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1 posted on 03/29/2024 3:56:05 PM PDT by nickcarraway
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There are worse flubs the sister could have made. She sounds like she has zero social skills and needs more time around normal people.


2 posted on 03/29/2024 3:58:52 PM PDT by SauronOfMordor (Either you will rule. Or you will be ruled. There is no other choice.)
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Perhaps I’m in the minority, but I think a big part of this little incident was the guy’s compulsion to “call out” his sister’s behavior and text her and explain to her that she was out of line and that her social behavior ought to be better.

Is that really necessary?

We are adults. Adults don’t change. If she’s a jerk, she will stay a jerk. Being a male “Karen” and lecturing her about her apparent shortcomings is just a way for this guy to feel better about himself and how he “stands up for his wife”.

Seems like that both brother and sister are sort of jerks. Just roll with it, man. Let people be people. You don’t have to straighten out everyone you see.


3 posted on 03/29/2024 4:05:47 PM PDT by ClearCase_guy (It's not "Quiet Quitting" -- it's "Going Galt".)
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I look pregnant and it doesn’t bother me when people that I look pregnant. If it bothered me, I’d do more about it than I do.


4 posted on 03/29/2024 4:05:57 PM PDT by Jonty30 (A rich man is called a sugar daddy. A poor man is called into HR.)
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People say stuff like that. It happened to me when I was younger. I found that saying, no, just fat! while smiling flustered people too much.

It is a bad thing to say because of the possibility of miscarriage or infertility, so I might mention that to someone like hi sister. But I wouldn’t tell them it was rude. I’d say something like “I have learned not to say stuff like that because of the possibility of ... “ instead of saying that it is a rude thing to say.

So she was socially awkward, but he was a bit of a jerk, imho.


7 posted on 03/29/2024 4:12:26 PM PDT by Chicory
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I learned early on that you never congratulate a woman on her pregnancy unless she mentions it first. You may think that she is 9 months pregnant, but she could only be fat.


11 posted on 03/29/2024 4:20:05 PM PDT by Bubba_Leroy ( Dementia Joe is Not My President)
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Just answer. “you’re right, I better switch to light beer. Oh and your dress makes you look heavy. I had one like it and threw it away. Then your bother decided he’d use it for a grease rag to change oil in his truck. How’s your mom?”

Ain’t no end to getting even. Just saying.


12 posted on 03/29/2024 4:23:19 PM PDT by Equine1952
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Reminds me of my friend, Jane, who has a bit of a tummy, I will admit. She told me one day she went into Starbucks and got a coffee and went out on the street and lit a cigarette, and was walking down the street drinking her coffee and smoking her cigarette and a woman came up to her and angrily chastised her for smoking and drinking coffee while pregnant. She thought it hilarious.


14 posted on 03/29/2024 4:25:01 PM PDT by Auntie Mame (Fear not tomorrow. God is already there.)
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I always ask fat females if they are pregnant or just fat. No harm if they’re pregnant. If they’re fat then it’s a wake up call to hit the gym and get a man. That way you can be fat and pregnant.


17 posted on 03/29/2024 4:27:28 PM PDT by HYPOCRACY (Brandon's pronouns: Xi/Hur)
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Wasn’t there a movie with the line “Are you pregnant or just fat?”


18 posted on 03/29/2024 4:27:46 PM PDT by bigbob
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My sister told my wife she looks pregnant — the problem is she’s not>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>

Hey maybe wifey IS pregnant,and your sister might know who by?

Maybe wifey had a mifepristone induced abortion?

Be careful when dealing in generalities.


22 posted on 03/29/2024 4:36:02 PM PDT by Candor7 (Ask not for whom Trump Trolls,He trolls for thee!),<img src="" width=300</img><a href="">tag</a>)
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My very pregnant wife and I worked together and coming to work one morning, we got on an elevator with four men. One of the guys was a heavyset smart ass & said something to the effect that my wife put on few pounds. The guys in the elevator groaned but my wife turned to him and said, my weight goes away next month, how about yours? This was in the 90s and even then, a line had been crossed but my wife’s reply made everyone laugh instead of worrying about getting called into a HR meeting.


23 posted on 03/29/2024 4:37:53 PM PDT by Mean Daddy (Every time Hillary lies, a demon gets its wings. - Windflier)
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Better another woman say this, imagine the eruption if a man suggested it.

Maybe just prone to a pot belly. An otherwise cute girl at the gym has that. My wife suggested she was pregnant too, but only to me at least.


25 posted on 03/29/2024 4:43:53 PM PDT by doorgunner69 (When tyranny becomes law, rebellion becomes duty)
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Spring diet time. At least it is sister and not husband asking!


31 posted on 03/29/2024 5:11:09 PM PDT by Reno89519 (If Biden is mentally unfit to stand trial, he is mentally unfit to be president. He needs to resign.)
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Well, does she have a bigger gut than @$$? It may be indelicate but it’s not complicated. Sisters can be that way.


33 posted on 03/29/2024 5:12:17 PM PDT by Wilderness Conservative (Nature is the ultimate conservative)
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Possible made up social faux pas clickbait...so what?..someone thought that a protuberant belly is a pregnancy? I’m cryin’....generates clicks....


35 posted on 03/29/2024 6:03:52 PM PDT by Getready (Wisdom is more valuable than gold and harder to find.)
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Or he and his wife could have had a good laugh over it and move on.

37 posted on 03/29/2024 6:11:52 PM PDT by Governor Dinwiddie (LORD, grant thy people grace to withstand the temptations of the world, the flesh, and the devil.)
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"It's just some tummy gas from those baked beans I had for dinner."

39 posted on 03/29/2024 6:20:15 PM PDT by Songcraft ( )
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After my wife gave birth, they pumped her so full of fluid that she was heavier the day AFTER giving birth! She was struggling down a hallway and someone told her it would be so much easier after giving birth...”That was [multiple expletives deleted] yesterday!”


43 posted on 03/29/2024 7:01:12 PM PDT by Mr Rogers (We're a nation of feelings, not thoughts.)
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Oooooh. Bad move, pal.


54 posted on 03/30/2024 7:50:59 AM PDT by VideoPaul
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I’d make her cut out excess sugars and do planks.


60 posted on 03/31/2024 9:32:47 AM PDT by Sirius Lee (Tonight on The Bickersons... )
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