
Here is the wedding picture of Laura Earl and me.
363
posted on
12/20/2004 12:00:08 PM PST
by
Conspiracy Guy
(Boycott Boycotts Warrior. If you aint buying call me!)
To: dakine
So you want this man, who forced his sick wife to go out in the snow and take out the baby's dirty diapers rather than to get off his ass and do it himself, to go commit adultery to fix things. Nice.
364
posted on
12/20/2004 12:00:22 PM PST
by
Hillary's Lovely Legs
(Some mornings it just doesn't seem worth it to gnaw through the leather straps.)
To: GodfearingTexan
If she is lying to you and has a guy then TAKE THE KIDS!!!
You will never get them back if you dont.
You have as much legal right to them as she does right now- but during a divorce you will lose that.
Get an investigator to find out and get photographs.
365
posted on
12/20/2004 12:00:22 PM PST
by
Mr. K
((this space for rent))
To: aShepard
"She's got to receive an extra allowance that can be her money to spend on what she wants to, without having to account to you, maybe even have her own bank account so she can feel some independence;"
Either that or knock her up again. See how eager she is to divorce you over little BS when she has one in her arms and one in the hamper.
366
posted on
12/20/2004 12:00:26 PM PST
by
Max Combined
(Clinton is "the notorious Oval Office onanist")
To: kerouacbal
I'd divorce you too if you did something like this. It sounds like you alrady know what your problem is, fix it !
To: Lazamataz
It sounds like he has an investment.
368
posted on
12/20/2004 12:01:58 PM PST
by
Max Combined
(Clinton is "the notorious Oval Office onanist")
To: Hillary's Lovely Legs
Funny thing is that you are taking this vanity - SERIOUS!
369
posted on
12/20/2004 12:05:36 PM PST
by
dakine
To: Chunga
"If you drink, stop. If you smoke marijuana, stop."
That sounds like fun, not.
I smoked lots of dope in my younger days and did plenty of drinking too, but I am still married to my wife. I got around to taking the garbage out when I got around to it.
This old boy is probably not taking care of business in the sack.
370
posted on
12/20/2004 12:08:35 PM PST
by
Max Combined
(Clinton is "the notorious Oval Office onanist")
To: Max Combined
I find it funny as hell that we have one side of a story (pitiful at that) and everyone on this board, including myself, has diagnosed the disfunction and recommended a treatment.
371
posted on
12/20/2004 12:11:05 PM PST
by
Rebelbase
(Who is General Chat?)
To: Max Combined
.....See how eager she is to divorce you over little BS when she has one in her arms and one in the hamper......
Oh man, does that bring back some ugly memories.
My ex-wife saw that our four year marriage was slipping apart, so she decided to stop taking the pill without telling me, so we would have another child to bind up the marriage. She got pregnant, but I got so pissed it forced me to look for some strange. So I paid alimony and child support for the next 21 years, to be rid of the bitch!
To: Chunga; Lazamataz
"Get to work on some unpleasant task right now."
Who wants to be married to Ghunga? Anyone? Anyone? Lazamataz? Any masochists out there?
373
posted on
12/20/2004 12:11:46 PM PST
by
Max Combined
(Clinton is "the notorious Oval Office onanist")
To: FastCoyote
If you think it is easy to find a man who cares as much as I do, don't let the door hit you on your fat butt on the way out."Nice Touch!!!
374
posted on
12/20/2004 12:12:26 PM PST
by
Samurai_Jack
(ride out and confront the evil!)
To: muir_redwoods
"Quit drinking, I realize I am making an assumption but many 26 year-olds haven't given up the frat boy life style."
Many 45 year old happily married men still drink.
375
posted on
12/20/2004 12:12:52 PM PST
by
Max Combined
(Clinton is "the notorious Oval Office onanist")
To: Hillary's Lovely Legs
You know, the baby diaper thing..its unforgivable. Any Judge with half a brain would award the woman custody, child support and alimony for such disrespect of marriage.
376
posted on
12/20/2004 12:12:54 PM PST
by
Rebelbase
(Who is General Chat?)
To: John Lenin
Are you admitting you're gay?
377
posted on
12/20/2004 12:14:26 PM PST
by
Rebelbase
(Who is General Chat?)
To: justshutupandtakeit
"Stop getting too stoned."
Yet another wet blanket. The broad is bitc*ing about his not taking out the garbage and threatening to divorce him over not turning the heat down at night. Poor dude probably could use a hit to mellow out from that noise.
378
posted on
12/20/2004 12:15:09 PM PST
by
Max Combined
(Clinton is "the notorious Oval Office onanist")
Comment #379 Removed by Moderator
To: Max Combined
"Many 45 year old happily married men still drink."And darn few of them write to FR for marital advice. With the lack of detail in the original post it seems clear something is wrong. Sadly, alcohol is often the problem or one of the problems.
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