Posted on 12/09/2022 5:05:02 PM PST by tiredofallofit
Imagine this. You meet a charming man with whom you seem to have an instant connection. This man constantly flatters you, praises you, and makes you feel like you are on top of the world. He gives you gifts, he treats you to fancy meals, and he seems so attentive to all of your needs. You quickly open up to him, sharing with him your deepest desires and dreams. Perhaps you even feel like you are sharing with him secrets about your life that you have not shared with anyone else. You appreciate how he listens and how he seems to reciprocate with sharing his own deepest hopes and emotions. Pretty soon you feel like no else could understand or sympathize with you like he does. You have found your match made in heaven.
(Excerpt) Read more at breakingtraumabonds.com ...
“I was 26 and had just moved to Akron, Ohio. I had traveled all over Asia and South America the previous two years...”
Singapore, Hong Kong, Seoul, Tokyo, Buenos Aires, Rio De Jeneiro........Akron.
I’m double dog glad I’m married to Mr. GG2. The gold stand for reliable and trustworthy. 😊
This always worked for me. Chicks are so gullible. 🤣
Watch Dateline, Dead by Morning etc to see how bad women judge men.
I can. The good woman is the one I would hit it with.
As he lights his cigarette, he says his name is “Bond . . .” He closes his lighter, “Trauma Bond.”
Required reading for all women:
“Men Who Can’t Love”
My wife and I met at our 25th high school reunion. I’d just been dumped by my wife of 20 years. Turns out she had also just been dumped by her husband. But we were in Seattle and she lived in South Dakota.
I was smitten and she came back to see me after I wrote her a heartfelt letter (she would not give me her number), and we had shared 850 emails (printouts of all of them are still in a box) and $3,500 in long distance calls. When she returned I experienced a relationship I thought was only the stuff of fairy tales. I proposed before she returned to SD. I was constantly waiting for the other shoe to drop. It never did. That was 25 years ago and I’m still living with the love of my life, and it only grows stronger.
Whenever something deems too good to be true, it usually is.
Men tend to think with their hormones/anatomy, and women with their emotions.
Both are deadly to a relationship.
A trauma Bond? Yeah I probably have. I’ve always been a good judge of bad women... and I don’t know why that is, because I grew up with sisters.
sweet!
You just about nailed it! Tokyo, Beijing, Shuifu (China, Yunnan Province), Phillipines (Nonoc Island), Guam, Chile, Argentina, Brazil, Mexico, Ecuador, Switzerland, Sardinia.
Akron for 7 months, then back to California for 40 years!
“You meet a charming man with whom you seem to have an instant connection.”
NO!! XD
“This man constantly flatters you, praises you, and makes you feel like you are on top of the world. He gives you gifts, he treats you to fancy meals, and he seems so attentive to all of your needs.”
He’s simping! Tell him to get lost, then go buy a pistol.
XD... this thread is killing it.
Old, balding, ginger, beady eyed Prince Harry is in for a rude awakening when Me Again runs off screaming with the odd looking kids, into Oprah’s understanding arms, humping her tell all book about racissss Harry who gave her beat downs and was a systemic colonialist racisssssssss. And, I’d be super duper worried if I was that Joker looking gf of Bezos...
That is soooooooo wonderful. Sometimes true love comes a bit later.
Trust bombing, dependency, criticism, gaslighting?
Heck, sounds like the anatomy of a first date.
Some folks are just gullible as hell.
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