I need help with marriage troubles (vanity)

[Max Combined]

Max. Max Combined.

[Conspiracy Guy]

That you have. I have a very loving and forgiving wife as well. Over all we sound well adjusted. Please take out the garbage when you get home.

[Conspiracy Guy]

Here is the wedding picture of Laura Earl and me.

[Hillary's Lovely Legs]

So you want this man, who forced his sick wife to go out in the snow and take out the baby's dirty diapers rather than to get off his ass and do it himself, to go commit adultery to fix things. Nice.

[Mr. K]

If she is lying to you and has a guy then TAKE THE KIDS!!!

You will never get them back if you dont.

You have as much legal right to them as she does right now- but during a divorce you will lose that.

Get an investigator to find out and get photographs.

[Max Combined]

"She's got to receive an extra allowance that can be her money to spend on what she wants to, without having to account to you, maybe even have her own bank account so she can feel some independence;"

Either that or knock her up again. See how eager she is to divorce you over little BS when she has one in her arms and one in the hamper.

[John Lenin]

I'd divorce you too if you did something like this. It sounds like you alrady know what your problem is, fix it !

[Max Combined]

It sounds like he has an investment.

[dakine]

Funny thing is that you are taking this vanity - SERIOUS!

[Max Combined]

"If you drink, stop. If you smoke marijuana, stop."

That sounds like fun, not.

I smoked lots of dope in my younger days and did plenty of drinking too, but I am still married to my wife. I got around to taking the garbage out when I got around to it.

This old boy is probably not taking care of business in the sack.

[Rebelbase]

I find it funny as hell that we have one side of a story (pitiful at that) and everyone on this board, including myself, has diagnosed the disfunction and recommended a treatment.

[aShepard]

.....See how eager she is to divorce you over little BS when she has one in her arms and one in the hamper......

Oh man, does that bring back some ugly memories.

My ex-wife saw that our four year marriage was slipping apart, so she decided to stop taking the pill without telling me, so we would have another child to bind up the marriage. She got pregnant, but I got so pissed it forced me to look for some strange. So I paid alimony and child support for the next 21 years, to be rid of the bitch!

[Max Combined]

"Get to work on some unpleasant task right now."

Who wants to be married to Ghunga? Anyone? Anyone? Lazamataz? Any masochists out there?

[Samurai_Jack]

If you think it is easy to find a man who cares as much as I do, don't let the door hit you on your fat butt on the way out."

Nice Touch!!!

[Max Combined]

"Quit drinking, I realize I am making an assumption but many 26 year-olds haven't given up the frat boy life style."

Many 45 year old happily married men still drink.

[Rebelbase]

You know, the baby diaper thing..its unforgivable. Any Judge with half a brain would award the woman custody, child support and alimony for such disrespect of marriage.

[Rebelbase]

Are you admitting you're gay?

[Max Combined]

"Stop getting too stoned."

Yet another wet blanket. The broad is bitc*ing about his not taking out the garbage and threatening to divorce him over not turning the heat down at night. Poor dude probably could use a hit to mellow out from that noise.

[muir_redwoods]

"Many 45 year old happily married men still drink."

And darn few of them write to FR for marital advice. With the lack of detail in the original post it seems clear something is wrong. Sadly, alcohol is often the problem or one of the problems.